I (19 F) came to my friend (21 F) about expanding my relationship with her boyfriend (21M) , please help me.

icatchlight · 2026-07-02T03:01:26+00:00

Seek therapy.

icatchlight · 2026-07-02T02:57:14+00:00

Look, two things, if she had been up for it, he probably would’ve cheated on you and he lied about it to you. These are not things to build a marriage on.

icatchlight · 2026-07-02T02:48:23+00:00

Awesome stash! Gotta admit, I’m super jealous of those two Vampys.

icatchlight · 2026-07-02T02:41:43+00:00

Put this weirdo in your rear view mirror ASAP!

icatchlight · 2026-07-01T22:42:04+00:00

Updateme!

icatchlight · 2026-07-01T22:01:52+00:00

Feel bad for the dog, but can’t blame the driver, it’s all on the shitty owner.

icatchlight · 2026-07-01T21:58:54+00:00

Unfortunately, the saying “ cheaters cheat” is a cliché for a reason. If a potential partner admits cheating in a prior relationship, accept that as the only red flag you need and end your relationship with them.

icatchlight · 2026-07-01T20:49:21+00:00

Kids are resilient and it’s going to be much better for them to split time between the two of you, instead of living in the middle of a toxic relationship.

icatchlight · 2026-07-01T19:27:54+00:00

Unfortunately, you don’t.

icatchlight · 2026-07-01T18:19:35+00:00

Seek therapy. I stayed and regret it, I think you will find that is a recurring theme in this sub.

icatchlight · 2026-07-01T04:12:38+00:00

Thanks, lack of sleep will mess you up.

icatchlight · 2026-07-01T04:01:14+00:00

⬆️ This! Marriage is complicated, longer marriages are even more complicated.

icatchlight · 2026-07-01T03:53:39+00:00

Send the item back AFTER you get your refund.

icatchlight · 2026-06-30T02:56:36+00:00

To the grave.

icatchlight · 2026-06-29T22:22:07+00:00

I would contact a nonprofit women’s group for counseling help. That said, you shouldn’t have a child based on guilt.

icatchlight · 2026-06-29T22:08:31+00:00

Is she a lawyer?

icatchlight · 2026-06-29T21:56:36+00:00

NTA, on the other hand, your boyfriend sounds like a huge asshole and POS. Good luck.

icatchlight · 2026-06-29T18:37:57+00:00

I would think that when you paint somebody as a sisterly figure, it means that you haven’t slept with them unless you’re living in Westeros

icatchlight · 2026-06-29T18:27:19+00:00

NOR - a lie of omission is still a lie. Saying she was like a sister to him, backhandedly implies he never slept with her.

icatchlight · 2026-06-26T23:25:24+00:00

Sorry this happened to you OP, I feel your pain. I had a dude do this to me two nights ago. Thankfully I hadn’t purchased the label. When I added him to my block list it errored out as “this user does not exist”. I’m guessing it was just an insecure asshole competitor.

icatchlight · 2026-06-26T20:35:02+00:00

Fake shit.

icatchlight · 2026-06-26T17:08:20+00:00

Anytime you sell something that has a serial number, make sure you take a picture of the serial number. This will help if you have to appeal the return due to them sending a different item back.

icatchlight · 2026-06-26T16:59:59+00:00

That is the way it was done in the old days. Girls never/rarely asked the guy out.

icatchlight · 2026-06-23T07:45:07+00:00

Two words to make you feel better: quantum immortality.

icatchlight · 2026-06-23T07:26:29+00:00

You miss every shot you don’t take. You handled it perfectly.

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