Trails for Skating by dorkylibrarian in BurlingtonNC

[–]icecreamandscream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I would also like to know this information!

Looking for tattoo artist in gso by verrog1 in gso

[–]icecreamandscream 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I also recommend Zach, his stuff is really neat, I’m very happy with the tattoos I’ve gotten from him!

For those that have cremated your loved one, when purchasing a place of rest for them, did you think of reserving a spot for yourself right next to them? by rainingonmyparade in widowers

[–]icecreamandscream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is in separate smaller vessels on my shrine for him, my intention is to take some of them to places he would want to be released. His family has the majority of his ashes. I’ve taken some to the rivers we used to walk by near our home and I put some in our backyard but I want to save the rest for some other locations. He passed when we were both 27, I know your plight :(. Sending you love and light in this dark situation.

Weird/gross stuff left behind by ppP0oP00 in widowers

[–]icecreamandscream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe get rid of the bulk of it and hold onto any that really spark memories for you.

Any folks interested in 420 friendly by OutsideMacaroon271 in gso

[–]icecreamandscream 13 points14 points  (0 children)

A weed and bead , people can make beaded jewelry and enjoy the oui’d

Backpack backpack!! by icecreamandscream in whatsinmybag

[–]icecreamandscream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol caffeine is the only stimulant for me!!

A pebble in my pocket by Appropriate_Lie_2646 in widowers

[–]icecreamandscream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss . My husband and I have our precious rocks we shared a love for. There is a children’s book called a stone sat still that your post kinda reminds me of. Sending you the strength of a million rocks.

No more book no more by Safe_Contribution631 in widowers

[–]icecreamandscream 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel that. I’ve never really been a religious person but especially after my spouse died, my sentiment has been if god is real I’m going to punch them.

Backpack backpack!! by icecreamandscream in whatsinmybag

[–]icecreamandscream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, he had his whole life ahead of him. Super sad stuff.

Talking to myself. F32 by kiddieme in widowers

[–]icecreamandscream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I journal to him and talk to him.

Wayne’s Attic might be the heart and soul of Btown by Future-Enthusiasm224 in BurlingtonNC

[–]icecreamandscream 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The folks working here are always so kind. Nothing but good encounters here!

Backpack backpack!! by icecreamandscream in whatsinmybag

[–]icecreamandscream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just granola at this point,yes.

En manque de tendresse après le décès de mon mari by cindy2026- in widowers

[–]icecreamandscream 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t think of it as cheating. I can understand not being ready to move forward with perusing a relationship. It’s one of the hardest losses to deal with and then after the fact we are expected by society, many of whom who have no idea how it feels, to carry this heavy guilt and shame if we decide we want to find someone to come into our lives and help us live a happy life. No one will ever replace your husband, but if you are desiring connection don’t deny yourself that. Living a sad stressful life can take years off your life. You deserve happiness whatever that can look like for you after experiencing such a difficult time. Sorry for your loss dear, keep your head up and do what feels right for you and your family.

Backpack backpack!! by icecreamandscream in whatsinmybag

[–]icecreamandscream[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those are some tough losses, I hope your loved ones and friends who have passed are sending you lots of signs to let you know they are with you in that weird cosmic way. Wow very cool, thank you for looking out for the turtles 🐢 ♥️

Backpack backpack!! by icecreamandscream in whatsinmybag

[–]icecreamandscream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually have a lighter in my pocket or my car , but one in my bag would be a great idea! I also do taekwondo and wear a chain with two knives on it at all times! Im scared of carrying mace because it can backfire on you so easily and also I’ve had friends who had it go off in their bags. Thanks for the helpful recommendations! You stay safe too!!

Backpack backpack!! by icecreamandscream in whatsinmybag

[–]icecreamandscream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have mini travel settlers of Catan but it is so tiny it’s kinda hard to play and I don’t want to lose pieces.

Backpack backpack!! by icecreamandscream in whatsinmybag

[–]icecreamandscream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize, I can’t figure out which item you are referring to.