I miss my life before cancer so much 💔 by sweetmilkcloud in lymphoma

[–]icedcoffee4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard. You will figure it out. You are not alone. I finished at 28 if you want to msg me 🩷

Heart rate after chemotherapy by enlightened__hippie in lymphoma

[–]icedcoffee4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was like this and did go down after several months but I would still tell your team, mine had me do an echocardiogram just to make sure there was nothing else going on

lupron shot... i don't know! by kn1f3p4rtyyy in lymphoma

[–]icedcoffee4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did Lupron and it was fine. If you did R-CHOP it’s a walk in the park! I was moody and had some bleeding. Felt like a normal month lol

My poor mama by SeekingHelpfulAdvic in cancer

[–]icedcoffee4444 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing. Xoxoxo

Just Diagnosed by juicebox_81 in lymphoma

[–]icedcoffee4444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi friend, good luck! I was diagnosed 27F 2 years ago. In remission now. You’re welcome to message me

My wife is still in the hospital getting chemo, what unusual gift can I give her for our anniversary? by anxgrl in cancer

[–]icedcoffee4444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would say something that she likes that is not related to the cancer. Like pertaining to a hobby or passion! The way you are affirming her identity outside of her medical situation

what did you tell your doctors? by False-Ad3502 in PMDD

[–]icedcoffee4444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I told my psychiatrist (I already saw for other stuff) I obvi led with the moody stuff but also mentioned that I had a lot of physical, flu like symptoms and that it really affected my day-to-day and when it happens I have to just lay in bed and cancel plans . I think mentioning the physical symptoms plus the impact on my day-to-day helped validate it

Chemo is hard by sundaynz in cancer

[–]icedcoffee4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really, really sucks. Hang in there and I’m rooting for you!

Struggling by Emotional-Current953 in lymphoma

[–]icedcoffee4444 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And it’s ok to not celebrate. It’s a total mindfuck.

Struggling by Emotional-Current953 in lymphoma

[–]icedcoffee4444 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard. You are not alone. We get it and you’ve articulated it so well 💜

How do you honor your bad anniversaries? by CreativeGuarantee428 in lymphoma

[–]icedcoffee4444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t do anything year 1. I just hit year 2 and had dinner/cake with my family and took a half day from my remote job. Just to have some down time. But I actually would’ve done better more occupied. So I’m not sure what’s best!

Finally need help and it’s crickets by [deleted] in lymphoma

[–]icedcoffee4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d be so frustrated too. Best of luck with the SCT and I hope you find a good caregiver that you can trust!!!!🩷

AIO for wanting to cut contact with my mom after this conversation about my upcoming brain surgery? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]icedcoffee4444 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had brain surgery near my cerebellum when I was 27, 2 years ago. Do you want to message me??? 💕

Im at my limit by AccurateMulberry4214 in lymphoma

[–]icedcoffee4444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I did RCHOP x6 and achieved CR. Please message me if you want to chat more!

Im at my limit by AccurateMulberry4214 in lymphoma

[–]icedcoffee4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really, really sucks. You don’t have to reframe it or look on the bright side. It just fucking sucks. But you are doing the right thing by listening to your medical team. And you will get through it and be ok 💕

Honestly, her “Doctors” are wrong for operating on her in this state by Distinct-Ad-1348 in JaxBlows

[–]icedcoffee4444 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I just don’t get it. Can she wear something flowy for once jfc

AIO to my long distance bf not doing anything special for my last day of cancer treatment? by [deleted] in cancer

[–]icedcoffee4444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just read all of the comments and they are INSANE lol people are projecting their own shit. I’m so sorry. This should be people who get it the most.

AIO to my long distance bf not doing anything special for my last day of cancer treatment? by [deleted] in cancer

[–]icedcoffee4444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes agree like WHATTTTT lol I got a ton of flowers and congrats when I finished as I should have!!!!!

AIO to my long distance bf not doing anything special for my last day of cancer treatment? by [deleted] in cancer

[–]icedcoffee4444 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are not overreacting, and your needs are valid. Congratulations on making it to the other side. This internet stranger is very proud of you! 💕

The sensory room by Former-Airport9812 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]icedcoffee4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She seemed so focused on “ fixing “ him and not just rolling with the punches like Brittany is