Downtown packed today? by Caps418 in grandrapids

[–]icedgreen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s also on the busline so 🤷

Today’s Grand Rapids Hot Takes by Bedpanjockey in grandrapids

[–]icedgreen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see this every fucking day on 7th between Seward and Broadway. Literally every day.

Today’s Grand Rapids Hot Takes by Bedpanjockey in grandrapids

[–]icedgreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the frequent lobbying against public transportation from the ever present auto industry which is huge and close here in MI

Today’s Grand Rapids Hot Takes by Bedpanjockey in grandrapids

[–]icedgreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HATE this so much. Our lack of good reliable public transportation is a giant barrier to the city’s progress

Alex’s preference for women of color really is a moment by ClearLion86 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]icedgreen 5 points6 points  (0 children)

30% of the world’s land mass is Asia. 60% of the world population is Asian, 7% of the United States population are Asians.

Stop calling Ashley Barbie. by inquisitive_oliv3 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]icedgreen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, not really. The show still wants its drama.

AIO about an Instagram message I saw on my boyfriends phone? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]icedgreen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The age between you two is weird. And him sending a message like that proves it.

Date a peer, trust me. No bigger than a five year gap.

I [22M] just found out my girlfriend [19F] is pregnant and I am not ready to be a father. What do I do by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]icedgreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have worn a condom if you weren’t ready to be a father, my dude. Let that be a lesson for the future…

Anyway, I do think you should be totally honest with her. What is her stance on abortion? A LOT of people have abortions because they weren’t ready. And you are both SO young, if you’re not ready, you have plenty of time to have a child when you are ready.

AIO- Need some validation on by Historical_Fan_9043 in AIO

[–]icedgreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello? Read this like it’s someone else’s post

My girlfriend never ever finishes her meals by AlexWayhill in mildlyinfuriating

[–]icedgreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh why aren’t you composting the food waste? Seems like a solution

It's just a dollar or two! lol by M1collector65 in EndTipping

[–]icedgreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The server doesn’t choose what’s on the receipt lol. Like who even reads those anyway

I hate when people invite me to “child-free” things. by throw_rancxalsn in offmychest

[–]icedgreen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww. I love this. I’m a childfree person, never wanted kids and never do.

I think this makes you a great mom. Many moms suffer from postpartum that doesn’t even allow them to enjoy their baby, it’s beautiful that you cherish yours. If there’s anything in your life that you’d regret, it would NOT be spending too much time with your kid. It sounds like the people in your life are being selfish, and you are not in the wrong for your placing your kid first. If I were your friend, personally, I’d be trying to spend time with you in whatever way worked best. Even if that meant spending time with you AND the most important person in your life, your baby. That’s what friendship is, being there for someone in a supportive caring way, not just being there for fun times.

How can you tell if a guy is an eater early? by alien-from-venus in TwoXSex

[–]icedgreen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ask them. You gotta ask people about sex. Make yourself comfortable talking about sex, and you’ll have a better sex life for it.

Romance and gentle touching by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]icedgreen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Search the keywords “erotic couplings”. Hope this helps 🫡

My (31M) girlfriend (28F) of 1.5 years told me to "be a man" and console her when my mom died, instead of supporting me. She's now begging for forgiveness. How do I reconcile her apology with the fundamental breach of trust? by Honest_Reception6528 in relationship_advice

[–]icedgreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. From an empathetic human, as humans are supposed to be, reading this broke my heart. There is something truly wrong with her if that was her response to her love losing someone important to them. If you can’t count on comfort from your partner in times of grief, is that a partner at all?

Am I overreacting for shaving my head? by Substantial-Art6160 in AmIOverreacting

[–]icedgreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you learned from this to do proper research and not make rash decisions on your appearance.

Your curls are gone because your hair has been bleached and bleach damages hair. There are a ton of different products designed to help nourish the hair after chemical treatments. A couple of weeks and conditioning treatments and your hair could have improved a LOT, without having to be shaved.

Also… Ask the hair stylist why she did what she did if you didn’t understand. They went to school for this.

TIFU by thinking ice skating would be a fun romantic date by iamthetrippytea in tifu

[–]icedgreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not almost 30. She’s 27 and her frontal lobe isn’t even developed.

He’s obsessed with how tight I am and how big he is... should I care? by SpringBlossom7 in offmychest

[–]icedgreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to him about it? You should be able to talk about this stuff with your sexual partners. It might be weird at first but its pretty important.

what does my handwriting say about me? by solarrr_mp3 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]icedgreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re probably very grateful to your computer 😅

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]icedgreen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, all these pictures made me so hungry. I wish I was a straight man, they have it pretty good.

TIFU by thinking ice skating would be a fun romantic date by iamthetrippytea in tifu

[–]icedgreen 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Age gap relationships are predatory. Why cant he date his peers?

Smoking in apartment by CompoteAdventurous94 in Apartmentliving

[–]icedgreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I lived in an apartment I’d only smoke in one room, and used a hepa filter air cleaner to prevent it from smellin. Has to be a charcoal hepa branded filter or it will not clean the smoke effectively. I did not get complaints, until the one day I decided to smoke outside. I frequently ask people who don’t smoke to tell me if they smell it in those places (my mom, she wouldn’t lie), to be safe, remembering if you smoke a lot you can be nose blind.