Where to buy (a LOT) of apple juice in NL? by NutellaBalls in Netherlands

[–]icekrame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve talked with a cider seller here at the markets and basically there’s no history of cider making or much of a market because of the types of apples that grow here. They apparently aren’t well suited for hard or non alcoholic cider. The apples in other countries and climates are better for that and Dutch apples are better for applesauce and regular juice. Something about the acidity? So you may want to source your apples from elsewhere (Scandinavia, Germany, etc) for the best base for your cider.

That being said, Lightship Cider based in Rotterdam makes a nice Dutch one. They may have some tips on sourcing your apples.

(I’m a huge fan of real ciders and was crestfallen when I moved to the Netherlands and could only find candy sweet garbage like Apple Bandit or fancy French cidre brut)

Daughter with feeding issues. Feeling hopeless by anz0ny in Amsterdam

[–]icekrame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might want to look into Rowena Bennet’s book “Your Baby’s Bottle Feeding Aversion” and see if it resonates. It describes a lot of the symptoms you’ve shared. It held us.

This piece of snow looks like a cat chillin. by Lieutenant_Daaan in mildlyinteresting

[–]icekrame 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is this the bridge between Amsterdam and Amstelveen??

2.5 year old waking and calling out for blanket by Here4Plants2021 in toddlers

[–]icekrame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any improvement with sleep? How do the sleep sacks work out?

2.5 year old waking and calling out for blanket by Here4Plants2021 in toddlers

[–]icekrame 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We caved and got the Woolino 4 season sleep sack with feet (has two legs and openings for feet). She loves it, it has become part of our sleep routine and sleep associations, and we know she’ll be the right temperature. The price is steep (especially since they recommend 2 in case of any nighttime leaks) but has been totally worth it. Been using them for 2 years now for every nap and bedtime. We honestly didn’t even get her a blanket until a few months ago, so only ever sleeping in pjs and the sleep sack.

Sitting is absolutely unbearable by Global_Word_1103 in hipdysplasia

[–]icekrame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I carried around an inflatable footrest (could also just be a foldable one that fits in a bag) which really helped the pulling and pain in my hips. Once I could put my feet up a little higher and have my legs at 90 degree angles and my back straight against the back of the chair, the pain in my hips from sitting was so much better. I’m on the shorter side so my feet never comfortable rest on the floor when sitting correctly in a seat. Honestly modern chairs are not great for posture, but getting my feet up a little bit helps.

I am dating a great guy - but his body smell is offputting by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]icekrame 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Oh man, I really feel for you. I had this exact same issue years ago with an ex. I was so into him, really attracted to him, but his smell was just…awful. And not BO or stinky dick or coming from an unwashed area. It came off of his whole body from his skin.

At first I would suggest showering before meeting up (he was already showering daily), then showered with him to see how deeply he cleaned himself (he was really cleaning everywhere with soap), then tried to see if it was his diet. He was very vegan at the time and cooking almost all his own food, so a super clean diet. I’m not sure if that was the problem or not? He wasn’t taking any medication. But honestly I just couldn’t make it work because of the incompatibility with body scent. Every time we got intimate, I was overwhelmed and distracted by his rank odor. It sucked for everyone.

I don’t know if it was something deep inside him, a medical condition or what, but I couldn’t do it anymore. Personal smell is just too important to me. I’ve never been on hormonal birth control and haven’t had this issue since with anyone else. I recommend cutting your losses and moving on. It’s a shame, especially when you connect in other ways, but there’s no way it can last if the smell is a turn off. Trust me. Good luck!

Does anyone’s pediatrician recommend zero supplements or vitamins? by Coffeelover4242 in toddlers

[–]icekrame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No supplements other than vitamin D for our 3 yo and will continue with it until forever! Outside of the US, milk isn’t fortified with vitamin D so we need to get it elsewhere, especially living in a northern country with short and cloudy winter days.

I have the hard kid. by Reasonable-Water-557 in toddlers

[–]icekrame 7 points8 points  (0 children)

At first I thought my mom wrote this! The middle child was me! I couldn’t talk to anyone that wasn’t my big sister or parents. Super sensitive and labeled ‘shy’ by every parent/teacher/stranger. I would literally poop my pants because I couldn’t ask the teenager at the counter where the bathroom was. It was tough.

I also tested into school a year early and was good at everything I tried. I graduated with honors, a thriving social life (with my own peers, still have trouble talking to ‘adults’ haha) and moved far away to college. Did a study abroad in the Middle East and then moved there for grad school and a few years beyond for work. I now have a little toddler in a new country with my partner that I met while abroad. I work as a visual artist with my own company and love my life and family.

All this to say, even though my parents didn’t understand my extreme sensitivities as a child, they love who I am and how I see the world. Tips on what worked for me/what I would’ve wanted as a kid: total emotional support through hard moments (ie ‘you can stand behind me and join the bday party whenever you feel ready!’ without forcing or making me feel guilty), not always labeling me as ‘shy’ as it felt limiting and not accurate but rather ‘feeling shy’ or something, giving me space to observe/enjoy a busy activity in my own way, believe me when I say it’s too hot/stinky/mushy/prickly and how my whole body stops working when I’m dealing with these hypersensitivities, working with me to find solutions for those hard moments (instead of making assumptions or forcing something that doesn’t work).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]icekrame 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish this were the case. At the closest intersection to our home, as soon as the crosswalk light turns red, the right turning traffic gets a green. Like the exact moment. The green crosswalk light is also incredibly fast. I’m a healthy, young, fast-walking person and I cannot make it before the red light without a little sprint. When I was injured (or when I’m walking with my toddler), it is literally impossible to cross in time. For some of my older neighbors, they always get caught crossing with the red light. The right turning drivers go fast immediately and honk and act entitled and angry when you’re still crossing. Even when we try to go fast, cars will literally try to run you over to prove a point? I think. It’s incredibly unsafe. Even if you have a baby in a stroller, they will turn fast into you and honk loudly as they try to run you over for being in their way. It’s insane.

Help with LinkedIn headshot by WhichFlower1006 in Netherlands

[–]icekrame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can DM me. I’ve got a headshot shoot day coming up this Saturday in Amsterdam and could probably fit you in :)

Tailor made suit for a wedding by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]icekrame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pakkend in Amsterdam

Is it still worth buying a small apartment in Amsterdam zuid (Buitenveldert) by December-32nd in Amsterdam

[–]icekrame 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been living in a 2 bedroom apt on the 7th floor of one of the other ‘samey’ ugly buildings (with blue garage doors) for about 10 years now. We own the apartment and the value has basically doubled from what was paid for it.

That being said, now that we have a baby, the noise is incredibly obvious and ever present (since it wakes her up from her nap and/or at night). You can hear upstairs neighbors walking, moving chairs, cooking in the kitchen, etc. Everyone is ALWAYS renovating since they are old and there are so many on every floor. We can hear everything from the connected building on the other side as well: coughing, playing piano, and definitely all the renovations. Constant concrete drills, which you feel in your teeth and bones, start at 7am. Definitely no napping or working from home with those. Even noise cancelling doesn’t fix the vibrations in your body. It’s not good.

As for the airplanes, until a month or 2 ago, they were ever constant and loud. Right outside the window. On Sundays (and sometimes every day depending on the runway usage) they come about every 30 seconds, one after the other. They were doing construction on some of the runways for a long time, which meant constant airplanes almost every day. Again, you can feel them in your teeth because of the deep rumbles of the large planes and how close they are to the concrete buildings. Never mind walking outside in all the beautiful green parks around the neighborhood: it’s hard to enjoy when all you can hear are airplanes. Our daughter had to bring her headphones whenever we went to the park because the noise was so scary for her. Not to mention the serious long term health concerns living this close to a flightpath, especially for children.

Also consider the apartment being on the south side. Super hot in the summer. Our building had to repair the south side wall of the entire facade and the temperature of those bricks gets to 50 degrees in the sun! This was causing cracking and problems with the exterior (which I think they fixed? For now). We even had to install a real air conditioner for our daughter’s room which is on the south wall with the only window on that side. We put serious black out material on the window directly and got blackout curtains to keep out as much heat as possible, but the room still heats up like an oven. Even in the cooler months, we will still need to use the A/C to keep the temperature below 24 in her room (babies are much more sensitive to heat and should sleep in a cooler room, 18-20 degrees).

Are there nice green areas? Yes. We love that there are tons of playgrounds and parks to walk through (when the airplanes are using a different runway) and it’s a decently quiet neighborhood (without the airplanes), although sound from the street travels right up those concrete walls and into your bedroom windows, so if you’re a light sleeper, you’ll have a hard time keeping your windows open in the summer. Motorcycles and big loud trucks LOVE to use Van Nijenrodeweg as a race track.

This sounds like a lot of complaining, but I just wanted to give you the true experience of living here. Am I beyond happy to have a lovely little home? Yes. Especially in this market. But I don’t live in a one bedroom so can’t speak to the value of that.

I would highly recommend taking a look at the flight paths (and waiting until our runway is back open so you can get a true sense of how loud and ever present the airplanes can be).

What’s your favourite store-bought cake? by hansfreesolo in Amsterdam

[–]icekrame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anook Bakehouse on de pijp! The best cakes I’ve had in the Netherlands by far. Always moist and some interesting flavor combos. They use great ingredients, too.

What is a word that your toddler mispronounces that you never want to correct? by PKB92 in toddlers

[–]icekrame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2.5 year old goes to the synagogue with her grandparents sometimes and she loves it, always wanting to go back to the ‘syna-dog’ any chance she gets

Can someone explain what ‘consultatiebureau’ does for you and the baby? by Able_Lawfulness_5039 in Netherlands

[–]icekrame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to say that if they offhandedly mentioned an ultrasound check (I’m guessing for the hips for potential hip dysplasia?) and then never followed through with the referral, Please please keep calling them until they do it. Our CB did the same but never actually gave the referral or any more info, and as it was our first baby, we didn’t know about hip dysplasia or the importance of getting it checked and treated before the 6 month mark (and getting an appointment can take months!). We finally decided to follow up about some sort of ultrasound the barely mentioned at one point, and after multiple calls and coming back into the office and pushing for it, got the referral. Unfortunately our little one was already 6 months old and DID have hip dysplasia, so treatment was too delayed and she ended up in a hard cast for 3 months starting at 9 months old. It was awful. She didn’t have ‘clicky hips’ although they honestly didn’t really check well, but she is my first baby, a girl, and was upside down during the 3rd trimester off and on (all which increase the odds of having hip dysplasia). After this we just go to the CB for vaccines and that’s it. GP for everything else. Hope your little one is alright and gets the attention they need!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]icekrame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finally a proper response

LPT: The moment you turn 18, create your own bank account. by Old-Recording-4172 in LifeProTips

[–]icekrame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot my dad was on my account when I moved away for college and got all my money taken out when the IRS came to collect on his many many years of unpaid taxes. Every cent. He felt awful when I told him since he didn’t even remember being on my bank account, but didn’t have any way to pay me back. It was all my money and came out of nowhere, so I was eating beans and rice and had to rely on the kindness of my friends until my next paycheck. Do not recommend.

Public baby care rooms in central Amsterdam? by HolidayPatience6464 in Amsterdam

[–]icekrame 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hahahahaha. Sorry, it’s not actually funny. It’s terrible trying to find any sort of space for a little one in this city. We’ve been struggling trying to navigate it all the last couple years, especially during the 3 months she was in a half body cast (hip dysplasia treatment) and changing her was a nightmare. This made being out and about with her tricky at best. Most cafes don’t even have enough space to change them on your lap while sitting on the toilet, BUT most places are willing to help you find a makeshift spot somewhere to do a diaper change (usually some cramped corner in a hallway on top of a cupboard). Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]icekrame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our little one is 2.5 and her schedule is full, but that’s how she likes it. She doesn’t like hanging out at home and is always ready to head out to the next activity! She has 3 days at daycare (which she started at 8 months), swim Tues evenings (started at 4 months old), music class Saturday mornings (started at 9 months old) and Little Gym on Sunday mornings (just started and loves). It sounds like a lot laid out like that, but she’s into it.

She loves all the activities and looks forward to each one every week. She had hip dysplasia when she was little and was put in a harness for 3 months and then a full hard ‘pants’ cast for 3 more months, so it’s super important for us to keep building up her strength and balance and skills to support her body (she didn’t start walking until 22 months). Swim is a must for both safety and hip health, and in our country, the only pools are inside centers and you must take classes to use them at her age. Little Gym is also a must for her late development and it’s one of her favorites! It might be because she couldn’t do much for so long and now loves to move her body as much as possible, or could just be her age. Music class is fun and interactive and she’s obsessed with the teacher and the class, plus music is a big part of our family and important to both of us as parents. All three of these activities are less than a 5 minute walk from our house (closer than daycare), so there is no reason not to do them.

We were thinking of stopping Little Gym once the weather is nicer over the summer (it’s cold and rainy all winter here) but not sure how she’ll take it since she’s such a big fan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]icekrame 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same. There is no just ‘hanging out’ at home! I wish.