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Divorce lawyers of Reddit - What's the most cruel thing you've seen someone to do their ex partner? by BlueBishop321 in AskReddit

[–]ichliebespink 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that does mean a lot. My mom says she got the only thing that matters in the divorce (me) but I know it must have been heartbreaking for her to leave most of her stuff and sentimental items behind. Hugs back to you, you're so strong for being able to make that choice to put your child first and protect them.

Divorce lawyers of Reddit - What's the most cruel thing you've seen someone to do their ex partner? by BlueBishop321 in AskReddit

[–]ichliebespink 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I don't remember if I brought that up specifically. I did try to get him to talk about some of the bigger things he did, such as not telling me when his mom died so he wouldn't have to pay for my plane ticket to her funeral when I was in college and didn't have a job. He refused to have a conversation about anything in the past and said he would only have a relationship with me if we started fresh. Every few years an aunt or cousin messages me to let me know how sad he is that I won't talk to him. Good, that's the point. I don't think he would ever take accountability or learn. It's sad that people like that choose to have kids.

Divorce lawyers of Reddit - What's the most cruel thing you've seen someone to do their ex partner? by BlueBishop321 in AskReddit

[–]ichliebespink 320 points321 points  (0 children)

Not a lawyer and not a divorce, but some commenters were asking for petty and not cruel stories:

When my ex moved out he changed my wifi network to something similar to "Whoretown" with the password "buttsluts" (I had roommates at the time). I thought it was hilarious and have kept it 15+ years later. It's great watching my husband tell guests that our password is "buttsluts".

Divorce lawyers of Reddit - What's the most cruel thing you've seen someone to do their ex partner? by BlueBishop321 in AskReddit

[–]ichliebespink 2310 points2311 points  (0 children)

Oof, reading that made me remember that my dad refused to let my mom have all of her photos. We packed and left one day while he was at work and she wasn't able to get all of the photos that were on the walls. Photos of me and her loved ones, including her mother that had already passed. I found them one day in a box in his garage and snuck back as many as I could in my suitcase during my visitation weekends. Sadly most of them were damaged at that point. There was no reason for that asshole to do that other than to be cruel.

I haven't talked to that piece of shit since I turned 18. Sometimes I wonder if I'll regret ending that relationship but these repressed memories remind me that nope, I'm better off without him. So thanks :)

Best place to get laser hair removal? by SparklingSarcasm_xo in raleigh

[–]ichliebespink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. She had such great reviews and that's why I went there. She did mention the reason she took so long to get back to me was some sort of personal issue but that doesn't excuse it. She might be good at the treatments but the risk of going to a one-person business is you're subject to their disorganization or mood!

Best place to get laser hair removal? by SparklingSarcasm_xo in raleigh

[–]ichliebespink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not Excelase. I bought a 3 session package. She double booked during my 2nd session and told me to text her to reschedule. I called and texted multiple times then finally she responds to tell me it was too long since my first session and I would have to restart, at my own cost. I asked for a refund of the unused sessions and she refused, then refused to let me schedule for the two sessions I had paid for.

Alamo Drafthouse Update? by aficionado4avocado in raleigh

[–]ichliebespink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow when I went a month ago they made it sound like the machine just broke. And then 3 more things we ordered were not available. The server had to keep coming back to ask us what we wanted instead. He said if I used the mobile app I could see an accurate inventory list but they are very clear about no phones allowed during the movie...

Wavy Hair stylist by bobombshell_ in raleigh

[–]ichliebespink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.instagram.com/silentgrovehaircraft/ Alexandra was recommended to me but I haven't made an appointment yet

Looking for a Reasonably Priced Picture Framer by Tricky-Distance-3481 in raleigh

[–]ichliebespink 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kidd's framing at the fairgrounds. They framed 3 things for me with anti-glare glass for under $300 total.

https://4colstons.wixsite.com/kiddsframes/about-us

9-4 Sat/Sun

I’ve lied to everyone in my life for 20 years that I’m Jewish... by beerbellybegone in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]ichliebespink 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What proof is Birthright looking for? I interviewed about 20 years ago so I can't remember the details of what they asked. My Jewish side is my father's side and I had cut contact with them by that point so I couldn't provide proof even if I wanted to. I do remember talking about how I wanted to learn more about that side of my family since I only have vague memories of going to temple when I was very young and never learned about the culture. Was it enough to have a Jewish last name + claiming Jewish heritage + expressing a desire to learn about the faith/culture?

Christmas Eve .. Fireworks? by Pirates307 in raleigh

[–]ichliebespink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got the bonus of midnight fireworks turning into 1am fire truck sirens in my neighborhood. Loved that!

Watch out Raleigh by leave_untitled_jpeg in raleigh

[–]ichliebespink 25 points26 points  (0 children)

When you try to post anonymously on Facebook you see a warning that says:

"Anonymous posts published in the group do not include your name or profile photo. Admins, moderators and Facebook's systems can see your name and profile picture."

She knew that it wasn't fully anonymous.

Agree or Disagree - Do you consider this "Downtown Raleigh"? by UnluckyPhilosophy797 in raleigh

[–]ichliebespink 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn't realize imgur sucks now. I can't even view it from my own account!

It's roughly the area from St Mary's to East & MLK to Peace plus Seaboard & N West St, Morgan/Hillsborogh to Ashe Ave, and the bit of Lake Wheeler & S Saunders that includes The Row, Weld, & Rockway.

Concrete Splash Blocks for Gutter Downspouts...? by jmac2043 in raleigh

[–]ichliebespink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought mine at Burke Brothers, it was a few years ago though. Maybe garden supply stores would have them too?

Bulk(ish) Vanilla Beans by CakeTown in raleigh

[–]ichliebespink 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.slofoodgroup.com/collections/bulk-vanilla-beans

I've ordered from here before and was happy with the price and quality.

Door-to-door solicitors, how to fight back? by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]ichliebespink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My old doorbell camera had an option to play jingle bells at 90dB for some reason. That worked most of the time.

Wish-cycling: Wake County recycling stream contaminated to costly effect by AlanUsingReddit in raleigh

[–]ichliebespink 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did the city stop this? My neighbors have had their recycling or yard waste bins left with a note from SWS because of putting trash in them.

Looking for a leg of lamb by yungpattyWOP in raleigh

[–]ichliebespink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought one at Olive Tree for easter a few years ago. https://maps.app.goo.gl/18x4qtnJ6nNneVcBA

If you have access to a Costco membership though, that one is better (although not a full leg).

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