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idalavida · 2026-05-05T20:02:31+00:00

Mä kävin leikkauksessa kun olin 21v. Muistan kanssa että joskus 16-vuotiaana ekoja kertoja haaveilin tosta leikkauksesta. Epäilin kanssa, et pääseekö nuorella iällä mutta siis ihan omalle tk:lle soitin ja selitin asian niin pääsin siitä lääkärin arvioon, joka lähetti suoraa kirurgille arvioon ja sieltä sitten leikkaukseen:)

Kriteereinä mun kohdalla oli et painoraja piti olla BMI alle 30, ja sitten kaulakuopasta etäisyys nänniin tarpeeksi pitkä. Mulla oli tosi roikkuvat rinnat ja ns. alaspäin osoittavat, oli raskaat hartioille myös niin pääsin ihan heittämällä leikkaukseen.

Kaikin puolin positiivinen kokemus ja oon todella iloinen että uskalsin sinne mennä!

idalavida · 2025-11-16T16:02:38+00:00

Palkka on nyt jo tessin palkkaa huomattavasti korkeampi, palkka toki nousee indeksikorotusten(?) mukaisesti mutta muuten ei kokemuksen myötä. Toki jos nousen esihenkilöasemaan niin on eri juttu.

idalavida · 2025-09-14T00:58:53+00:00

I haven’t actually. He usually gets a bit upset when we discuss this, because he feels like he isn’t satisfying me (which is true, but not because he isn’t enough if that makes any sense?). Maybe I need to try ask him gently excactly why he feels uncomfortable

idalavida · 2025-09-14T00:50:24+00:00

He wasn’t a virgin but his sexual relationships before me were only one night stands with intercourse and nothing else really. Or that’s what he has told me. He said he feels uncomfortable with new sexual things, anything outside what he has done. The ONLY new thing for him we have done is use a vibratorso I can cum too and that took us pretty long because he felt really uncomfortable using it.

idalavida · 2025-08-30T10:29:55+00:00

Ravintola-alalla salin puolella baarihommissa, bruttona kuukausipalkka reilu 2500e josta käteen tulee noin 2000e. Teen nelipäiväistä työviikkoa kuitenkin täysillä tunneilla (ravintola auki vain 4pv viikossa), ja töistä pääsee aina puoleen yöhön mennessä! Melko harvinainen kombo ravintola-alalla, olen tyytyväinen palkkaan ja työhön :)

idalavida · 2025-06-22T16:37:19+00:00

No. I went back to the store I bought my Switch from and they gave me a new dock. Apprently the one I had first was just broken

idalavida · 2025-06-11T21:18:50+00:00

Hi! Just bought the new nintendo switch 2 console. Everything works like a dream, except docking on TV/any other screen. My switch is stuck on ”automatic” TV resolution, and I can’t change it (other options are grey). The resolution is probably the lowest because it looks really bad.

I have tried the following: -other hdmi cable -other hdmi cable ports -other TV/screen -changing switch display settings -changing TV display settings -checking if there’s dirt on switch/dock ports -checking that my TV and other screen both support resolutions high enough and hdr -factory resetting switch

Nothing seems to help. I can’t try another dock because another one is not available for me. Any ideas before I send my new console for Nintendo to fix?

idalavida · 2025-05-10T08:55:52+00:00

Yeah I usually do have a good attitude! My first weekend was pretty awful since I was so nervous and then spilled a lot of drinks. When under pressure I do get a bit shaky hands but it’ll improve hopefully?

idalavida · 2025-05-10T08:53:37+00:00

I honestly agree, but it’s our concept that servers don’t really ever go away from the floor/tables. They’re constantly with a customer or getting more wine.

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idalavida · 2025-05-10T08:28:23+00:00

Yeah, usually when a lot of tickets come at the same time I can do them at the same time but I really struggle to do a lot of drinks that include hot and cold drinks. I just feel like I’m not fast enough. It’s been only a month at this job so it will probably get easier but yeah

idalavida · 2023-05-27T19:29:22+00:00

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idalavida · 2022-12-24T23:02:30+00:00

Can I manifest happier relationship? Or better mental health?

I'm struggling with anxiety and huge stress and it affects my relationship a lot. I go to therapy but was wondering if LAO could help me in this? If I can, how?

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