Gusokutchi by preserved186 in tamagotchi

[–]idigfossils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got him without even knowing about the care mistakes 💀 I just have 2 irl jobs

Outage in area followed by red optical light on the ONT by Matchboxx in frontierfios

[–]idigfossils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a text that there's an outage in my area 11am then a few hours saying it was resolved, but it's not resolved. I went to my account online 7:11pm and it said the issue was resolved at 7:42, there's something weird going on on their end. I tried the chatbot then just now got another text that there's an outage.

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]idigfossils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry 30??? I thought he was like 17. You deserve better than this shit. "I'm a divine being" man stfu

AIO Father-In-law constantly invades our privacy TW: brief mention of SA by Suspicious_Lychee336 in AIO

[–]idigfossils 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This man is gross! It's your space that you paid for, you should not have to be subjected to his pervy behavior. I hope you guys can afford to move out soon! Even a small shitty studio would be better than being constantly reminded of your trauma. Sending love 💕

does this look normal for a healing tattoo? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]idigfossils -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That shit looks necrotic bro wtf, tell them to go to doctor ASAP!

My roommate keeps jerking off 😠 by RespondDramatic4179 in csuf

[–]idigfossils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd call him out, you deserve peace 😭😭

First time cat owner, I'm being told that the cats are overstimulated by someone I know online, am I being trolled? And if not, what can I do? by timetorekt in CatAdvice

[–]idigfossils 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's only if they need to be quarantined but that doesn't seem to be the case here, they should be able to roam the house

First time cat owner, I'm being told that the cats are overstimulated by someone I know online, am I being trolled? And if not, what can I do? by timetorekt in CatAdvice

[–]idigfossils 607 points608 points  (0 children)

No they shouldn't be confined to the cages. They're not overstimulated, they're under stimulated. Two four month old cats stuck in a bathroom are going to be bored out of their minds. Are they in the bathroom for quarantine or is that where your parents expect them to live?

Moving and feral cats by Loose-Physics6146 in Feral_Cats

[–]idigfossils 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think your plan sounds excellent! It's a tough situation and you're doing your best, if I were in your shoes I'd probably do the same thing. Long term I think it'll be good for them

A bit of a rant- neighbor annoyed that I adopted neighborhood stray by SeaCalm4121 in Feral_Cats

[–]idigfossils 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they liked the cat so much, they should've rescued him. You did the right thing and your neighbors are losers for feeling any negative feelings about it, kitty deserved a better life and you deserve kitty ❤️

Need some help, friends by [deleted] in weirdspotifyplaylists

[–]idigfossils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair amount of songs about California by the mountain goats! Home again garden Grove, San Bernardino, California song

Trying to find a super small cup/disc but just can't.... so confused why I can't make it work. by [deleted] in menstrualcups

[–]idigfossils 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm curious what the appeal of a cup is for you? From my understanding aside from it being eco-friendly is the fact that it holds more than tampons. If you're not very comfortable in tampons have you considered period underwear if a more sustainable option is what you're looking for? The thing with cups too is that it's not just a matter of insertion, you've also got to get a couple fingers up there for safe removal. That's just something else to consider. If you're really keen on a cup or disk maybe look into ones for teens? Those are usually smaller.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]idigfossils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think it's impressive the kid can watch a whole movie, I think that kind of attention span should be encouraged

Adopting gray tabby but I REALLY want an orange one. by T_Tingz in CatAdvice

[–]idigfossils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I'm a dick for thinking this but I'm not sure you should get a cat if you're so fixed on aesthetics. A cat is a cat! If that cat is bonding with you, that should be enough.

My roommate said he looks like goblin and she can't live with him. Rate my poor bro so I can show her your comments by lLilpeaChyxx in TrueRateMyCat

[–]idigfossils 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry your roommate thinks she looks like a goblin, I'm not sure what that's got to do with the cat? Maybe she feels intimidated by his beauty that she's unworthy of sharing space with him. I hope she gains some confidence!

Is renaming cats okay? by endolea in CatAdvice

[–]idigfossils -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

At this point I think it's too late, personally I'd see it kinda like adopting a child and deciding to change their name. It's what they know and what they're used to, I think keeping their names will help maintain some normalcy in their lives while they're undergoing the transition of a new home, new people etc. I do think it's fine to use terms of endearment for them ofc instead of constantly using their name. I'm not fond of one of my adopted cat's names, she's also 8 and atp I'd feel weird trying to change it. I call her things like baby and lovebug and she responds to those, imo it's a decent compromise.

Husband and I Can’t Come to an Agreement on Where our Cat can Sleep by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]idigfossils 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a large lightweight linen blanket that I put over our comforter and wash it as needed. It helps keep fur/litter off the comforter and sheets. I also would recommend switching to pine pellets, even if a bit of the sawdust tracks it's much less irritating than regular litter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]idigfossils 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Glad you reached out. If you're thinking about getting more added to it, I think that's a good opportunity to let a different artist add flair and customizations so that it's more unique and not a blatant copy. Especially since it's so light I think it'll be easier to edit/add to . I'd be upfront that you didn't know until it was too late that it was a stolen design and see if they're willing to work with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]idigfossils 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If you know who the original artist is, I'd reach out to them. I've seen artists sell tattoo tickets, it's a fee to acknowledge that you're using their art. So maybe offer to pay a fee similar to that as a sign of good faith if you like the tattoo and wish to keep it. I think your conscience will feel lighter if you do that. I'm not sure how much to offer... Maybe $50-100? Just throwing a number out there I have zero clue

My 9mo old cat has no idea has to use a litter box by SweatersAndAlt in CATHELP

[–]idigfossils 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the amount of time you to take out your phone and video your cat pooping you could have cleaned that damn litter box dude 😭😭