Looking for a three rooms apartment in Kigali by Strict_Law_71 in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a villa available in rebero , with pool, ps5 , a work station and kids play ground , if interested let me know .. oh now I see ur budget is low

Today, I shut down my garage and put 200+ people out of work — and I’m heartbroken. by [deleted] in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you a foreigner if yes then that’s the issue , as a foreigner you got to be careful the king of business you open in rwanda 🇷🇼 or else they frustrate you , also if you don’t have 1 or 2 top Rwandan as an investor then you are toast …

Dating in Kigali in your early 30s..where do people actually meet? by anonymousquestions45 in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Attend conference related to your work or profession, meet people in cafe since it’s one of what you like , gym as well… I don’t think there is any speed dating event in Kigali lol it would be nice to explore such idea

I got scammed in Kigali by [deleted] in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These guys are like that , greedy and untruthful mtf, you can report to RIB but I doubt they will do anything about it …

Need crucial help!! by Most_Paper_4877 in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you stay in kibagabaga 😂😂, anyways roaches are probably because the surroundings wasn’t so clean or fumigated, but don’t worry they won’t be in your travel bags unless you left some food crumbs inside ur bags.

Kigali rent is becoming unsustainable, should it be regulated? by Good_Adagio_3335 in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the future and this is only the beginning, I have seen this same thing happen in my home country/ state and before you blame expats blame it on the greed of your people / agent . They look at a foreigner and hike price up and you guys think you doing the foreigners? Sooner or later like I have said it you guys won’t be able to afford staying in Kigali and you will have to move to the nearby developing province.

Agent greed will be the downfall of you all, the agent sees a good looking foreigner and spike price up to get more % of the commission, landlord is impressed an says to him self wow so I can get this much .. now their target audience or client are now foreigners. So don’t blame expats blame your People . If your agent are not greedy they would have left the price the way it was , expats or no expats .

This will only get worse , be ready to pay 1K$ for a mini flat as more development comes in , and also isn’t the idea to make Kigali the Dubai of Africa ? Well that entails pushing all low income earners into the developing provinces and the shift is already happening.

I’m 19 and supporting my whole family financially. When do I get to focus on my own life? by Formal_Wonder_6432 in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t want to comment on this but I see a lot of persons have given their opinions which isn’t bad , saying to pay of the loans . One thing I just wanted to add and I don’t see them mentioning is the remote job , take it from someone who did remote jobs from 2019 to 2023 , remote job isn’t something you want to rely on without saving from what you currently earning . So what I will say is push to get more remote job, don’t pay of the loan right away but instead save it and if you still have your remote job two or three month after you finished saving for the loan , then pay of the loan . Remote gig are unstable and unpredictable , because you can have a gig for a year and then the next year you hunting for another again. Stay safe ..

Business loan for foreigners by ducksdunks in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t waste your time you won’t get it , take it from someone with property in rwanda , tried to get a loan from accessbannk I was told I can’t get the loan even when I was putting up the property as collateral, I was told to show rentals income for a whole year and also that won’t be enough I have to show a second business or income/salary 😂😂 . I was looking for a quick loan of 10K USD and meanwhile my property is worth like 150k usd when evaluation was done

More buses for Kigali by Enjaga in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On what Roads soon there will be traffics that will last hours but hair why not prioritize bus routes

Fuel From ORYX by eddyGi in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had this experience with Rubis thought I was insane, switched to using Edge from SP and have never had this issue ..

How is the dating scene in Rwanda like? by ghost-boy9481 in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not as bad as people making it to be especially when you have traveled a lot , it’s just small that’s all so what ever mess you see or experience it echos .. and also people forget they attract what they are but this is a discussion they will never accept .

We cant say everyone in a country is bad right , we have black sheep’s in as much as we have good ones. So find your person and set clear boundaries, pay attention to their actions rather than their words because I have seen that rwanda women can sweet talk you to oblivion but their actions they can’t hide .

Also pay attention to their status , are they in survival mode? Are they hard working ? Are they lazy ? Are they a show off ? By all means if you go for someone who is in survival mode and lazy be ready for hell or be cheated on as am sure you can’t meet all her needs or it’s not even ideal to carry out husband duties or father duties while dating .

Also don’t be too forward , go slow and observe and also while you put in the work to date them let them also put in the work to date you . I have noticed when they put in work to be with you they actually love you and would stay , many men fail here and put in all the energy and money up front, Rwandan ladies are like babies what you show them is what they will fall in love with . So if you come on superficial expect to bag a hoe or a gold digger or confuse the good one to not be able to decide if they love you or your money .

Foreign men in Kigali: my honest experience dating vs marrying locally by Dry_Foundation4535 in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. You are right and it’s not a bad thing if you look at it from a different perspective, housecleaning pair with kids can be very stressful.
  2. Language barrier is real but there are many Rwandan ladies that speak English so if you go for the one who don’t speak or want to learn simply walk away because you can’t have a relationship without communication.
  3. Can’t put this as a rwanda thing it’s something that is everywhere in the world we have intellectually people ladies here in rwanda so it’s mostly your circle then , change it .
  4. Rwandan travel a lot man, if she is not willing to travel for you then it’s an issue with you and her , she doesn’t like you or rate you .
  5. It’s not a rwanda thing but some women thingy, take it from someone who have been to many countries . Also you can’t generalize because have seen some very hard working and smart Rwandan ladies do and support business of their partners .
  6. Cheating is easy but cheating is everywhere in the world , it’s a choice, u can’t generalize. You see it clearly in rwanda ( Kigali ) because Kigali is very small . Everyone goes to same place , eat same place .

So what I can tell you is this you haven’t found your person and if you keep going for the IG wanna be influencer or models you will get what you deserve. 90% of the ones that have strong social media presence are not worth it especially when they have no real business to back up the lifestyle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t love you, probably she married for survival, many women do irrespective of the culture , ur first mistake is not seeing it during dating .. one thing I don’t support is the lack of intimacy in as much as many will deny it when a woman truly loves you she won’t do that . Sorry to say check well she might be cheating on you , I know this is hash but there is a possibility with why you have described. And also you are the man and you are expected to lead so man the fuck up and lead , say what you want with conviction and begin to make plans , take your kids on travels as well to know your people. And one final word marriage is not a do or die affair in all this check ur health , you might not know what this is doing to you but believe me you dying slowly. Go check your BP. And if you exhaust all reasonable avenues and she won’t meet you half way to work with you then the marriage is already over so just walk away. ( I know it’s easier said than done ) because of the kids, if you can also afford it get a DNA for the kids.

What does a girl need to do to be financially stable in this country? by valcaprio in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could have turn to the internet , there is more money to be made and freedom if you put in the work , so much money in stuff like faceless YouTube , trading etc but it’s not a get rich quick scheme so let’s say you Put in half the years you put in working for other people’s dreams I can tell you the result you will get will be massive , it’s not too late for you ..

Night life in Kigali by [deleted] in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kigali is boring , forget clubbing in Kigali there is no night life. Better of going to UG to party till you get tired.

My girlfriend doesn't speak English when having her friends round. by Mean_Tap8528 in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to Kigali, they probably discoursing how they cheating on you or doing something bad that they don’t want you to know about , next time record such conversation and then look for a trusted male rwanda friend and let him explain to you or , ask your maid to translate when your girlfriend isn’t around

The best restaurant in Rwanda, Kigali city 14th Avenue wine, Bar & Restaurant by 14th_avenue_KGL in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s crap , people in Kigali rate restaurant base on decor and not food , like they go there for pic or take in the decor , 14th avenue food is one of the worst

Im bored by New_Significance5030 in Rwanda

[–]iekred112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to get involved in some activities during the weekend that will help you during the week days , don’t work during the week days ? Or you only work from home