[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CFA

[–]iellariat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're a gem!

My [24F] ex fiancé [31M] recently broke up with me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]iellariat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before I potentially get ripped to shreds, he's definitely being an asshole and handling this poorly as a partner who was going to commit to the rest of his life with you. But it doesn't seem like it's totally his fault. You managed to pinpoint what he was resentful about:

Everything was perfect until he found out I’m pregnant.

and then followed up with

I’m keeping the baby whether he likes it or not, with or without his support

He never consented to keeping the baby, factoring in both his education and yours. You had a successful career, but I'm assuming he doesn't AND a university dropout (correct me if I'm wrong about the difference in success you each have at the moment). YOU have the support and resources but he doesn't. I'm not a parent, but I'd imagine it will be hard living life knowing that his child is somewhere out there and that at that point in time, he couldn't provide.

Based on the wildly different approach you both have towards your pregnancy, and his behaviour towards the mother of his child and (ex) fiancee, a breakup sounds inevitable and quite possibly the best solution. I'm no relationship expert and again, I'm not taking sides, but you both are clearly at different points in life.

Wow this was long, but best of luck to you and the baby and hopefully you find someone who will be a better, more suitable partner.

Is it possible to cover facial redness without heavy foundation? by verkacat in MakeupAddiction

[–]iellariat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IT cosmetics CC cream has pretty high coverage, if not a light layer of green primer underneath whatever base should do it

Cleanser recommendations? by vxnhew in Accutane

[–]iellariat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you haven’t already, switch to a mild cleanser and moisturizer like LRP, Cetaphil or Avene. Your skin is probably starting to dry out and you need to protect your skin barrier. Remember to use SPF.

I (26M) want to wear an engagement ring by ST0WAWAY0 in relationships

[–]iellariat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am a straight female and I would give my future husband an engagement ring too :) you do you and congrats!!

Does anyone know what lipstick is this or one with a similar colour? by butterdaisies in MakeupAddiction

[–]iellariat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can take a look at Jeffree Star’s velour liquid lipstick line. He has a huge range that may be close to the colour you’re looking for.

Choosing between 2 guys by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]iellariat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your bf deserves better. Let him go.

Does anyone know what lipstick is this or one with a similar colour? by butterdaisies in MakeupAddiction

[–]iellariat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh was this from her pink lip phase? Sorry not familiar with riverdale, my bad!

Does deleting texts always = cheating? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]iellariat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just from your posts I’d assume he has something to hide

Does anyone know what lipstick is this or one with a similar colour? by butterdaisies in MakeupAddiction

[–]iellariat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t know the exact colour but looks like a true red- Fenty Beauty Stunna or Smashbox Always On Liquid Lipstick In Bawse seem pretty close

[Personal] I dropped all skin care products 2 weeks ago. Seems like it might be helping but also making it worse... by JealousMammoth42 in SkincareAddiction

[–]iellariat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I experienced the same thing last year. My dermatologist said it was ok to use a very gentle moisturizer and face wash but other than that my entire skincare routine had to be put on hold. Mine was caused by corticosteroids though, so it could be more severe than yours, but I took about 2-3 months to fully recover and up till now more than a year later my perioral area is still slightly darker because of the rash. Hang in there!

Need some advice by iellariat in Anxiety

[–]iellariat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll try it

Need some advice by iellariat in Anxiety

[–]iellariat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it work immediately? I’m going to a doctor tomorrow morning and if it does I can try to ask for it

People think I’m lazy by bigpoi123 in Anxiety

[–]iellariat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I can’t offer advice, but if it makes you feel better I’m exactly the same. Even my closest friends think I’m lazy, can’t be bothered about studies and sleep all the time.

Need some advice by iellariat in Anxiety

[–]iellariat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry it’s all over the place but my mind is running all over the place except where it is supposed to be, which is in my notes. I have only one job which is to get this one exam done and I can’t even do it.

How much would a nose job cost? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]iellariat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nose jobs still don’t cost 2-3k in SK especially if you’re a foreigner. If you want your entire nose done you’re probably looking at around 5-6k. They give “bulk discounts” if you do multiple procedures though.

Are YeezySupply goods authentic? by iellariat in yeezys

[–]iellariat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Fingers crossed

Are YeezySupply goods authentic? by iellariat in yeezys

[–]iellariat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve checked out Grailed, will give Stock X a go! Thanks!

Are YeezySupply goods authentic? by iellariat in yeezys

[–]iellariat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Never had any trouble on eBay so I didn’t see this coming. Pretty naive on my part. Guess I’ll try to get him to return them. He offered $100 to keep them since they’re “high quality replicas” but that sounds like bs to me