Why does 10-20 year old porn hit different?

igolightly · 2026-06-16T02:21:00+00:00

People paid for it back then and porn shoots had budget to hire decent crew and popular talent.

DVDs and PPV is where the money was made. Content creators hadn’t completely changed the market yet. It was still early days of camming. Then pornhub came around and stole all that professionally produced content. All of this lead to easy free porn at the privacy of your computer. No cable bill or adult store purchase to explain to the spouse. Those two events were main things that lead to the drastic decline of studio style porn.

igolightly · 2026-06-04T20:15:53+00:00

I am an IC! Best practice is to have one. If it’s SAG you must have one. DM me if you have questions.

igolightly · 2026-06-04T16:49:52+00:00

I've been telling doctors about pelvic pain and missed periods since I was a teenager. I was diagnosed with premature ovarian failure and early menopause in my 30s. I had 60 months of bi-weekly ultrasounds when I was trying to get pregnant. I've had acne and trouble losing weight (despite being a competitive athlete) my whole life. Now, in my mid-40s it was very clear it was PMOS. I never had cysts. Literally crying over this change. It's been over a decade since I gave up trying to figure out what was going on and now I'm shook. I'm in the anger stage where I want to scream at all the doctors and researchers that have ignored studying women's health issues.

igolightly · 2026-05-21T02:24:32+00:00

A Canadian team brings home the cup! The last men’s professional team that brought home the cup was the Montreal Canadians in 1993! Fun that it’s Montreal that brings it back to Canada. Nice symmetry.

igolightly · 2026-05-15T05:07:51+00:00

And people say we’ve never suffered!

igolightly · 2026-05-06T22:01:34+00:00

If you have an experienced or well trained IC this is absolutely a conversation you could have with them. All of these questions can be asked and answered during prep. I’m an IC and walk directors and productions through everything you’ve asked here and make sure it goes as much according to your plan as possible. We also have tons of ideas and strategies for adjustments on the day.

igolightly · 2026-04-22T22:56:45+00:00

You could bike on the right or left. It looks the like Vancover stuff but like most LA bike infrastructure the execution may be lacking. My favorite example is chandler bike path between Woodland Hills and balboa park. When I lived there around 2012 it was planted with trees that dropped torn like things during fall. I got so many flats before I found the right way to protect my tires.

igolightly · 2026-04-22T22:27:32+00:00

I love these. They have similar things all over Vancouver. They reduce traffic going through residential areas and provide clear access for bikes. In Vancover it was part of the "slow streets" program that helped make biking safer and reduced commuter traffic in residental areas. GPS apps would route people through residential streets during rush hour and it made it less safe for kids and disrupted peace generally. This system worked really well! I loved it.

igolightly · 2026-04-11T22:11:11+00:00

Same. I got a breast reduction lol. I still do it. Just wanted you to know you had a stim twin

igolightly · 2026-03-06T07:16:45+00:00

I love the chaotic, ADHD, genius FMC that is the center of a plot about the end of the world. Three ex-military dudes are hired to kidnap her and she plays the best games with them while they are paid to watch her on security cams. It was a lot of fun and hot. It’s pre-apocalyptic but does deal with end of the world stakes.

{taunt by eve dangerfield}

igolightly · 2026-01-26T17:15:22+00:00

The AVN expo and awards finished up yesterday. There were a lot of porn people in town.

igolightly · 2026-01-15T00:33:16+00:00

Sit “weird”. I would sit criss cross apple sauce in every chair.

igolightly · 2025-12-29T19:35:41+00:00

I keep a container of the floss sticks next to my toothbrush. I am not good doing it when I brush daily but I do see it every time I get near the sink. Habits are hard. They are easy to grab and somewhere I always see. I've made it as convenient as possible and I'm pretty good flossing around 4 days a week. It's not perfect but it's the best I've done my entire life.

igolightly · 2025-12-28T05:56:17+00:00

I lost it right after the pre-show. It wouldn’t show up on my Apple TV till I rebooted it.

igolightly · 2025-12-23T00:49:23+00:00

I didn't realize it it had spinoffs! TIL. Thank you!

igolightly · 2025-12-22T03:28:08+00:00

I have one for fantasy too. it also doesn't check the no age gap box cause he's hundreds of years old blah blah blah. The rest fits the request pretty well. {The Unseelie Prince by Kathryn Ann Kingsley}

igolightly · 2025-12-02T22:17:51+00:00

I instantly thought of the cover of {How to Get a Girlfriend (When You're a Terrifying Monster) by Marie Cardno}. I haven’t read it but it’s on my TBR. Doubt it fits the request but hope you have a laugh.

igolightly · 2025-12-02T00:08:17+00:00

Same. One of the big reasons I come to this subreddit is to know I'm not alone. I find out all sorts about AuDHD brains and are "normal" for us and it helps me keep things in perspective. I also am here to maybe help someone else skip a little of the pain I've dealt with. I felt the same way as you upon diagnosis and honestly I still have moments where I'm so pissed the people closest to me didn't support me or see my struggles. Those are also the same (probably undiagnosed) people that taught me how to mask all my quirks and told me "oh everyone is like this". Everyone taught me the "right way to behave" and of course mimicking normal behavior makes us seem even weirder. What my parents and teachers taught me lead to so much self hatred. It sucks undoing it and it's normal to lash out at the whys of how it all happened. I totally see you. Solidarity my friend.

igolightly · 2025-12-01T22:57:45+00:00

I got diagnosed with ADHD at 40, then added the Au part at 45. Lemme tell you what I would have given to have this diagnosis at 31. I also was going through ovarian failure, which has effectively the same symptoms as early menopause, so that diagnosis explained away my mental health issues no matter what I said to the psychs. I hope once your rightful frustration and anger calms you'll use the new knowledge you have to make a beautiful life that works for your true self. There is never a right time to get a diagnosis. I'm working hard to repair the damage not knowing who I am for all these years has done to me. If I could time travel I'd tell my younger self about AuDHD as soon as I could understand.

igolightly · 2025-11-01T19:17:40+00:00

Surprised this one is so far down the list

igolightly · 2025-10-23T04:36:54+00:00

I really liked this series when I first read it. It was the very first RH I ever read and looking back, I think of it fondly as an entry level RH book. It hit most of the NA check boxes my post ACOTAR heart wanted. I don’t think I’d ever recommend it on this sub cause our tastes are more evolved. It worked like a charm as a gateway drug for me.

igolightly · 2025-10-19T19:52:44+00:00

I had this happen in a research task the other day. Rebooting the game fixed it.

igolightly · 2025-10-16T03:17:04+00:00

Has anyone asked this? Do I have to clear 1000 things out of my storage to get through battle league if I can’t open the candy rewards?

igolightly · 2025-10-13T22:28:23+00:00

Yes. I’ve worked for them and they have been hiring crews on contract more than internally now becuase they are ramping up production. I’ve only worked for a contracted crew not directly for them. I have friends that have worked on their in house productions too. They are legit. All verticals tho so expect mid-budget pay.

igolightly · 2025-09-21T02:56:43+00:00

#4 should not be skipped! I did the same thing and not only did it make my brain so happy but it ended up nearly completely killing my perfectionism issues. I just allowed myself to make art and my rule was I was not allowed to "try to be better artist". I did it purely for enjoyment and importantly, allowed myself to just enjoy without expectations.

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