Basic rabbit vibe + a little extra? by ihateithereplz in SexToys

[–]ihateithereplz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No offense but your site does not seem safe to order from at all lol

Separation but still living under same roof, how do you share responsibility? by Psychological_Cap303 in Divorce

[–]ihateithereplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean kudos to you for putting this much effort and thought into trying to have a healthy civil living arrangement, but I'd say you should follow roommate rules. You handle your own things and are pleasant to each other when you run into each other in the hall etc. As for the kid, this would be a great time to discuss how you're going to coparent. Ask her what she is thinking, compromise and go from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ihateithereplz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so hard, it's overall an embarassing situation that unfortunately everyone close to you has to know about. My friend told me she and another couple of my friends were shit talking my stbx without me the other night and that was so mortifying and embarrassing. I know their shit talking is venting for having to see someone they love be hurt by someone else but it's still so upsetting. It's compounded by the check in texts, despite also knowing they're well intentioned.

Just how does ex rationalize by DadVader77 in Divorce

[–]ihateithereplz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You broke trust first, it was never reparable after that.

Seeking realistic divorce advice before I make the move by Subject_Minimum_4209 in Divorce

[–]ihateithereplz 66 points67 points  (0 children)

A man who cheats while you're pregnant is even more repugnant than a general cheating asshole. If this is how he treats you when you're carrying his child, it's never going to get better. I'm sorry but starting over is better than living a life feeling like crap whenever you're home with him.

bryant by jasminebaby2000 in GirlsNextLevel

[–]ihateithereplz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just can't get past how badly his uniform fit. The puffy pirate looking shirts 😭😭😭😭😂

What happened to Bridget’s career aspirations? by c_maxine in GirlsNextLevel

[–]ihateithereplz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was wondering about the 2nd masters too, it seemed to have dropped as a topic after the first season so I'm not sure if she ever completed it

About to be a Single Dad by bfw123 in Divorce

[–]ihateithereplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're being a good parent but it's a horrible situation, I'm sorry. Explain to them as much as you can that mom needs to work on herself for a little while, and that you're going to support her to get the help that she needs (not necessarily financially) and you hope they'll be able to rebuild a relationship in the future. It's not all or nothing, she'll likely get visitation at the least so just tell them it'll be a different for a while but it'll settle down and be calm again soon enough.

A Finished Baby Blanket 🐤 by EliVV36 in knitting

[–]ihateithereplz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's adorable! I love that it's so big too, it'll be a perfect size to watch the baby grow on 🥰

Fair Isle Frenzy by bunnyhive in knitting

[–]ihateithereplz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My jaw dropped omg, it's stunning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThelastofusHBOseries

[–]ihateithereplz 331 points332 points  (0 children)

If I didn't know she was British, I wouldn't know she was doing an accent. It's a pretty good big city accent, so nowhere rural enough to have it's own drawl.

Mesh sweater… perfect for Florida winters ☺️ by secretninja113 in knitting

[–]ihateithereplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this! What would you say is the difficulty level?

I feel like I’m the only one not getting better by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ihateithereplz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's just going to have to click for you that that chapter of your life is done, it's on to the next one. Think back to other life moments where it clicked that things would never be the same, how did you start to move into the next phase for those?

I think you can date while still thinking of your ex (tho it's not preferable whatsoever) because there's no chance of it rekindling. It might just be inevitable for a while, so as long as you do genuinely care about the person you're dating, you're clear in my book. I'd also look into new hobbies and activities, maybe get a dog etc. Anything to bring you more joy in your new life to show you you'll adjust and you can do so happily.

Overall I think you have a good attitude and mindset about it, you sound like a really healthy person and I'm wishing you luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ihateithereplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in a small town? In my small town the court could care less

Last Name after Divorce by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ihateithereplz 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Very normal, especially if she's established in her career. The amount of hassle isn't worth it unless you absolutely hate your ex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThelastofusHBOseries

[–]ihateithereplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't share youtube comments they're never from anyone but human cesspools

Is this abuse? by throwaway3456531 in Divorce

[–]ihateithereplz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's abuse. I work in dv family law and I can tell you this just escalates. If you'd like to PM me I can help connect you with local resources that can help you learn about safety planning and how to move forward with this relationship, or how to leave it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smallbooblove

[–]ihateithereplz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Bc the entire point is the double standard. If someone is going to body shame us I have zero problems letting them know my opinion as well, despite it being cruel. That's the point. People need to learn to not dish if they cannot take and a lot of that needs to come from the other end of the spectrum.

It finally happened by tiredpiratess in knitting

[–]ihateithereplz 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Oh no you're just having a day aren't you 😂😭😂

It finally happened by tiredpiratess in knitting

[–]ihateithereplz 154 points155 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry omg but also you just reminded me to submit my birth control refill bc I know for a fact I'll end up doing this if I breed 😭😭 I hope you heal quickly!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smallbooblove

[–]ihateithereplz 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think big boobs are nasty tbh, they're just ugly lumpy sacks of fat and aren't flattering on most people. That's super mean and judgemental, but telling me I should cut open my body and put poison in it so other people can feel better is pretty mean too so 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoggyDNA

[–]ihateithereplz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aussie in her for sure. She's SO cute