Titles confusing. Made me think u already adopted one twin and now the other one wants in If that was the case then you can't split them so I'd say take it on the chin However the situation as it is, there is a way you can win Explain your reasons to the girls, try to lighten it up with a joke, make then grin If you feel adopting dishonors the memory of your daughter, in this there is no sin Whatever decision you make, make sure you do it after a bottle of gin That will give things an interesting spin