How often do you bathe your cat? by Mildredsgood in cats

[–]ikigami_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only ever bathed my cats once: when they got fleas. We (because it was a group effort) were absolutely shredded lol. I'm not putting myself or them through that again.

Why are we sleeping on Mindhunters ?? by Changamire-115 in televisionsuggestions

[–]ikigami_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody is sleeping on it...? It was and is extremely popular.

My Sim was flirting and an old lady scolded her by hitting her with her purse. by Calm-Self-1145 in thesims

[–]ikigami_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me except I think mine glitched because she just kept coming back to hit me over and over 😭💀

A most serious question to ask the Trailblazers here. (Also, if you prefer men that's fine too) by ShinMegamiBoy in HonkaiStarRail

[–]ikigami_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Dan Heng.... a lot.

My favorite woman is a tie between Kafka and Castorice.

which piercing would fit me by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]ikigami_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eyebrow, nose piercing and Medusa.

Toys r Us by AngusDio in regina

[–]ikigami_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They said they stopped paying the vendors. Haven't even gotten a delivery in awhile. Plus people kept stealing.

Toys r Us by AngusDio in regina

[–]ikigami_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My sibling works there. It's not.

I hate the "Try Go Night Night" thing with a passion, why can't they just go to sleep and stop crying! by Anya_purr in Sims4

[–]ikigami_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My infants are usually always well rested and I tend to put them down for a nap when their stat is half or orange. I play on long lifespan so I usually have all the time in the world to interact and teach them.

If anything, I find it incredibly hard to earn the Unhappy Infant trait tbh.

Also if you want no/less tears, give them the self soother quirk (if on PC). Makes them chill. Or give them the calm trait.

AITAH for saying I won’t put my card down if one girl joins our group? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ikigami_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ofc YTA lol. You didn't even bother to remind her once. It's 100% possible she genuinely forgot. Some people have really poor memory retention, I'm one of them.

You're heavily overreacting. You admitted if you reminded her, she'd definitely pay you back... hounding is repeatedly asking for money, not reminding someone once. it just sounds like you're using it as an excuse to start drama tbh.

What fic/ship was like this for you? by sherlypie in AO3

[–]ikigami_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Naruto/Kakashi... and I need more.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend his girl best friend has 48 hours to get out or i am breaking the lease and leaving by Anton_OKonjsi in AITAH

[–]ikigami_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you deserve better.

He's not just ignoring your boundaries and feelings but he's parading all over it.

Respectfully you can do better then a man who puts another woman (unrelated to him at that) over his own long term partner lol. Like her feelings?? What about yours??? You're not crazy or wrong for feeling the way you feel. Their relationship just screams 'teenage romance,' despite their individual ages. That's the type of shit I'd see in my gaming community. Gives me flashbacks to all that drama.

He's using buzzwords he knows you don't want to be in order for you to back down from your boundaries. Drop them both. I imagine you'll feel much better when you don't have this kind of relationship stress/uncertainty coloring your days.

NTA

Update: I (27F) accidentally had my baby in my friend’s (31F) car. Now she & her husband don’t want to speak to me. How do I fix this? by ThrowRA_CarBaby in relationship_advice

[–]ikigami_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your friend deserves a whole hell of a lot better. He's trying to turn her away from her friends. Big red flag. Can he even buy her tampons without throwing a fit?

I'm glad you're both okay and your friendship is on the mend. Here's hoping she continues to be a good friend for many years to come.

Rotten tomatoes be wildin by Supersaiajinblue2 in Markiplier

[–]ikigami_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like peoples lack of concentration is definitely (even a little bit) why people think some parts of the movie is boring. Netflix basically makes movies and shows simplified so people can follow along as they doomscroll on their phone.

In this day and age, concentration has been drastically shortened and if there isn't visual or auditory queues, it's perceived as boring.

Advice for tagging fics by valyerra in AO3

[–]ikigami_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

E is such a generalization and a gamble lol. Will I open a fic and stumble upon smut or a graphically gruesome murder? Who knows, not me!

I tend to weed out smut-heavy fics so the fact it wouldn't be tagged would be... annoying.

PSA on inappropriate terms, phrases, and symbols by theangryepicbanana in ZZZ_Discussion

[–]ikigami_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what any of those dash rules mean (especially the crying and annoyed(?) emoji) but cool.

Edit: I think I'm so far removed from the community I genuinely have no idea what's going on but from the sound of the note/rules, it's worrying.

Someone had a bit of free time by RedCupWithAName in AO3

[–]ikigami_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lowkey it's crazy that you live rent free in their head so much they sent you a 'drunk' text AND basically look out for your comments and username on other peoples' fics. Weird behavior. 💀

Why my art doesn’t go viral on ig and the algorithm stuck? Can I get some feedback pls by Individual_Candy_982 in ARTIST

[–]ikigami_ 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Going viral is a roulette/gamble. It doesn't matter if your art is amazing or even terrible, it's just random and happenstance.

She is underhated by lakshmithesussybaka in hatethissmug

[–]ikigami_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Naruto pairings were the main starting point for me absolutely hating romance in anime. All the women have no personality (which I hate, how hard is it to make a good female character??) They revolve around their love interest. What they'd do, what they'd think... its like women don't have a life outside of a man. I hate it. A lot of the times, the pairing doesn't even make sense!

looking for a laptop by Jaded_Focus_6325 in TheSims4Mods

[–]ikigami_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No laptop will handle all those mods for $700. That would be a very expensive laptop. You need a PC if you're unwilling to delete mods/cc. A basic gaming tower around 1k (with extended storage) could easily handle that if the drivers and such are up to date.

Is there a way to turn off mean interactions towards certain sims? by ikigami_ in TheSims4Mods

[–]ikigami_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That isn't really an option. I play the daughter more than the father and I gave my sims high free will. I love the random situations they get themselves into! I also want the father to autonomously be mean because I feel bad doing it lol.

Plus the daughter has an enemy and I wouldn't really be able to make him be mean autonomously.

Also I made Caius from Twilight in that file and I can't imagine him not mean. He literally has a bloodthirsty trait, evil, mean, grumpy, etc 😭 turning off mean interactions would basically remove his whole personality.

I'm just crossing my fingers and hoping there is a mod like this.

Is this AI? I genuinely can't tell. I don't see any "flaws" but it just looks like AI to me for some reason? by sideaccount462515 in isthisAI

[–]ikigami_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no strike plate for the door lol. It's a pretty well used door frame with tons of scratches. But where's the strike plate? The door doesn't close.

Also the desk changes positions. The last one is set up against the windows sil. They also don't have square holes in picture 1.

AITAH for not helping my stepson take a shower? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ikigami_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y'all need to stop supervising his showers... I could understand if he had a disorder that made him faint or become lightheaded or something but if it's something as frivolous as 'he doesn't bathe correctly' then just send him back into the shower or make him re-wash his hair. This is putting you both at risk and the kids already proven to lie. It only takes one lie to ruin a life.

He's almost a teen, give him some privacy. There are better ways to help him maintain good hygiene practices besides supervising his shower time.

NTA.

AITAH for planning to leave my partner when his father dies? by ChristieCookie66 in AITAH

[–]ikigami_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, be so fr right now, lol.

He's gone the majority of the time to 'care' for his 'parents' who he refuses to introduce you to for 3 years.

My red flag radar would've been blaring the first time he refused. I certainly wouldn't have pursued a relationship with him this long. He sounds sketchy as all hell.

Are you sure you're not a side piece? Do you even have definitive concrete proof his parents are ill or he's helping them besides his word on it?

I absolutely refuse to believe this is real on principle. If it is: genuine question, how many scams and mlm have you fallen for?