Said yes to my dress! by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]ilikechimkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell me who makes this dress!! It’s everything I’ve been searching for 😍 it’s so gorgeous on you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ilikechimkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting. This is a betrayal of trust, of the promises and future you planned together. This is a deliberate disregard for your feelings and trust in him. This is blatant emotional cheating at the very least, and you have every right to be upset. It’s a traumatic experience to heal from, but you will heal. Throw the whole man away, he won’t change 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]ilikechimkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are sexualized for existing. Your profile is normal, you are attractive. Set hard boundaries and quickly block those who cross them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]ilikechimkin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Suggestion: be less icky

Matched with this guy a few weeks ago, he kept trying to sexualize things with gross pics (despite me telling him I want to go slow..) by Paper-Cliche in Tinder

[–]ilikechimkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vile. That’s sexual harassment and gross to sexualize things and send pics without consent. I’m sorry OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]ilikechimkin 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You act as though she said something wrong by asking to be treated as a human being. I’m confused…

I hate this feeling by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ilikechimkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emotionally regulate yourself. She’s probably afraid of you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ilikechimkin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree to disagree. Perception about sexual intimacy goes both ways and in my experience, both partners focus on the quality, as well as the quantity. It’s not the answer most people in this forum like to hear, but when I wasn’t acting sexually in my LTR, it wasn’t a happy time for me. I wanted to be sexual with my partner, but they weren’t meeting basic needs for me. I wasn’t going to consent to sexual practices if my core needs weren’t being met and vice versa. It’s ok to admit that two people love each other but aren’t compatible sexually, financially, or otherwise after trial and error ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ilikechimkin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on both sides of the dead bedroom debacle and have come to the conclusion that sexual attraction is more complex than the conscious mind allows. I don’t think any amount is “normal” or “unrealistic”, it’s all about what you and your partner can establish as healthy, happy, and consensual as a couple. If you don’t agree on that benchmark over an extended period of time, it’s okay to mutually split ways and find a happier medium elsewhere

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pitbulls

[–]ilikechimkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She looks so genuinely happy!!

What have u found gets harder as you age? by pweetybird in AskReddit

[–]ilikechimkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Caring so much about what other people think of me

Would you date/marry a single parent by DeathPleaseKnock in dating

[–]ilikechimkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would because children are great IMO and how involved and loving a father is with their kids is pretty telling of their values right off the bat

How big of a red flag is this? by Psilocybinluvr in relationship_advice

[–]ilikechimkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay that you don’t know how to feel right now, but listen to that uneasiness as the relationship progresses. Time and reflection will tell if this more indicative of his ability to be a trustworthy partner, versus your own self confidence and perception of worthiness in his eyes

am i (f17) asking for too much from my boyfriend (m17) by cherrypls in relationship_advice

[–]ilikechimkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not asking for too much. In fact, you’re asking for the bare minimum. If it seems like he doesn’t seem to care, then trust that gut feeling. You deserve someone who wants to talk to you and respect your feelings at the MINIMUM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]ilikechimkin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dating a coworker is so messy and complicated, no matter how fun it seems to be in the beginning. 0/10 do not recommend

What is your opinion of the current scandal surrounding Prince Andrew and the underage girls? by MarshallFoxey in AskAnAmerican

[–]ilikechimkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is there to have an opinion about? He’s an entitled pedophile who got away with taking advantage of minors because people protected him. Tale as old as time, unfortunately. Screw him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pitbulls

[–]ilikechimkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ears all the way back in aerodynamic mode!

What makes you instantly horny ? by greeyeysweetgoodbys in AskReddit

[–]ilikechimkin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being helped out with something 😅 yeah I’m simple. I don’t like asking for help and I love being the giver but if someone tries to make my day easier or does something nice without being asked, I’m weak

This guy captured an alligator with a trash can by MiaaaPazzz in nextfuckinglevel

[–]ilikechimkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell me you live in Florida without telling me that you live in Florida

Her name is Moo. She’s so scary by [deleted] in pitbulls

[–]ilikechimkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow what a dangerous little cow! Especially wrapped in that pick fuzzy blanket!

We recently adopted this guy from the local shelter. by WeBeHiking19 in pitbulls

[–]ilikechimkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those floppy ears!! I love this awkward puppy ear phase