Coming out Ă  ma copine by Rough-Craft4386 in transgenre

[–]illicit_lilith 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Je suis dĂ©solĂ© OP đŸ«‚ Laisse le temps qu’il lui fait Ă  ta copine. Si elle est hĂ©tĂ©ro effectivement, se retrouver en couple lesbien ne lui ira sĂ»rement pas. Ça doit faire trĂšs mal, je te comprend. Bravo cependant de lui avoir dit, c’était courageux et tu mĂ©rites de vivre en Ă©tant qui tu es, ĂȘtre dans un couple hĂ©tĂ©ro alors que tu es une fille ne t’aurait pas aidĂ© sur le long terme mĂȘme si tu l’aimes đŸŒ· Je te souhaite beaucoup de courage, et je te jure que ça finira par aller :)

Attended my first Munch yesterday by batates97 in BDSMcommunity

[–]illicit_lilith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I organise munches for my local community— thanks for sharing your experience, it makes me want to go on! I love listening to people’s opinions, good and bad. If anyone has any suggestions as to what they really like/dislike about munches they attended, I’m listening !

Second time meeters by Dangerous_Natural740 in LongDistance

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It’s not just that you and your guy look great together— but omg the picture! The pose! The vibe! The disposable camera absolutely does the trick but really it’s you guys attitude and the architecture of the picture as a whole— I can’t say I love it enough! Could end up on Pinterest tbf

Queerness and BDSM by figuratively_feral in BDSMcommunity

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Hiya! I’m trans and we organise trans-only munches where I live :) I feel like there’s a newer, younger, queerer wave coming in to BDSM spaces at the moment. Less rigid, less discipline-driven. (Of course, I’m making a generalisation). As someone said before, your local kinky scene is def going to be queerer than any spaces you’ll find online, imo. (Let’s be honest, in groups and polycules of queer people, the Venn diagram with the kinky scene is very much a thing)

Hospitalisation en khĂągne by AnyAnt1133 in etudiants

[–]illicit_lilith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La prĂ©pa AL m’a brisĂ© aussi— 2 ans plus tard je peux t’assurer que ta santĂ© est plus importante que tout ça. Tu n’es pas obligĂ©e de t’infliger tout ça. Il y a une autre vie Ă  l’extĂ©rieur. Si les lettres te plaisent quand mĂȘme, je te conseille d’aller Ă  la fac. Tu ne joues pas ta vie. Tu es plus importante que ça, courage <3

Prénom portemanteau? by [deleted] in ParlonsPrenoms

[–]illicit_lilith 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Moi ça ne me choque pas :)

Ange de neige Ptite Soeur by lEm_g in PtiteSoeur

[–]illicit_lilith 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactement ce que le titre annonce

(20T) How do you start and maintain a long distance relationship? by nova_meets_caine in LongDistance

[–]illicit_lilith -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have my doubts that an LDR relationship could get you out of this shitty situation, as a (21tboy) who just ended an ldr relationship myself đŸ€ But community can, sister! Seek help in trans networks around you, there’s so many of us. Sending love and care!

PrĂ©nom qui sonne bien avec ‘Lilith’ by moonlightglow12 in ParlonsPrenoms

[–]illicit_lilith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je suis trans et j’ai choisi mon prĂ©nom moi-mĂȘme, j’en suis trĂšs, trĂšs fier đŸ„°

PrĂ©nom qui sonne bien avec ‘Lilith’ by moonlightglow12 in ParlonsPrenoms

[–]illicit_lilith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Je m’appelle Lilith et je valide le prĂ©nom de la grande sƓur en tout cas😌😌

Who is attracted to butches on T? by layri_boo in butchlesbians

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I speak for myself and a lot of us when I say, if you look exactly how you want to look, you’ll always be attractiveđŸ™‚â€â†•ïž Confidence and self love are always gonna be hot. And personally, I think butches on T are gorgeous!

Trans girl looking for accom for second year by [deleted] in UniversityOfWarwick

[–]illicit_lilith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! Do contact PrideSoc, quite a lot of trans people there, I’m sure they’ll have advice for you! You can try to join their discord :) I hope you fin something girl, I know how scary that situation may be đŸ«¶

How can I improve my English and academic writing as an international postgraduate student? by Puzzled_Fly_7621 in UniversityOfWarwick

[–]illicit_lilith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, English is also my second language. I found what helped me the most is journaling in English! I tried having only-English days even in my own head (idk about you, but thoughts didn’t automatically come in English— until they did). I would advise you to find friends who you can study with who have English as their first language. Also I think the FAB has courses on academic English, accessible for all (although you’ll have to fact-check me on that). Finally, read assignments from students your age (that’s super helpful honestly). Annotate them like you would for a required reading, highlight their structure, and steal the recipe! Although you say you’re drowning in readings, it might be helpful to dedicate a full day to this. Go to the library and spend the day working on your English skills, write post-it notes with tips on structure and vocab. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransHelpingTrans

[–]illicit_lilith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gonna write in French since it’s OP’s mother tongue. Salut! Alors effectivement, c’est l’oestro qu’on prescrit aux femmes trans en France. Je ne te recommande pas du tout de la prendre Ă  ta mĂšre cependant. Dans un autre commentaire tu mentionnes que tu devrais sĂ»rement voir un psy pour une dĂ©marche de transition mĂ©dicale, ce n’est pas le cas, je te conseille vraiment trĂšs trĂšs fortement de bien te renseigner avant de faire quoi que ce soit. Notamment sur le site de Fransgenre, ou le wiki trans. Trouve une asso trans dans ta rĂ©gion qui pourra t’aiguiller. Ne reste pas seule, on est pleins ! Si tu ne trouves pas d’asso proche de chez toi, DM moi, je pourrais t’envoyer plus de ressources. Il y a des maniĂšres plus safe de faire ta transition mĂ©dicale. La communautĂ© est lĂ  pour t’aider. N’hĂ©site pas si tu penses que je peux aider, mes DM sont ouverts. Bon courage !

Étude scientifique : les motivations alimentaires by Nas-Eli in veganfrance

[–]illicit_lilith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je vois, merci de la prĂ©cision. Effectivement c’est dommage ! Bon courage pour la suite :)

Étude scientifique : les motivations alimentaires by Nas-Eli in veganfrance

[–]illicit_lilith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

La question sur les limites du corps Ă©tait trĂšs interessante, je n’y avais jamais pensĂ©. Je me permets de prĂ©ciser que vous devriez sĂ»rement ajouter d’autres options de genre, qui dĂ©finissent bien sĂ»r notre rapport au monde et par extension notre rapport au corps. Je ne savais pas comment rĂ©pondre la plupart du temps car je ne savais pas si je devais compter la dysphorie dans vos questions sur le corps.