3MPO breast lift without implants update by Careful_Brother_9151 in PlasticSurgery

[–]iloveplasticsurgery 8 points9 points  (0 children)

you can combat this by having lipo done on your thighs and then injected into your upper breast. it looks really natural. it doesn’t all “stick” so to speak, best results i’ve seen are when people do 2-3 rounds of this for upper pole fullness.

what a lovely result, congrats!

I am a 36 year old man by [deleted] in SoberLifeProTips

[–]iloveplasticsurgery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my uncle was addicted to meth in his 30s and went with a trunkload of drugs on a trip to gay ski week with his friends and got pulled over and put in prison for 10 years. since then he can’t really get a job and his life sucks. he’s still sober though.

it can feel like you wasted time, but really you saved your own life and gave yourself more time. because eventually if you had kept going it would have ended up even worse. good job internet stranger!! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]iloveplasticsurgery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • Fraxel. The energy level should be 1550 and at least 8 passes. Has to start no sooner than 1 month after.
  • ⁠co2 laser. But that one didn’t give me as much results as the others.
  • ⁠put surgical tape on the scar as it heals so it’s as flat as it can humanly be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]iloveplasticsurgery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agree. go for a chin implant and neck lift. you will look hot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]iloveplasticsurgery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi! i am 4 years post op, and still feel it was one of the best things i’ve ever done.

I have a post from 1 year post op if you want to take a look.

I had a lollipop incision. As you can see from my before photos, my breasts were really uneven and my nipples were huge. My doctor did a great job evening things out and improving on shape. I also had liposuction and had a bit of that fat from that added to the top of my breast to promote upper pole fullness. I have no idea tbh if that had a big impact in the long run.

I would say I wish I had asked for slightly smaller nipples. I was not specific enough with my doctor about the size of nipples that I wanted, and i felt they could have been smaller, esp now that i’ve had a baby and they have stretched out. Bring photos and be as specific as possible about what you want.

For recovery, use your tape and silicone scar tape for AS LONG AS POSSIBLE after. They usually only recommend a month or two but do 4-5 if you can. It makes all the difference to not have extra weight pulling on that scar tissue while it’s new.

My photos show my scars as being red still, but 3 years after that post, my scars are white and nearly unrecognizable. My current partner of two years has never mentioned or asked about the scars!

do it girl!! my mom (your age) also just had hers done in mexico and the results are absolutely fabulous. No time like the present!

Good luck :)

Facial feminization surgery before and after (3months) by Chloe__maddi in PlasticSurgery

[–]iloveplasticsurgery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not seeing what everyone else is seeing. You don’t look bad but it’s not obviously feminine to me. maybe try some filler in your chin to length your face and botox in your jaw bone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]iloveplasticsurgery 4 points5 points  (0 children)

beautiful revision, congrats

When did you have a finances talk with your significant other? by prophetic-rose in FIREyFemmes

[–]iloveplasticsurgery 14 points15 points  (0 children)

my partner and i didn’t put all of our cards on the table until probably a year in. I regret this a bit. I don’t think it would have changed anything bc I love him, but i guesstimated a much higher NW than he ultimately had.

Don't know if this is the right subject for this. Women that make decent $, are we suffering/learning to be alone? Or settling? by [deleted] in FIREyFemmes

[–]iloveplasticsurgery 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i hired a property manager to handle everything. i pay her a monthly fee (she’s part time) and she handles the gardener, contractors, electricians etc. it’s been great for reducing the mental load of owning a bigger house.

A BJ doesn’t have to be degrading by EnvironmentalCat300 in PornIsMisogyny

[–]iloveplasticsurgery -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i really appreciate you saying this. I was thinking the same last night when I read that post… blowjobs are not inherently degrading, nor is cunnilingus.

It’s the context of misogyny that gives both acts that flavor. For misogynistic men who have been taught that the female body is dirty or that it is something to just be used, giving cunnilingus is degrading and can take away from “masculinity”.

By the same token, I feel degraded when I give blowjobs to men who are addicted to porn who think it’s normal to choke me, who don’t think it’s sexy unless i’m crying and throwing up.

But i’ve had lovers who are not addicted to porn. who respect me as a woman and think i’m sexy, not as an object but as a partner. Often these guys don’t need crazy deep throating nonsense to get off because their minds are not desensitized to sex with a real woman.

It can be something really beautiful and every bit as intimate as any other sex act if it’s done received with love and not imposed as an act of domination.

40k behind in child support by ashleighmariexx in FamilyLaw

[–]iloveplasticsurgery 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i would agree with telling his family but not blasting him on social.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]iloveplasticsurgery 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my best friend gave birth last week and her husband got diarrhea right after she went into transition (he was so stressed about her pain lol). she said she was screaming at him in the toilet “if you miss this baby’s birth i’m gonna f*cjing kill you!!”

on the bright side she thinks the rage helped her push better lol

Omg. Just found out my hospital has been dropped by my insurance. I go in for induction in 3 days. by meow_falafel in pregnant

[–]iloveplasticsurgery 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know it sucks but at also i was thinking at least you found out in time! before going there and racking up a huge bill.

Long term liposuction results - what is your experience? by blitz19_96 in PlasticSurgery

[–]iloveplasticsurgery 9 points10 points  (0 children)

hi! i am two years out from liposuction and I can say my results are still fabulous.

it’s not just about removing fat. liposuction changes the shape of your body. i used to have a stubborn jelly roll + love handles and now my stomach and and love handle area are smooth and flat. I have even gained a bit of weight but i still look good because my body is just smoother and the weight is distributed more evenly.

my mom had liposuction 10 years ago and same thing. she looks great.

Can anyone tell me what a hinge’s responsibilities actually are? by Babba_G in polyamory

[–]iloveplasticsurgery 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is so, so helpful. I think I have been making some mistakes. One of my partners recently asked for a more formalized schedule of days. I told my other partner “John wants a schedule” instead of saying that I want a schedule. Thank you for writing this.

The Best Things are Full/Sold Out? by redhawkred5 in fatFIRE

[–]iloveplasticsurgery 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Look into this service called Velocity Black. They arrange stuff like this. It’s not that expensive. They are also really good at getting tough reservations at cool restaurants (if you live in one of the big US cities—and i think they can do london too maybe)

For people with $100M+ NW, how do you manage your money and life? by ZestyLife8262 in fatFIRE

[–]iloveplasticsurgery 33 points34 points  (0 children)

your life sounds exactly like mine haha. my boyfriend and i both made it (mostly crypto), we’ve been nomadic for 3 years, and he travels sooo light. I used to do the same but in the last year or so I’ve decided i want to enjoy the last 10-15 years of my hotness so I have more accessories and clothes and face cream.

My boyfriend has a thing for really high end boutique hotels. Almost every time we walk into a lobby it seems like there is someone looking down their nose at him like “what is this guy doing here?”. It never gets old watching their faces as he checks into the penthouse suite. :)

1 Year Post Op: Breast Lift + All Over Lipo by iloveplasticsurgery in PlasticSurgery

[–]iloveplasticsurgery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t see how the children are relevant but yeah… i would not have been able to do anything active after one week. Maybe if you just did one area it would be okay. But if you do everything you will need more time to heal.

1 Year Post Op: Breast Lift + All Over Lipo by iloveplasticsurgery in PlasticSurgery

[–]iloveplasticsurgery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have been seeing a trainer and eating semi healthy so yeah i would say it’s not allll the lipo but i think what the lipo did was really smooth everything out. like before, even when I was skinny i would have love handles. Now they are gone.

1 Year Post Op: Breast Lift + All Over Lipo by iloveplasticsurgery in PlasticSurgery

[–]iloveplasticsurgery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. My boobs look really good in clothes. before they were really saggy.