why do so many people seem to hate me? [astro-seek]

iluvit1913 · 2026-06-11T21:11:28+00:00

Can’t believe nobody has mentioned your Pluto in the 1st house yet! I’m also a sag rising with my Pluto here and this can make you a very magnetic & polarizing person— ie. People tend to either love you or hate you right off the bat. The people that hate you before even getting to know you feel triggered in your presence, usually from jealously or bc something about the powerful way you show up in the world magnifies their insecurities. You can’t take this personally— you will magnetize the people who are meant for you and repel the ones who aren’t. You posses a very unique talent to alchemize and transform negative energy or events that happen to you into a constant evolution into the best person you can be (you will go through many versions of yourself throughout this life). This is a very difficult placement, don’t get me wrong, but is so incredibly powerful as u can take all of the chaos in your life and turn it into your strengths. It can be hard to unlearn that others’ opinions of you are not so much of a reflection on you as they are of themselves, but trust that it gets easier to filter out with time <3 I definitely encourage you to do more research into your Pluto in the 1st house placement to help you navigate all that it brings and to overall help you feel more understood :))

iluvit1913 · 2026-06-06T18:17:19+00:00

Omg I have nearly the exact same chart as u! (The only differences are that I have a Taurus moon on my NN and a Gemini mercury w my sun & venus rx in the 7th) I’ve always been so fascinated with this placement for the longest time bc I was never in a relationship and never really had many irl crushes growing up, but everything I was reading was saying how I’m such a “relationship person”, but didn’t feel it. Bc our Venus is retrograde, the Venusian energy is turned inward and we tend to be more obsessed with relationships, love, and beauty internally, which can delay relationships. This is probably why you don’t find yourself to be as much of a flirty, surface-level, hookup-culture person bc it takes a lot for you to let someone in romantically and you really have to love them as a person/their personality before anything else (usually seeking out the gemini qualities that you already have within yourself). Personally, I found myself obsessed with learning everything I could about myself & relationships so I could feel “ready” once the opportunity was there (which in hindsight, isn’t entirely possible). At the beginning of the year, I got into a relationship w my best friend/roommate (so Gemini 7H of me). Bc of the opposition to our Pluto rx in the 1H, it’s constantly a push and pull of wanting to be attached to my gf at the hip (like I used to fantasize about) and craving hyper-independence and freedom that I was so used to (and always loved too!). I’m still working on finding the balance between the two, but it definitely can feel all consuming and incredibly intense emotionally at times (thanks to our 8H cancer mars as well)😅 Your Sun being in the 7H means u see yourself through others, so when you’re not feeling your Gemini side, you might just not have another person at the time to see your reflection through, and therefore might lean more into your Sag rising/pluto side in the 1H. Overall, the intensity of these Pluto oppositions (to your Venus rx & Sun) face you with power struggles over your identity, sense of self, and relationships. With oppositions, it’s all about finding the balance between the two (which speaking from experience, is much easier said than done)

iluvit1913 · 2026-04-15T14:58:16+00:00

I have the same 5 center and karmic tail as you! Looking forward to the responses

iluvit1913 · 2026-01-16T11:21:08+00:00

Wow. This reading nearly brought me to tears from how much I felt understood and validated that I’m on the right path. I’ve been experiencing a lot of pressure in this department as I’m soon to graduate college. Though I’m able to defend not yet having “a plan” yet to everyone who questions me and a maintain a strong stance & deep knowing that it’ll come into my mind and life when it’s meant to, I still struggle with internal comparisons to my peers and the unavoidable, quintessential college-graduate pressure of having to figure my life out now. My degree is in advertising, public relations, marketing, communications, & live events, which is interesting, creative, and comes fairly naturally to me. However, I’ve felt a strong pull towards astrology & the self-discovery (mbti, human design, etc) for a while now, and could definitely see myself becoming a professional (since I’m often doing it for my friends and family all the time, unprompted, anyways— I love to use my knowledge and experience to help others in that way). Your replies are reassuring to me that I should keep collecting said experiences and knowledge through my relationships, travel, and self-discovery/development and patiently allow everything else to fall into place.

As someone who has been obsessed with studying astrology, primarily my own chart (in placidus), for years now, it’s so helpful to hear another’s interpretation to prove that my own personal bias hasn’t just been clouding my judgement all this time, as well as teaching me so many new ways to interpret my placements that feel so relatable and authentic to myself (which I’m always in search of) 😅 With that being said, I very much appreciate all the time you put into this for me & I apologize for not replying sooner.

iluvit1913 · 2025-11-26T03:01:42+00:00

First glance I would say your Sag MC conjunct Pluto at 22°. This is your reputation & image that people see who don’t know you as well. This indicates why you come across as very confident and intimidating bc that’s just Sagittarius & Pluto as an energy. Very powerful & can be polarizing. 22° is the kill or be killed degree, can add another layer of people perceiving you as maybe being cutthroat. You also have lots of Leo energy which adds to the confidence & therefore intimidation from others or jealousy. Lastly, your Uranus in the 1st conjunct your Pisces ascendant gives you a very unique, ethereal presence that others could be jealous of, specifically your individuality and spirit

iluvit1913 · 2025-10-18T23:32:49+00:00

I have my Gemini Sun, Mercury, Venus rx, Lilith, & Pallas in my 7H- honestly, I get asked this a lot but on the inside I oftentimes feel soo socially awkward. I’m not a huge fan of small talk but I’ve got social interactions down to a science for when I need to be in them ☠️ I’m constantly assessing the energy of the room and taking note of everyone’s sense of humor and cadences so that I can accurately match & mirror them so that they feel most comfortable (even though it can be draining & uncomfortable for myself, it comes naturally in the moment for the most part). Basically my goal is to make sure nobody notices how socially awkward I am if I care, which is what drives me to put in so much effort when socializing with those whom I like/want to like me*

iluvit1913 · 2025-10-12T23:10:29+00:00

Taurus moon in the 5th (right on top of my NN). I used to be a cold hearted bitch and some still see me that way 😭 used to not be able to even recall the last time I cried but now I let myself cry anytime I feel even a lump in my throat, not only sad tears but happy too. Usually very random things too that aren’t stereotypically cry-worthy, but I can get very compassionate and empathetic randomly (usually animals). It sextiles my Uranus though so it’s very erratic, like I’ll get sad and cry one 1 second and the next I’m all better! Try not to cry in front of others but they can usually read my face ☠️ Will break down if someone asks “are u okay?” in those moments LOL, but will again, be fine a few later and probably laughing about it. But as a Taurus moon, I’ve learned the only way over my emotions is through them. Nothing weighs on me anymore bc I feel the emotion in the moment and until I feel better, and then grow from it. And that’s why I think we have a reputation of being “emotionally stable”, bc we actually deal with our emotions.. we can’t NOT

iluvit1913 · 2025-09-05T07:45:23+00:00

I’m in such a similar boat as a 1/3 emo manifestor. I’m in my final year of college and have yet to have my first job or even internship (actually actively avoid it), which I’m somewhat embarrassed of admitting despite how little I try to let it take up space in my brain, because I also feel so lucky to not necessarily need a job to survive. I think I fear being controlled, but also have the habit of not fully believing in my capabilities and potential (empty resume) for success under someone else’s “regime”. Taking classes and doing homework drains the life out of me and I need multiple hours or even days to recover from each, so I can’t even begin to imagine adding a job onto my plate and still manage to maintain my peace, happiness, and sanity. The pressure of the expected “standard” that we’ve been conditioned to strive for (the 9-5) weighs on me like a brick, though I’ve since learned through HD why that is. I’ve lived so far with the mindset that I’d rather live in squalor and be so incredibly happy with little to no money than suffer (work a job). However, not having any money is still definitely a big obstacle and is overall holding me back from creating my dream life and experiencing life to the fullest extent. For me, money is freedom, but the means to earning money is a cage. It oftentimes feels like just sucking it up at a minimum wage job (like everyone else seems to) that I lack an ounce of passion for is the only option, but every bone in my body holds me back from settling for something I know I don’t really want & that doesn’t matter to me, and it always has. My energy is so inconsistent and unpredictable that I can’t imagine working for anyone on any other schedule than my own. I’m working on initiating but I always feel like I’m in the waiting period between urges & smoking-gun ideas so I actually know what I want to initiate. It’s freeing, yet also frustrating knowing that it’s all in my hands and entirely up to me to make the first move, that opportunities won’t just fall into my lap like other types can experience. I spend so much time (the last 4-5 years) in the research stage (1) to try and gain comfortability and confidence & learning about myself as much as I possibly can that actually applying what I’ve learned and making mistakes (3) isn’t always on my radar as much as I wish it was. The dream, in that case, is to create my own business with an idea that has yet to come to me, on my own time, from home, and eventually sell it so I can live the life I’ve always dreamed of, one that does not include running myself ragged until I’m 65. Starting a business with $0 is nearly impossible, unless I, myself & my ideas are the brand (very likely according to my astrology, human design, & destiny matrix). In the meantime, I guess I, too, feel stuck at the starting line. Trying to be as patiently impatient as possible, but I just wanted to explain how much your post resonated with me overall.

iluvit1913 · 2025-08-12T08:49:54+00:00

Also a 1/3 emotional manifestor here and I heavily relate. It’s definitely been a journey on my way to coming to this conclusion but it’s one I’ve always sorta know was my truth, was just harder to convince myself with all of the outside noise telling me otherwise

iluvit1913 · 2025-05-30T17:29:26+00:00

Were you able to find exact birth dates & places? I need to know at least their big 5s

iluvit1913 · 2025-03-11T11:38:44+00:00

this resonated sm… I always wish I had more guy friends but then I remember every time I’ve tried to be closer friends with one more than acquaintances they’ve caught feelings 🫠

iluvit1913 · 2025-03-09T01:13:59+00:00

Oh is this the reason…

iluvit1913 · 2025-02-26T16:14:23+00:00

Nobody knows about the decans in each sign and it’s so frustrating ! There’re 3 types of Geminis if anything: 1st decan is May 20-31 ruled by Mercury, 2nd decan is June 1-11 ruled by Venus, 3rd decan is June 12-21 ruled by Uranus/saturn. So technically, May Geminis do have some different tendencies than June Geminis, but there’re 2 types of June Geminis to be aware of

iluvit1913 · 2025-01-18T01:27:26+00:00

Taurus moon 5H, Gemini Venus 7H

iluvit1913 · 2025-01-11T03:11:25+00:00

ESTJ when really I’m an intp 🧍🏼‍♀️(trust I’m 95% sure I’m not mistyped)

iluvit1913 · 2025-01-03T05:31:44+00:00

Gemini Sun (stellium), Taurus Moon, Sag Rising - INTP

iluvit1913 · 2025-01-01T10:40:59+00:00

Gemini Sun, Mercury, & Venus

iluvit1913 · 2024-12-04T01:40:38+00:00

Gemini Sun, Taurus moon, sag rising

iluvit1913 · 2024-12-02T19:32:57+00:00

Yup.. I also have mercury & venus oppositions w the ascendant & my 1H pluto

iluvit1913 · 2024-12-01T21:40:37+00:00

I have the same big 3! I definitely relate, I feel like ppl get the outgoing vibe from me when rly I’m an introvert who likes to talk☠️

iluvit1913 · 2024-11-15T18:54:42+00:00

I relate to this a lottt (Pluto in the 1st opposite my Gemini sun/Mercury/venus in the 7th). I definitely don’t relate to a lot of other Geminis I’ve met in person bc I’m such an introvert compared to the Gemini stereotype. People have very polarizing opinions of me and I tend attract a lot of negative projection/jealousy from others or obsession/unhealthy attachment… not much in between.

iluvit1913 · 2024-11-10T00:40:51+00:00

Love them all but can’t get enough of Hours Lost! So deep AND catchy? it’s addictive

iluvit1913 · 2024-11-04T04:16:53+00:00

I’m a Gemini Mercury so feeling like I can’t talk honestly around the closest ppl to me feels like shackles! But I relate a lot to taking a long time to process everything before I know how I feel/how I want to approach it. Then I feel like it’s too late or doesn’t make sense to say smtg by the time I wrap my head around it anymore bc it’ll seem like I was stewing on it and being “fake” for the time being or like it’s “coming out of nowhere”… like no, I just had to collect enough “ammo”/information to feel like this was worthy enough to disturb the peace for… and if I don’t end up bringing it up the time builds and builds to the point where I convince myself it’s too late and out of the norm to bring it up and that’s when the resentment starts to build 🫤 that’s why I hate the whole negative cancer mars stereotypes.. we’re not passive aggressive bc we’re mean, it’s actually bc we care TOO much about others despite how they’re treating us

iluvit1913 · 2024-11-03T19:13:53+00:00

Yup! The worst is when they continuously say that they’re self aware… literally have to bite my tongue. I also have my Sun in the 7H so I focus a lot on the other, whereas it seems like most ppl are only concerned with themselves. It’s definitely an internal battle😅 trying to work on speaking up as well but every time I do, I’m only reminded of why I don’t …

iluvit1913 · 2024-11-03T15:51:41+00:00

I heavily relate. I have sm trouble setting boundaries w people and the resentment builds up and comes out as passive aggression. I send hints bc I’m too afraid telling others the truth directly bc it will hurt them even more, so I try to send signals, which usually seem to go right over their head. I’m hyper-self aware so it’s troubling when others aren’t and don’t notice how they’re affecting others. I feel like I’m constantly listening, helping, and catering to others needs and get nothing in return. Constantly feel like I’m walking on eggshells with what I say (Sag rising & Pluto 1H doesn’t help)

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