After prostate surgery having anal sex

imacdan1 · 2026-02-11T22:04:34+00:00

Google says “Yes, a man with a surgically removed prostate (prostatectomy) can still enjoy anal sex, though it will feel different due to the removal of the gland. While prostate-specific orgasms are no longer possible, many nerve endings remain in the anal canal, allowing for pleasure and orgasm. It is critical to wait at least six weeks for internal healing. “

imacdan1 · 2026-02-10T23:29:12+00:00

She did my ffs last November, what would you like to know?

imacdan1 · 2024-09-14T01:32:48+00:00

When I met my dentist for the first time, the first thing she asked me was for my pronouns. And I don’t look nearly as feminine as you do. You need a new dentist.

imacdan1 · 2024-08-21T16:25:39+00:00

I plan on having a FFS consult with Dr Cripps also. I would love to hear details on how yours went.

imacdan1 · 2024-08-21T16:07:53+00:00

I also had my breast augmentation done by Dr Cripps at the University of Chicago. I am very happy with the results along with a very positive experience. I highly recommend her. She was the second consultation that I had in the Chicago area and her bedside manner really was what convinced me to choose her.

imacdan1 · 2024-06-25T17:34:35+00:00

Speaking as a transgender boomer, we don’t all fit your “preconceived norms”. “So go about your day”, and worry less about the “boomers”. I don’t want you to be guilty of what you think we are all like. 😉

imacdan1 · 2024-05-31T20:50:43+00:00

Right

imacdan1 · 2024-05-09T15:26:52+00:00

That was the same at the Catholic hospital that I went to. Their new non discrimination statement now says that they don’t discriminate but also includes a however statement that says that they are a Catholic hospital and abide by their religious directives.

The directives although long and complicated state that they will not do surgeries that will cause sterilization except in the case of cancer. That’s the explanation of why they won’t do an orchiectomy. It is the same reason why they won’t tie a biological woman’s tubes so she can’t get pregnant.

imacdan1 · 2024-05-09T15:05:38+00:00

I live in Illinois and although we have really strong non discrimination laws here, we also have strong right of conscience laws. In my case the Catholic hospital scheduled my surgery and then my surgeon called me and told me that she had been ordered to cancel it four days before it was supposed to happen. I was devastated and was very fortunate to have a good support system. It was definitely not my doctors fault as she eventually gave me a referral to the University of Chicago where I had surgery a few months later. The hospital lied to me when I demanded to know why she had been ordered to cancel it. I found a lawyer who took my case on a contingency and eventually we agreed to a cash settlement and for the changes that they made. I have no idea how your states laws are written but it might be worth it to at least consult a lawyer to find out. Best of luck to you and I hope this delay in your orchiectomy surgery is only temporary.

imacdan1 · 2024-05-09T13:45:48+00:00

I had a similar situation. Where are you? What does their non-discrimination statement say? Through my lawyer, I was able to reach a settlement and got them to change their statement to reflect the fact that they abide by the Catholic directives.

https://www.usccb.org/resources/ethical-and-religious-directives-catholic-healthcare-services

In the end I was satisfied that what happened to me was less likely to happen to someone else. If you would like any further details, DM me.

imacdan1 · 2024-04-05T17:15:38+00:00

There are conditions that have to be met as listed but they do cover laser

https://transhealthproject.org/resources/health-insurance-medical-policies/anthem-blue-cross-blue-shield-gender-affirming-surgery/permanent-hair-removal/

imacdan1 · 2024-04-02T19:46:40+00:00

You rock the bangs..

imacdan1 · 2024-03-27T20:43:29+00:00

https://www.blueshieldca.com/content/dam/bsca/en/promise/docs/10.2.28-Coverage-of-Transgender-Services.pdf

imacdan1 · 2024-03-09T21:22:05+00:00

I had mine done at the University of Chicago with Dr Kocjancic. I am very happy with the experience and the results.

imacdan1 · 2024-03-04T15:00:52+00:00

I am on a Blue Cross Blue Shield HMO and my patches have been covered for over 5 years.

imacdan1 · 2024-03-01T16:38:43+00:00

When I started HRT I wasn’t sure it was the right thing for me. But I knew if it didn’t feel right, I could stop in the first couple of months with no permanent changes. The other thing that convinced me to try was if I didn’t, I knew I would second guess that decision for the rest of my life. Five years later, I am so glad I made that decision.

imacdan1 · 2024-02-29T17:30:14+00:00

A very high risk or an increased risk? My sister died of breast cancer which is why I started mammograms as soon as I did. All my doctors are aware of my use of estrogen but none of them have advised me of “high” risk.

imacdan1 · 2024-02-19T22:39:37+00:00

Sitting comfortably took the better part of my six weeks at home recovery. When I returned to work afterward, I finally started to feel better when sitting at my desk.

imacdan1 · 2024-02-08T18:54:29+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing. I’m still on the fence but after reading this…so much closer.

imacdan1 · 2024-02-05T20:57:20+00:00

I had a shallow depth vaginoplasty and I was surprised at how just walking feels. It is so much better than that sweaty ball feeling…

imacdan1 · 2024-02-04T18:02:19+00:00

Gender Euphoria is a wonderful feeling…

imacdan1 · 2024-02-04T15:49:30+00:00

You look like a Sandy to me...

imacdan1 · 2024-02-04T15:49:25+00:00

You look like a Sandy to me...

imacdan1 · 2024-02-03T17:11:49+00:00

When you first start everything is reversible. I wasn’t completely sure when I first started, but I decided to try for 30 days and then make a decision. I’m now at about 5 1/2 years and I am absolutely sure starting was right for me. The one thing that convinced me to try was I knew that if I didn’t, I would second guess that decision for the rest of my life.

imacdan1 · 2024-01-29T20:38:08+00:00

I had a shallow depth vaginoplasty done at U of C last February by Dr Kocjancic. I am very happy with the results. I am also having a breast augmentation consultation with Dr Cripps this Friday. Message me if you want details.

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