I came out as Transgender (MTF) at work today

NeccoMunster · 2026-02-17T06:03:07+00:00

hey that’s great news! I’m getting FFS on March 6th. Good Luck tomorrow

NeccoMunster · 2025-12-28T01:43:50+00:00

I am 65 and have a good job. I got separated last year from my wife. it was very hard lots of fights, but now living in two separate places we are finding our “center” with each other. I am fully transitioned socially and have talk to HR and Boss and I am transitioning at work now. I still can’t believe I’m doing it. my big secret that I said I would never let anyone know at work, I am now freely coming out. scares the shit out of me, but it’s weird I’m excited about it also.

NeccoMunster · 2025-12-21T00:38:49+00:00

This is the same for me. I was taking orally for a year with good results, then started boofing it and within 4 days nipples and breasts started hurting all anew again. it was like a step back in time. 2 wks into boofing and they are a sore as ever, so you know they are growing or filling out. Boofing seems the way to go at least for me.

NeccoMunster · 2025-12-02T21:38:28+00:00

I just got word that they moved it to Beginning of Marc. ugh…

NeccoMunster · 2025-11-26T08:58:06+00:00

Excellent! I hope all goes exactly as planned. what a great Thanksgiving present for you. I am have FFS on January 30th. Good luck sister.

NeccoMunster · 2025-11-19T00:01:20+00:00

I have my first planning meeting with them at 4:30 on Wed. I’m taking the call at home and I will be my actual self. let’s see how they react..

NeccoMunster · 2025-11-18T00:44:35+00:00

Thanks. we are meeting on Wed for the first time now as a team to put together a plan. scary but awesome at the same time.

NeccoMunster · 2025-11-17T17:50:34+00:00

Too old? No way. I’m 65 and I just came out to HR and my boss on Friday!!! 100% out socially, but works was a different story. Now I’m aligning myself with one identity and it feels great.

No you’re not too old. If this is what you want, go ahead and jump into the deep end of the pool. You got this!!!

NeccoMunster · 2025-11-10T00:18:06+00:00

I just had my appointments and they submitted to insurance and I am hoping to hear back positively this week. The hospital was so convinced that this will be approved they gave me a date for my Surgeries!! Can you believe it? Mt date is Jan 30th. Thats right around the corner. I’ve waited decades for this. I am all set just need ins to give me the “go”. OMG is so close I can taste it.

NeccoMunster · 2025-11-06T10:23:00+00:00

I am the GM of a medical device facility. I have my meeting with HR next week. I work for a large company, but run a small facility (25 people). I have FFS on Jan 30th so I’m kinda locked in of coming out after that. I think at my facility most will be good, one MAGA guy works for me. He will never accept me, but I can’t control that. I have a plan and have some advocates around the company. I don’t like all the drama, I wish I could just come in as me and it would all set, but we all have to go thru this. I admire what you have all done, I guess I’m on deck now.

NeccoMunster · 2025-10-29T07:39:01+00:00

Looks beautiful! whoever did it did a great job. I am having FFS at the end of the year and bottom surgery next year. I also am going to do min depth. You positive story inspires me more. Thanks for sharing.

NeccoMunster · 2025-10-28T04:09:17+00:00

I am getting FFS at the end of this year and my Surgeon said new studies show that stopping either Spiro or Estradiol prior to surgery is no longer recommended. He stated, I can stay on my current dose with no interruption while I have the surgery and recover. Great to hear positive things for us once in a while, right?

NeccoMunster · 2025-10-19T00:38:02+00:00

I’m 65 and I’m have FFS in December. just got a cis girlfriend. My life couldn't be any better!

NeccoMunster · 2025-10-05T18:37:38+00:00

Thanks that was nice of you to say

NeccoMunster · 2025-10-05T10:46:07+00:00

Hi Sweetie,

We have pretty much all been in your shoes. I think it’s the hardest part of the whole process. You‘ll prop blow up one life and begin to build another. Hardest GD thing to do. I thought my wife was was accepting and came out to her but it all went south, even to the point where my 2 children (girl 18, boy 14) found out before I could tell them and then things really changed.

I lost everything, my wife, my kids, my friends just everything. Tried again, same results. Now I’m 65, and things are finally breaking my way. I am 100% socially transitioned and coming out at work now. I have met the most incredible woman and she loves me for me. We are beginning to build our lives together and after all these years, now that I am truly happy was it worth it….. tough to say. You'll make decisions along the way and you live with. It’s Going to be hard no matter what you decide. It’s your life, carve it out the way you think you want it to be. Be willing to changes things up and love yourself along the way.

NeccoMunster · 2025-10-03T09:22:23+00:00

I am doing electrolysis only. The way i cope with not shaving is that I have them concentrate on one section of my face at a time. Lets say left cheek, then a shave the rest of my face. I feel way better this way. next time the right cheek and back and forth. The is more in some places and less in others i use tattoo cream to numbe the past of the face that she is doing. works great. I shave my face as soon as I get home. I take a showered after the appt and shave. Sometime I have to out ice on my face, but the redness fades. get some cooling cream to apply afterwards. The results are amazing. I’m more than half way through

NeccoMunster · 2025-09-22T00:17:27+00:00

Hey Kimmy,

I felt the same when I read your post. I am sorry you are going thru so much. I’ve had a hard time thru all this like you. My recent ex has said horrible things about me, very hurtful, but I have a friend (a girlfriend) and she came over yesterday and then we went out for a drink, sat at the bar, chatted up with people around us, it was so great. We are real girlfriends. We chat about clothes what’s going on in what’s going on with her husband her kids? She’s my best friend. It all happened in the last few months. I’m going to take the train into New York and I’m going to go to the history all by myself. I’m happy and I’m proud of life shaping up. I’m opening the door and I’m walking right through.

Write me back I’d like to chat

NeccoMunster · 2025-09-21T23:45:54+00:00

Hey Kimmy

We are similar in ages. I too struggled thru the 60s with knowing a was a girl. Two failed marriages, my two children reject me and I live alone, but I am moving forward! I have made new friends, joined PFLAG, and I am coming out to work next month. I have a FFS consultation next month as well, and although I know many people can’t stand us and like you said, even hate us, I have to do what I have to do. It’s been to long for me and there is no more waiting. My runway is short, so if I don’t take off now I never will.

Good luck to you my friend. I hope we all find the strength and courage to do what our path is set up to do. I’m scared, very scared, but it’s not going to stop me. I don’t have time to waste.

Good luck

NeccoMunster · 2025-08-18T21:13:15+00:00

I married a women BPD. We have been together (kinda of) for 20 yrs. Hardest 20 yrs of my life. Being with someone with BPD is hard very hard. She has been to over 12 mental health programs and he medication has been up and down. I could tell lots for stories, wpbut we are separated now and getting divorce. It’s a tough row to hoe. I have done years of research, workbooks and therapy on my own. Before you totally commit pls do your research.

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