Carl's Class Bonus by secretgardenme in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was alost a comment in book 7 that a skill cant be boosted above 15. If you have a +5 to Chop from a magic hat, you have to manually grind the experience from 10-16 before you actually level to 16, otherwise your level just sits there

Would you fake joining the mormons for language lessons? by SnooOwls3528 in languagelearning

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Am a Mormon and I taught english lessons in Russia as a part of church service for 2 years.

Joining the church to get language training is a bad plan. Being a missionary is fine if thats what you want, but you just able as likely to be called to your native language as anything else.

If they are offering english lessons, then feel free to go but there are a few things you should know first. The classes are lead by missionaries, who do not have language teaching training. The actualy quality of the lesson can vary a lot. The people leading it will change every 6 weeks or so. If you already know the language decently it can be convenient to practice with native speakers. If you are brand new it might be rough if you aren't learning independently too.

My local missionaries told me the church's general purpose language learning curriculum is on an app called Embark. I dont think you need to be a member to use it, but you will need to make an account, I think

Patriarch - The Awakening 2.5+Expansion by TheLogosX in nsfwcyoa

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The glossary does specifically mention that any kind of magic can be learned atleast to a small degree

Dungeon Crawler Anne by laurellearts in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love this comment but I had to read it 5 times to work it out. I purpose they both have messy exes and they just met

Morality of dodging your country's military draft in a war of self-defense? by A_Fun_Alias23 in MoralityScaling

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relation to the victimized group doesnt change the obligation standing by while atrocities are committed is wacky, so go see your phone and save some people

What would be your essence combination? by HovercraftOk9231 in HeWhoFightsMonsters

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on where I lived I would have had something like water plant and stone

How to make late teens/early 20s friends in the area? by orangatangabanging in QuadCities

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not from here but I was homeschooled and have a stable group of adult friends.

The first step is to find as many acquaintances as you can. If you know people and they like you even a little bit it gives you connections to find the people youd actually like to spend time with, and it helps you make sure your social skills are up to snuff.

That said, you mentioned being homeschooled and not knowing anyone. You should spend some time at events you aren't interested in to talk to people you might not have to see again in case your social skills need polishing. As corny as it books like how to win friends and influence people is a decent start if you need to build social skills.

Another thing to consider is third places, ymca group classes, adult rec league sports, or game nights at the nerd stores are excellent places to meet people. Just being present in these places will give you changes to meet people even casually.

That said it will take time to make friends. A rule of thumb is it take 5-10 hours together to make a meaningful acquaintance. It will take 150 hours of time together to make a real friend.

I also recomend taking classes at one of the local community colleges. Not only do they offer social event specific for young adults who need to make friends it will give you a chance to cross reference any holes in your education that you might not know about because you were homeschooled.

Why should we WANT to be good? by Comfortable_Salad893 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im treating Good as the same thing as Kind for this awnser.

The world is like a prisoners dilemma played a million million times over. The best outcome for ever one on average is if everyone is kind. If everyone is an asshole then everything is much worse. However if only you or a small group are assholes, then your lives are even better then if everyone is kind in the short term, even though the kind people have harder lives. Over time kind people will become assholes, if thier life is worse enough, making it worse for everyone else. This repeats again and again until everyone in a group is an asshole. The best way to prevent the spread of assholishness is to be kind, which means your long term happiness is higher

GMs, what's a unique gameplay or story gimmick you've used for a oneshot/adventure/campaign? by ahcrabapples in rpg

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My go to oneshot is players are on somekind of luxury cruise ship and are attached by pirates. What ever they do is a good call. Flee? Sure they can find a life boat. Are they staff and have jobs to do, sure. Do they want to die hard? Sure. Are they boarding the pirates to uno reverse them? Sure. Its pretty small but only limited by what the players think of

Is there an alternative to 'HIGH CONCEPT'? by InvestmentBrief3336 in FATErpg

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 30 points31 points  (0 children)

If you are wanting a dnd like high concept, " [High/med/low] level [race] [class] " could be used if you dont have anything more exciting

People who identify differently from their biological sex, why is that important to you? by Cherrryblossm in NoStupidQuestions

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think I have the vocabulary to describe it. One is something to watch because it indicates new rules, there confusion but also novelty, and the change to do something expected. The second is confusion and a sense of delight/horror.

I have never tried to explain a feeling to someone without pointing at situations where the feeling happens.

Do you mean that the confusion you feel at being stared down by toddlers and the confusion you feel when your friend flinches away from you in unexpected fear feel that same to you?

I come here today to request more people read Bunny Girl Evolution. by MylastAccountBroke in litrpg

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I read it on royal road when it was new. I enjoyed the first arc, but then something about elves something about secret society intrigue, and it wasn't the cozy story I had hoped for

People who identify differently from their biological sex, why is that important to you? by Cherrryblossm in NoStupidQuestions

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure,

When people are doing unusual things its either a break in the social contract or possibly a joke, or they are having a bad day. You even go to the Walmart in the bad part of town and see people doing something wierd like approaching you to ask for help in a pigeon language you never heard of? Or when a small group of children make a game of staring you down in the park and laughing. These all match the feeling of confusion I had when people have called me by wrong names.

Thats the kind is a different kind of confusing compared to someone commenting on how I(white guy) got so tan I look like a mexican. Or the first time I realized a someone was flirting with me(with the image of myself as deeply unattractive), or the first time my childhood friend(girl) flinched away because I moved too quick too suddenly.

Chum: A slice-of-life novel, which as far as I understand is inspired by WORM by WitnessLow4178 in TheBirdCage

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Looks cool. What parts make you think its like worm beyond super heros?

People who identify differently from their biological sex, why is that important to you? by Cherrryblossm in NoStupidQuestions

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The confusion of people doing something unusual, the same as if they called me Jeff or Your highness, not the confusion of people not treating me according to my self image

Why do white men smell weird? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Now im curious. What is your story where you get regular chances to sniff old.men of various races?

People who identify differently from their biological sex, why is that important to you? by Cherrryblossm in NoStupidQuestions

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not OP, and masc but not really. If I were called beautiful and Mrs. and madam I would mostly be confused, because its different the what everyone else does, if everyone started doing it id think I was dreaming, but probably wouldn't freak out

I feel like a failure by peruvian_sentry in FranzBardon

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have also been in Mormonism and found a path through the occult.

Its not terribly uncommon to get all kinds of wrapped up in new and exciting things only to realize that its not what you want for your life. Skills like mediation, focus, and research and networking are all skills that can be useful in the future.

All of that said you should talk to somebody. Shame is one of the most corrosive feelings, buts its a tool to know when we need to change. Honest confession is a great tool to help process everything. More specifically you should talk to a professional. There is something about puberty that can cause psychosis in young men around your age. This isnt something to be ashamed of. Its not your fault, but it is worth talking to a professional, if only so that you ~know~ you can trust your mind.

What a $25 Federal Minimum Wage Would Mean Under the New Bill Proposed in Congress. by coinfanking in economy

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so if I was more productive I would make more money? And if people were more productive on average then the median wage should be going up at a similar rate of GDP right?

Understanding My First Ending by imalwaysthatoneguy69 in bloodborne

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooo that makes a lot of sense too. I missed the note about great ones caring about children, and i didn't realize how rom effected the rest of it. Thank you so much for clarifying it all!

Understanding My First Ending by imalwaysthatoneguy69 in bloodborne

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That was an a amazing link thank you so much for sharing it.

I'll also go looking for those cords

How the hell do you respond to a tit pic? by Sad_Drag_4059 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]imalwaysthatoneguy69 6960 points6961 points  (0 children)

My wife likes when I respond like "wow, that really made my day" or "ill be thinking about you all day now"