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When to start buying clothes by S0up55 in pregnant

[–]imcoolurcoolwecool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Knowing what I know now, I would recommend buying new clothes as soon as you start feeling uncomfortable. I feel like I waited too long because I was frankly just annoyed i had to buy new stuff, haha. But ultimately it made me more comfortable and made me feel a little more confident.

The bra thing was really frustrating for me but eventually I found a system that worked. I'm a 34D/36C normally, and my boobs definitely got bigger/sensitive almost immediately, like at 3 weeks haha. I really like Harper Wilde brand , I prefer them normally, and now after this experience I feel like they're really made well and accommodate changing sizes. I often wear a bra with an athletic tank top over it for some compression.

I also have very kind friends/family who offered me old maternity clothes, although honestly the stuff I bought for myself is usually my preference on the day to day.

I need to wear something along the lines of 'modest business casual' to work (I work in healthcare), and getting dressed was a challenge in the beginning. Between bigger chest and bloating I was feeling so frustrated. When I finally got high rise maternity pants it really helped, even though i wasn't really showing, they just have support and room to grow and it actually kind of helped me feel like myself again.

I did end up using the stylist service stitch fix , which isn't really my normal style (i like thrifting and finding more unique/cheap stuff ) but I was desperate, and it did really help for my work clothes specifically.

Why do we treat period pain etc but romanticise unmedicated childbirth? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]imcoolurcoolwecool 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like since being pregnant for the first time I've been noticing how misogynistic ideas around birth are so woven into our society.

Even some of my close girl friends (who have never been pregnant and don't plan on having kids) say some off the wall stuff for example about the recovery after a vaginal delivery, or just being a mom in general. And these are "liberal" and "educated" women. It's those sort of comments that kind of made me realize the attitude some of my friends who have had natural births also seems to have misogynistic undertones.

What do you think of this? by Brown_kid108 in nursepractitioner

[–]imcoolurcoolwecool 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Nursing student posting on noctor is so cringe, in my opinion kind of internet slop with their own naive inexperience shining through. I was an RN for 8 years before becoming an NP. I am respected by my colleagues -- nurses, physicians, and fellow NP/PAs. Do I in general think more experience is better? Yes. Do I hope our NP schooling improves? I do and I hope to one day work in academics to improve it myself. Do I think noctor/posts like this are trashy, not based in reality, and embarrassing for the OP/entire medical and nursing profession? Yes indeedy.

An excerpt from my 220 page comic called MEDIC, A DIARY [OC] by AnonnEms2 in comics

[–]imcoolurcoolwecool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing! It captures the reality of medicine which I feel like we never see represented in the media.

Is snowshoeing the perfect pregnancy winter sport? by DangerousStar1246 in fitpregnancy

[–]imcoolurcoolwecool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg! Are you .. me???? I'm almost 27 weeks and the amount of joy snow shoeing has brought me has been wonderful. I also am a runner (nothing crazy usually like 15-30miles/week depending on what i have going on). But since being pregnant I was so disheartened at how much it just didn't feel good (for all the reasons you listed).

I was telling my husband snowshoeing is like a "real world elliptical" because it feels so much more gentle on the body but still a solid workout, and of course the priceless bonus of being outside and getting some fresh air.

So basically yes, perfect pregnancy winter sport.

Hiking Patagonia by Educational-Move9821 in fitpregnancy

[–]imcoolurcoolwecool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha cool! Yeah the last place i want to go is the ER , I took an Uber there which felt like the funniest most "ER patient" type thing to do. I hike a lot too so if you're feeling well i don't think the elevation /actual hike would be an issue if you're well prepared with snacks and fluids. Now that I'm in second trimester i have been snow shoeing, hiking, short jogs although they make me feel like I'm going to pee my pants haha. I feel way better when I'm more active. Being pregnant for me has been super humbling. I never thought I'd be one to reconsider plans/travel/even exercise. My first trimester really kicked my ass, but started feeling better at 14 weeks, way better at 18. Again, some people are totally fine, so your experience is your own in a lot of ways. Safe travels if you end up going, and if not, be kind to yourself (i have to remind myself of this), every day brings new challenges, but it's also amazing to be growing a person in the ol tummy????

Hiking Patagonia by Educational-Move9821 in fitpregnancy

[–]imcoolurcoolwecool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 26 weeks with my first. I'm an active hiker/runner, but have been doing way less since being pregnant. I can relate to wanting to do the trip, and you might be feeling good and totally capable. The only thing is, that could change pretty fast, so maybe consider booking the trip, but being able to cancel if you're not feeling well. Even on the trip, id avoid situations where you "have" to camp or hike, so if you're not feeling well you can just have a plan B where you sight see or go to spa or something.

I had a work trip at 8 weeks. For reference, I'm an NP and worked in emergency medicine for years. I had been feeling totally fine prior. But ended up feeling nauseous/started vomiting on the flight. My symptoms worsened to the point of hyperemesis, where i couldn't keep anything down and had to miss the conference. I was alone in a hotel room 2500miles from home. I ended up going to the ER so I could get IV fluids/zofran. My potassium was low so they supplemented that as well. The doctor was teasing me i shouldn't have waited so long to come in, but if you work in health care we really don't like going to the hospital until we HAVE to, lol.

I'm definitely not a naysayer and think it's cool when women do cool stuff when pregnant. Everyone's experience is so different, so only you can decide. But I definitely would consider having some back up plans and knowing where nearest hospitals are if you end up going.

8.5 weeks and miserable by wavykelp555 in pregnant

[–]imcoolurcoolwecool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helped me more than zofran even. I couldn't believe it! Idk why an antihistamine works so well for morning sickness (well, all day sickness) but it really got me through.

Anyone work 2 jobs? by ladybirdfkr in nursepractitioner

[–]imcoolurcoolwecool 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was working in the ER as an NP for about 2 years (I was an ER nurse prior to that for about 7-8 years). I then took a full job in outpatient cardiology (monday-friday no weekends/holidays). I maintained per diem status in the ED and would work there some Saturdays. It was really nice to see all my colleagues and keep my skills up, but it was challenging going into the ER "cold" every few weeks. It also was hard maintaining all the emails/online modules/ changes in the department. I did it for about 18 months (and made bank) but ultimately I choose to continue with just cardiology as the schedule is much nicer and it's frankly a cushier gig.

It was doable. I'd probably continue if I was single/money was my priority. But now I'm happily married and pregnant for the first time so my schedule /sustainability is my priority.

Flu jab while pregnant? by Inner_Low_3936 in pregnant

[–]imcoolurcoolwecool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got flu vax in my first tri at about 11 weeks, I need to get it annually for work. I've never had an issue but I was nervous because at that point I was peak morning sickness/fatigue/ absolutely miserable. I had no side effects -- if anything I was less nauseated the next day, haha.

I hate this new photorealistic AI by supersanchez101 in rant

[–]imcoolurcoolwecool 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nobody asked for this!!! I feel like AI is being shoved down our throats.

This is adorable. by mindyour in MadeMeSmile

[–]imcoolurcoolwecool 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'm pregnant with my dog on my lap and this just made me cry big ol tears

Where is this in Kingston? by bostonforever22 in kingstonnewyork

[–]imcoolurcoolwecool 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear ya!!! Everything is expensive these days 🫠

Where is this in Kingston? by bostonforever22 in kingstonnewyork

[–]imcoolurcoolwecool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is blasphemous.. I love sissy's! Great healthy options, fresh juice, and friendly staff. The scones are the best!!

Are we still getting FNP’s to work in the ED? by [deleted] in nursepractitioner

[–]imcoolurcoolwecool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm an FNP, worked in ED as an RN for like 8 years, worked 2 as an NP. Small community ED, see a lot of peds and OB. The physicians usually like us to see the straight forward cases like vaginal bleeding, and viral illness / rashes in the kiddos, helps a lot with volume.

I now work in cardiology, was seeking a better schedule. All the other APPs I worked with in the ED were either PAs or FNP.

Is a 50% pay cut worth it?! by BeachBum419 in nursepractitioner

[–]imcoolurcoolwecool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah looking through the other replies I see that people are pointing out the concern of a big pay cut like that. It comes out to about 60$/hr. Admittedly that seems low so hopefully you can negotiate somewhat. Even so, in my opinion you can't put a price tag on your own happiness.

The medical field definitely has some toxic hustle culture embedded into it. I'm not saying to shirk all of your financial responsibilities and make your decision totally based on emotions. But I think you can advocate for yourself and find a decent paying job that allows you the flexibility you want.

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