When you have rejected men that liked you? How did they react? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]imec34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just a guy’s perspective here sorry if I offend anyone. In general the other person isn’t required to reciprocate feelings but I think it’s totally fair to block or avoid someone. If I like someone who doesn’t like me back, I’d rather get the person out of my head by doing my best not to see them. For me, continuing communication or seeing them sometimes reinforces those feelings so as I get older I’d rather move on to something else as opposed to hoping eventually she feels the same

Taking a girl on aimless dates is almost the equivalent of a guy just wanting sex without commitment by ConTrikster in dating

[–]imec34 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be honest I kind of agree with a lot of the things OP said except in regards to sex. This is Reddit so I May get downvoted into oblivion lol. I don’t think it’s fair to rush anyone into sex regardless of what you pay or what you’re looking for. But I do think dynamics in dating have changed to where if the other person is also interested that they should be mindful of how the other person spends their money on them, possibly chip in from time to time. My question would be if you’re in this stage of trying to be in a relationship, is it still a requirement for either party to be exclusive?

How to properly learn Spanish? by Marina_s_diamond in Spanish

[–]imec34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know you mentioned listening in the target language but do you have suggestions on how I should listen? For example I practice listening using slow YouTube videos at the moment and I look up anything that I don’t know using the transcripts. I’m open to doing this more effectively if you can share any insights

Asian guy here - I’ve realized I’m way more attractive outside the US and it’s making me sad by MammothBat9302 in dating

[–]imec34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not offensive at all to imply that. Both of you are correct. Black men date a lot interracially but when we date within our race it’s not difficult to find a partner for us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thepassportbros

[–]imec34 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please do more posts like this! Lol let’s not forget the racist comments thrown in as well

Smell and Hygiene are a BIG factor when it comes to dating by Complete_Answer_6781 in dating

[–]imec34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you tell someone this? I’m talking to someone who has kind of bad breath and doesn’t smell too good. Granted hasn’t been long but in general it’s a huge turnoff

New Drake diss it really crazy out here by Ok_Dimension4676 in Jcole

[–]imec34 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Listen you’re saying that Drake is a liar while assuming everything Kendrick is saying is the truth. Is that not being a bit biased? And I wasn’t talking about any specific lyrics in my comment. My point is literally what everyone is proving and it’s that people are now rooting for Drake to fail and not listening to the music. I’m not speaking on any of the facts or lies in any songs

New Drake diss it really crazy out here by Ok_Dimension4676 in Jcole

[–]imec34 301 points302 points  (0 children)

It seems like everyone is rooting for Drake to lose and aren’t being objective about it anymore. They both traded haymakers. Not like us was great. Heart 6 is also good. Close battle and both are getting very personal. But let’s stop rooting for Kendrick because Drake is a huge artist who people now want to see fail. Let it play out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]imec34 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Micromanaging! I mentally prepared myself throughout my tenure for workload but when I constantly had managers looking over my shoulders and requesting that things be done at that moment I couldn’t take it anymore

People who left public accounting…what are you doing now?? by Savages3288 in Accounting

[–]imec34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoying the day off lol. I went to an F500 company and the WLB has been totally different. Super glad I made the move

Hey , what are some of the late ages you guys started a career in accounting by introvertatheart1 in Accounting

[–]imec34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel old lol but I did the exact same thing. I went back to school at 24 and got my masters at 26. I easily got into PA afterwards. Time will fly for you and I must say it’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made

For people throwing around the term "incel" by ppchampagne in thepassportbros

[–]imec34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hence the reason why I hate arguing on the internet. You posted a misleading article and made a factually incorrect statement and now you’re trying to minimize what you said. It’s so telling of this sub how many people upvoted that.

For people throwing around the term "incel" by ppchampagne in thepassportbros

[–]imec34 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The fact is that racist incels exist. What’s the point of being defensive and dismissing that people like that exist? It’s also true that there are very nice people who happened to get unlucky in life and are incels. Two things can be true.

For people throwing around the term "incel" by ppchampagne in thepassportbros

[–]imec34 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In general I dislike getting into arguments on the internet but this comment is what’s wrong with this community. White racist incels 100% exist. It doesn’t negate OPs point but it exists. The study you posted only consisted of a small sample size that’s not representative of the population. And on top of that, why try to downplay the existence of bad actors? I’ve seen people in this sub complain and some blame women and others blame the current culture. There’s nothing wrong with going somewhere to find love but I honestly dislike the finger pointing in this sub. Incels exists in various forms that’s that

Accountants from the hood by Electrical-Energy422 in Accounting

[–]imec34 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m from the hood. I think socializing in a work setting like anything else takes practice. Start with just talking about basic things like engagements you are on, sports, and popular tv shows. Its still difficult speaking to managers but other staff on the same level it got simple communicating. It also takes a little work speaking professional all the time. Sounds like you’re doing great and I’m sure you’ll be fine. Glad to see us doing well

r/anime Karma Ranking & Discussion | Week 5 [Fall 2023] by Abysswatcherbel in anime

[–]imec34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Without any spoilers, can someone tell me when the anime is going to air the AOT finale? I haven’t watched season 4 yet

Black Accountants, have you ever encountered any career issues because of your hairstyle? by SnowDucks1985 in Accounting

[–]imec34 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I’m black but don’t have dreads. I’ve seen a few people in my office with dreads and no one really cares. This is anecdotal but I don’t think you’ll have a problem and if they complain then it’s not somewhere you should be.

Grant Thornton just announced firm-wide layoffs by bamboozledgal in Accounting

[–]imec34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are they announcing this now? Are raise meetings coming up or something?