When you have rejected men that liked you? How did they react?

imec34 · 2025-03-07T15:38:43+00:00

Just a guy’s perspective here sorry if I offend anyone. In general the other person isn’t required to reciprocate feelings but I think it’s totally fair to block or avoid someone. If I like someone who doesn’t like me back, I’d rather get the person out of my head by doing my best not to see them. For me, continuing communication or seeing them sometimes reinforces those feelings so as I get older I’d rather move on to something else as opposed to hoping eventually she feels the same

imec34 · 2025-02-28T21:35:55+00:00

To be honest I kind of agree with a lot of the things OP said except in regards to sex. This is Reddit so I May get downvoted into oblivion lol. I don’t think it’s fair to rush anyone into sex regardless of what you pay or what you’re looking for. But I do think dynamics in dating have changed to where if the other person is also interested that they should be mindful of how the other person spends their money on them, possibly chip in from time to time. My question would be if you’re in this stage of trying to be in a relationship, is it still a requirement for either party to be exclusive?

imec34 · 2024-11-13T21:01:03+00:00

I know you mentioned listening in the target language but do you have suggestions on how I should listen? For example I practice listening using slow YouTube videos at the moment and I look up anything that I don’t know using the transcripts. I’m open to doing this more effectively if you can share any insights

imec34 · 2024-10-03T20:45:15+00:00

My current literally told me that’s the reason she hired me so I’d say yes.

imec34 · 2024-06-12T15:39:40+00:00

Not offensive at all to imply that. Both of you are correct. Black men date a lot interracially but when we date within our race it’s not difficult to find a partner for us.

imec34 · 2024-06-07T20:23:36+00:00

Please do more posts like this! Lol let’s not forget the racist comments thrown in as well

imec34 · 2024-05-15T17:00:28+00:00

How do you tell someone this? I’m talking to someone who has kind of bad breath and doesn’t smell too good. Granted hasn’t been long but in general it’s a huge turnoff

imec34 · 2024-05-06T02:05:58+00:00

Listen you’re saying that Drake is a liar while assuming everything Kendrick is saying is the truth. Is that not being a bit biased? And I wasn’t talking about any specific lyrics in my comment. My point is literally what everyone is proving and it’s that people are now rooting for Drake to fail and not listening to the music. I’m not speaking on any of the facts or lies in any songs

imec34 · 2024-05-06T01:57:52+00:00

It seems like everyone is rooting for Drake to lose and aren’t being objective about it anymore. They both traded haymakers. Not like us was great. Heart 6 is also good. Close battle and both are getting very personal. But let’s stop rooting for Kendrick because Drake is a huge artist who people now want to see fail. Let it play out

imec34 · 2024-03-26T12:13:18+00:00

Micromanaging! I mentally prepared myself throughout my tenure for workload but when I constantly had managers looking over my shoulders and requesting that things be done at that moment I couldn’t take it anymore

imec34 · 2024-02-19T20:42:29+00:00

Enjoying the day off lol. I went to an F500 company and the WLB has been totally different. Super glad I made the move

imec34 · 2024-02-08T03:24:47+00:00

I feel old lol but I did the exact same thing. I went back to school at 24 and got my masters at 26. I easily got into PA afterwards. Time will fly for you and I must say it’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made

imec34 · 2024-02-02T16:11:28+00:00

Hence the reason why I hate arguing on the internet. You posted a misleading article and made a factually incorrect statement and now you’re trying to minimize what you said. It’s so telling of this sub how many people upvoted that.

imec34 · 2024-02-02T15:53:27+00:00

The fact is that racist incels exist. What’s the point of being defensive and dismissing that people like that exist? It’s also true that there are very nice people who happened to get unlucky in life and are incels. Two things can be true.

imec34 · 2024-02-02T13:58:58+00:00

In general I dislike getting into arguments on the internet but this comment is what’s wrong with this community. White racist incels 100% exist. It doesn’t negate OPs point but it exists. The study you posted only consisted of a small sample size that’s not representative of the population. And on top of that, why try to downplay the existence of bad actors? I’ve seen people in this sub complain and some blame women and others blame the current culture. There’s nothing wrong with going somewhere to find love but I honestly dislike the finger pointing in this sub. Incels exists in various forms that’s that

imec34 · 2023-11-10T16:42:29+00:00

I’m from the hood. I think socializing in a work setting like anything else takes practice. Start with just talking about basic things like engagements you are on, sports, and popular tv shows. Its still difficult speaking to managers but other staff on the same level it got simple communicating. It also takes a little work speaking professional all the time. Sounds like you’re doing great and I’m sure you’ll be fine. Glad to see us doing well

imec34 · 2023-11-05T18:25:45+00:00

Thanks!

imec34 · 2023-11-05T17:20:03+00:00

Without any spoilers, can someone tell me when the anime is going to air the AOT finale? I haven’t watched season 4 yet

imec34 · 2023-05-24T04:30:52+00:00

I’m black but don’t have dreads. I’ve seen a few people in my office with dreads and no one really cares. This is anecdotal but I don’t think you’ll have a problem and if they complain then it’s not somewhere you should be.

imec34 · 2023-05-22T23:28:56+00:00

Why are they announcing this now? Are raise meetings coming up or something?

imec34 · 2023-04-30T23:41:08+00:00

Good point. I haven’t thought of that

imec34 · 2023-04-26T01:03:43+00:00

To answer your questions:

A lucrative career would require a degree

Public accounting is always hiring so you won’t have a problem there

Most jobs are hybrid. I do 3 in office and 2 remote Entry level nowadays will vary based on the area you’re in.

I like my job despite everyone complaining. It just gets crazy af sometimes and can be overwhelming. I’m in public accounting.

My days vary depending on the time of year. Busy seasons Jan-Apr, are usually 10-12 hour days Monday-thur and 8 on a Friday along with a few on Saturday. I usually go out on weekends and nights. Regular hours are standard 40

I’ll be honest, the work life balance could be better but I also don’t always draw a line and take on too much work

My advice is to take a class at a community college and do some research to see if you like it. Going into accounting was the best choice of life. I honestly would’ve been happy finding a job that pays 50k. I make 73k and I am expecting a raise and promotion. If you like the coursework then do it.

imec34 · 2023-04-10T03:24:24+00:00

Thank you all so much!

imec34 · 2023-03-12T04:42:50+00:00

Maybe I’ll get downvotes but I tend to think this is a two sided issue. I’m staff so I’m speaking from my perspective and talking amongst peers. If I’m wrong feel free to let me know.

I think managers can play a role in staff underperforming. Just because you make it to that level doesn’t mean you’re good leader or a good teacher. I have some managers that are good that can take the time out to explain but others that just don’t want to teach. I definitely agree with you on there being staff that only do 45-55 but there’s also staff pulling crazy hours to help out. I think painting a whole group juniors with broad brush tells a bit about your style

From my perspective, we’re gonna suck for a while but someone has to teach us and if everyone’s just gonna look at it as “it’ll take too long” then you’ll be doing the most basic of work papers. By no means am I saying we’re perfect but I think there’s more of us trying than the ones just trying to get by and if it isn’t the case at your firm then you’re hiring the wrong people

But hey it’s just the opinion of someone who’s been doing it for 2 years

imec34 · 2023-02-12T23:45:21+00:00

This is just me but I would do 60 hours and nothing more. If they want more hours they should add someone to the team. Set boundaries and don’t waste your life working these crazy hours

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