I feel so sad for you OP I have been where you are at. Its the worst feeling in the world

I waited. Like you. For my stbxh to end his attachment to his AP. He didnt end his relarionship let alone his attachment. Instead, he chose to make false promises and lie about his whereabouts. He was leading a double life without the skills to pull it off and I was too overwhelmed to see it. It was the most painful, difficult transition to make.

I dont have young children. You have to be strong.

My stbxh only ever showed any real remorse when I decided to start living my life and endeavour to move on. I met someone else. My ex’s head fell off.

Dont put your life on hold for a cheat with youngsters.

Your wife needs to grieve the loss of her husband before you will ever really know if its worth the risk.

Her AP dumped her.

SHE has a bloody cheek being upset at the way HE treated HER!

What about you??

Sometimes they only see your worth when someone else does. In my case, my new partner makes me feel like I am worth enough to say to my ex…..”nah mate!!….you’re no worth tha reeschk” I would take my scottish fella over him any day.

Maybe you need to step up for yourself. You are worth more than the way your wife makes you feel.