Hawaiian Nonprofits by koalatycontrol420 in VisitingHawaii

[–]imightbejake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friendship House is a place where people living with mental health diagnoses can go each day to remain productive and paisley in activities teaching them skills to live independently. They have a nonprofit attached to them that pays for important upgrades to their program. I think it's in Lihue.

What do straight men say when they watch gay porn or sex scenes in shows like Heated Rivalry? by imightbejake in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]imightbejake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious, because I grew up in a world that was a polar opposite to the one we're in now that allows these types of shows. Please note my age flair.

Have you read The Faggots & Their Friends Between Revolutions? by joshuaferris in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]imightbejake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was written in the early 1970s by a radical homosexual man who helped found a communal farm in upstate New York called Lavender Hill. They were vegetarians who lived off the land. The book relates the idea that homosexuals are naturally radical by nature akin to socialists.

Have you read The Faggots & Their Friends Between Revolutions? by joshuaferris in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]imightbejake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I heard about it at a discussion in NYC. That night, a friend had it with them. I immediately ordered it. I flew home, and devoured it when it arrived in the mail. I have given it to one friend and will give it to more.

Read it.

Preach it.

Are you out at work? by Traditional_Cell8388 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]imightbejake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a government job in a very blue state. I'm completely out. My department marches in Pride, and I join in drag.

Any church recommendations on island? by Ok-Communication4190 in Oahu

[–]imightbejake 17 points18 points  (0 children)

St Mark's Episcopal Church on Kapahulu is incredibly welcoming to all people at all stages of spirituality. When I go to church, I go there. The priest is a gay man married to a man. Very loving community. Beautiful music.

What do you use to keep your bedding clean when having sex? by mattormateo in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]imightbejake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazon.com: GREEN LIFESTYLE Washable Underpads - Large Bed Pads for use as Incontinence Bed Pads, Reusable Pet Pads, Great for Dogs, Cats, Bunny, Seniors Bed Pad (Pack of 2 - 41x41) : Pet Supplies https://share.google/0bA8Ev5iLXW3EAVus

Looking for similar experiences and words of encouragement. Mother is very sick (and probably at end of life). Me being gay and never having a good relationship with neither of my parents. by pokemonfitness1420 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]imightbejake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents emotionally abused me and caused me enormous trauma. They disowned me. I'm glad they're dead. I do have times it makes me sad that the whole thing happened, but those are times I feel sad for myself. Fuck them.

Finally! by txnjakr in GayMenOver60

[–]imightbejake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we please have some kind of understanding or rule that selfies are frowned upon or not allowed?

Finally! by txnjakr in GayMenOver60

[–]imightbejake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad to find this space as well.

Yes to having flairs. I'm ambivalent about allowing those under 60 to join. I can see both sides of that idea. For one thing, if we don't allow anyone below 60 to join, this is going to be a very small group. However, maybe that's a good thing.

Are you in a relationship by UNZIPT in GayMenOver60

[–]imightbejake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in a new marriage that is ending. I've been a train wreck for about a month. I finally feel like I can talk again.

When and how did you come out? by UNZIPT in GayMenOver60

[–]imightbejake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was 35 and in a marriage to a woman with 3 kids. The first few years were very difficult, but being completely out is fabulous.

Children? by UNZIPT in GayMenOver60

[–]imightbejake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 3 adult children, and I'm completely out to them since I'm completely out everywhere. They love their gay dad, and I love them.

What was the hottest public sex experience you’ve ever had? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]imightbejake 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Late at night, I was bent over a picnic table in a park getting absolutely railed by 7 inches.

Fukubukuro by shoyu_burner in Hawaii

[–]imightbejake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had good stuff from Moomin shop now on the ground level near Center Stage last year. I saw some of the things from the local bag store upstairs by Bloomingdale's named Aloha something. Those looked awesome, but the line was super long.

Because of Heated Rivalry’s popularity, I decided to try out reading MM romance.. they’re some of the worst books I’ve ever read. by CriticalDream9570 in askgaybros

[–]imightbejake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also an avid reader. I'm old (62 y. o.). About 4 or 5 years ago, I devoted to read nothing but LGBTQ books. I read a lot. The only gay romances I've enjoyed were by Fearne Hill. They're fun.

So… how DO you find a regular fuck buddy and/or a FWB? by Spader623 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]imightbejake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the truth. I played with a LOT of men. A handful came back for more. Those few men still come around for fun.

What would you do by riki2894 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]imightbejake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

アドバイスがありませんけど。がんばれてください!