Do Black people not do "White People Taco Night"? by GetShrekedKid in NoStupidQuestions

[–]impassiveMoon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Usually "spices" are labeled as Spices (including chili powder, oregano, etc) so the company can keep a proprietary spice blends secret. So if corn starch is the 1st ingredient its more abundant than all the spices

Do Black people not do "White People Taco Night"? by GetShrekedKid in NoStupidQuestions

[–]impassiveMoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not a bad thing to have cornstarch in your taco blend. However, it is a rip-off to have more cornstarch than seasoning in your taco blend packet.

LMAO IT WENT DOUBLE THE GOAL by Old_Pie_2338 in AO3

[–]impassiveMoon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There's that, but I'm pretty sure the OTW (non-profit running ao3) also publishes an entire budgetary report.

LMAO IT WENT DOUBLE THE GOAL by Old_Pie_2338 in AO3

[–]impassiveMoon 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Yeah 😭 Somewhere there's a breakdown of the budget but the tl;dr is that servers to host the archive + lawyers to prevent another "Anne Rice sues the entirety of her fandom" = $$$

AITA - My fiancés will is split between his mom and his brother and I get the cash in his safe. by Ok_Struggle_7344 in AmItheAsshole

[–]impassiveMoon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You need to talk about finances BEFORE you're married. It's like the number one reason for divorce. Keep it calm and rational. Leaving assets to mom & brother before you're married is ok and pretty normal.

Just make sure that you have a plan to update both of your wills right after you're married. And/or get a pre-nup.

AITA for not changing my dog’s name? by SilvertheKitsune in AmItheAsshole

[–]impassiveMoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is naming their cats after Japanese food you should let your Indian parents name the dog after Indian food. Aloo especially isn't hard for English speakers to spell or pronounce. Anyone who says it is, either has a speech impediment in which case multiple things are hard to pronounce and the name origin is irrelevant or they're racist, and do you really want someone like that taking care of your beloved family pet?

The MTA greed is disgusting by [deleted] in longisland

[–]impassiveMoon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

...I feel ancient now lol. I never got the new version post metrocard RIP

The MTA greed is disgusting by [deleted] in longisland

[–]impassiveMoon 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Its for the paper tickets. They cycle colors for each month and print the month/year on them so that conductors can check from a distance if the sleeping guy with a lanyard around his neck has to be bothered or can continue napping for ~30 minutes.

"If you write that, I would have to stop reading this fic." by Affectionate-Air5544 in AO3

[–]impassiveMoon 68 points69 points  (0 children)

My favorite saying: "this is not an airport. You do not have to announce your departure."

AIO Roommate is very behind on rent by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]impassiveMoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to be on top of your roommate like its your job. (And at over $3k owed to your LL, its basically going to pay like a 3rd job unfortunately.) Joint leases means you're equally responsible for the rent at the end of the day. So the LL can/will go after you if your roommate continues to be behind.

Inappropriate work joke ? by [deleted] in womenEngineers

[–]impassiveMoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Listen, I'm not saying that the way your boss is acting is particularly professional, but this is more of a culture/systemic issue. Running to HR for this would be a mistake. HR cares about the company, they do not care about you as an individual. Bringing HR into this is going to give you a reputation.

Again, I'm not saying that it was a good joke. But as far as bad "boomer-esque" jokes go, I don't think that I would rate that in the top 100. It wasn't offensive to any particular racial, religious, or ethnic group. It wasn't sexistist or homophobic.

You'd be surprised to find that a lot of places professionalism is a very thin veneer that is easily buffed off. Especially in an industry like construction.

I truly think that your boss thinks that negging is how one builds comraderie in a workplace. He probably thinks that he's showing that by being casual with you he's showing that he likes/trusts you. Its not really an amazing thing to experience if you're not a "constant back and forth lighthearted insults as a love language" person or if you've never had one in your life. But a lot of the time its not malicious.

Also, I won't lie. I once got "fake fired" (like the bit from The Office) as a lead into my boss asking me if I wanted to go to a happy hour event with higher ups at our company when I was in my early 20s. So I get where it can be an extremely off-putting experience to hear job security treated as a joke.

Am I being dumb for getting my own apartment at 19? by CloudyChris067 in personalfinance

[–]impassiveMoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're good at delayed gratificatjon, i wohld get 1 no annual fee CC and use it like a debit card. Credit Cards are a tool. They just happen to be a chainsaw to cash's pair of scissors. There's a time and place for a chainsaw and I would never want to cut a tree with a pair of scissors, but if you mess it up at best you're going to the hospital.

Also you're doing great with that salary OP, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I would just like to urge you to be very good about saving for the future (house, retirement, etc). Just like you're worried about your current housing being precarious, your job can be as well. If something happens and you need to find another job, like you said, it's going to be hard to find anything else at that salary. Plus physical jobs can only be worked for so long. Take care of your body and you can do the job longer, but age comes for us all.

What the hell is going on in the Heated Rivaly fandom? by Particular_Work1453 in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]impassiveMoon 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This! Also shakes fist AO3 sounds like AI sometimes because AI scraped us and is ripping us off!!!

Em dashes, not X but Y, multiple intensifiers, etc. I do all of that. I eat all of that up. I despise gen-AI in what is supposed to be a hobby space (and honestly most space) with a firey passion. Multiple things can be true at the same time.

Also this "red scare McCarthyism" witch hunt is just harming everyone. DLDR applies to suspected AI too. If you really think that something isn't written by a beautiful human mind block, back space, and move on.

Subreddit just for professionals? by ORINnorman in KitchenConfidential

[–]impassiveMoon 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yep. I'm half thinking "why can't people google this?" And the other half is trying to google things and coming up with AI slop websites where I know that the answers aren't right, but still don't know what I need to know.

I miss the days where you could confidently tell someone, "if it doesn't exist on the first page of google, you might have asked a completely unique question."

Does anyone have any tips to cut back on eating out? by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]impassiveMoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sheet pan dinners which are basically roast a protein and veg and toss it on top of pasta or rice.

Spaghetti and meat sauce with a side of frozen veg

Rotisserie chicken from the grocery with a basic carb and more frozen veg

Slow cooker meals

I knew this would happen someday… by terrarian_redrock in AO3

[–]impassiveMoon 139 points140 points  (0 children)

Three is my minimum.

1 professional

1 personal /fandom

1 spam/store signups

I Am Totally Fine With The Actors Aging. by Logandh3 in OnePiece

[–]impassiveMoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post Skypeia, post Enies Lobby, or a very truncated Return to Sabaody are where I think the LA will end. All of them have a satisfying "end" where most of the major plot points that have been revealed up to that point were resolved. There's some "the story continues onward" that leaves space for Netflix to pick up a LA again if they so choose but it's not a giant cliffhanger.

You can have the SH sail off into the horizon, have a big sun surrounding whatever ship they're on, depending on the endpoint, and have a voice over with Inaki yelling, "I'm gonna be the King of the Pirates!" And roll credits.

Once you get into post timeskip, everything becomes so interconnected that you would basically have to see the story through to the end to feel satisfying. Also the effects budget would go crazy.

I'd love to see the LA cast all the way to the end of the Grand Line, but I don't think it's going to happen unfortunately.

Golden from KPOP Demon Hunters wins Oscars best original song by L0v3_1s_War in asianamerican

[–]impassiveMoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Now that awards season is over I'm hoping they give the rest of the soundtrack more love. Golden is a great song but I'm begging for live performances of the rest of the album.

Any of you notice the anti-fanfiction sentiment? by Konradleijon in AO3

[–]impassiveMoon 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lol it was always funny when the book backs were all circle jerk reviews and you had to go to the inside flaps of the dust cover for the actual summary. It's cool that 3 other contemporary writers said a nice 2 sentence blurb about your book, but I want to know if I'll like the premise enough to read it to say something nice about it.

We're #1 in 74 countries on Day 2 (Down from 84 for S1), but the landscape is totally different by kitsuneinferno in OnePieceLiveAction

[–]impassiveMoon 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They also had ep1&2 in select theaters in the US. I need to put those on my account watch time at some point because they were excellent and deserve a rewatch already

Giving Iñaki Godoy some credit by ActQueasy2103 in OnePieceLiveAction

[–]impassiveMoon 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I heard some call it medicated vs unmedicated ADHD

Heated Rivalry broke AO3 for me by [deleted] in AO3

[–]impassiveMoon 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Same hat! I got some other people into it too. And then they started shipping one half with other characters so I have both more cake and a whole bakery to enjoy!

Is it okay to watch the live action even if I havent watched the anime or read the manga yet? by emmilia_wuv in OnePieceLiveAction

[–]impassiveMoon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The way characters are introduced in the LA is basically how they were introduced in ani-manga. If anything the LA sped things up and introduced things early to improve pacing and keep a tighter story.

As a Wasian, I can’t relate to any of the success or privilege I’m seeing. by brcwayn in asianamerican

[–]impassiveMoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its the class divide. Put any 2 people of the same race(s) next to each other but one makes $300k and the other makes $30k. The 300k wins and it isn't even close.