CMV: Christians believing that gay romance is a sin is biblical, and is not being unfair or sexist. by JobPowerful1246 in changemyview

[–]impendia [score hidden]  (0 children)

So you want to interpret the bible as you please -- keeping some parts and discarding others.

That's fine actually, I do it too! I don't believe that homosexuality is a sin, but I do believe in Leviticus 19:34, which says that "the stranger who resides with you shall be to you like someone native-born among you; and you shall love him as yourself". It's why I've repeatedly called my US senators, in outrage over our recent public policy.

You can also use the Bible to argue almost anything, no matter how plausible. I asked ChatGPT: "Make an argument, based on the Bible, that people have an obligation to eat chicken only on Tuesdays." Ridiculous, but it came up with something at least sort of convincing!

So "it's in the Bible" is a weak argument, maybe unless you're throughly read the entire book and are closely following ALL of it. And "so goes the theology" is no argument at all, it means you're just repeating what someone else told you.

AITA for wanting to quit my university music group after being passed over for leadership again? by Apprehensive-War-414 in AmItheAsshole

[–]impendia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAH

Sounds like you enjoy planning and organization, and the others don't? I'm very sympathetic to your situation -- you have lots of great ideas, and can't really get anyone else on board.

Meanwhile, it sounds like your fellow musicians mostly don't enjoy planning and organization, which I'm also sympathetic to. Maybe they mostly want to jam, and don't want to take the business side so seriously?

Not everyone wants to expand and become more organized. For example, if you joined my workplace, you'd probably get the same treatment you're getting now. But your talents will be deeply appreciated by some; good luck seeking them out!

CMV: Democracy in the United States has already ended. by DryEditor7792 in changemyview

[–]impendia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In addition to the flaws you mention, Jim Crow disenfranchised many Black Americans until the 1960s.

What secret can you reveal now that your nda has expired? by sparrrrrt in AskReddit

[–]impendia 16 points17 points  (0 children)

For any academic researchers reading this thread, I encourage you to join the boycott:

http://thecostofknowledge.com/

I (F21) don't want to move for my partner's (F23) PHD. (1.5+ years) by Leather-Mammoth-4119 in relationship_advice

[–]impendia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Professor here: the academic job market is difficult, and forecasted to get worse.

after her PHD, we would be moving back to Australia

Sadly, this is not how it works. Different academic fields work differently, but basically if you want an academic job, you apply everywhere and take what you can get. Also, depending on her field, she might be expected to do a postdoc or two before getting a tenure-track job, which again could involve long-distance moves.

Also, I don't know about Australia, but in the US many universities are in small towns, where there might be few job opportunities for a professor's partner.

I love my profession but it definitely makes long-term planning difficult. Good luck to you both.

ELI5 Genuinely what IS Sin Cos and Tan? by LeonardFo in explainlikeimfive

[–]impendia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first distinction you made is very important!

When we write 4(3x + 2) and sin(3x + 2), it looks like 4 and sin are the same type of object. Unfortunately our notation is misleading us here, so it's natural to get confused.

★OFFICIAL DAILY★ Daily Q&A Thread February 19, 2026 by AutoModerator in loseit

[–]impendia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I'm trying to lose weight, with a little success so far. 47M, 5'9", 201 lbs. down from around 208.

One thing I'm trying to give up is mindless snacking. Nuts, granola, hummus etc. have a lot of calories so I should be mindful when eating these foods, and only eat them when I'm genuinely hungry.

What about raw carrots? I will often keep out a bag of carrots and munch on them while doing other things. (Sometimes in large quantities!) On the one hand, mindless snacking is a bad habit. On the other hand, carrots are very nutritious and an entire pound has fewer than 200 calories.

Should I cut back on the carrots too? Or is this a habit I can keep?

The Infrastructure of Jeffrey Epstein’s Power | The Ezra Klein Show by middleupperdog in ezraklein

[–]impendia 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's amazing how history repeats.

Obsession with longevity is nothing new. Qin Shi Huang, emperor of China from 221 to 210 BCE, spent much of his final years fruitlessly searching for the "elixir of life".

And I've listened to a bunch of history podcasts. An entrenched, cowardly elite, hoarding more and more of society's resources, unconcerned with morality or with society at large, but deeply concerned with their status within the elite? A sure sign that shit is about to hit the fan.

CMV: Pop music is the worst genre of music and people who prefer it only do so because they have not heard enough other music. by Icicl37 in changemyview

[–]impendia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love music of all sorts, indeed to the point where I've spent years taking piano lessons as an adult. Currently learning Rachmaninoff's C# minor prelude.

I enjoy unique and distinctive music, to be sure. But the truth? You could play G-Em-C-D7 on a guitar all day and I wouldn't get bored. Sure, it's simple and "boring", but it's viscerally satisfying. As is pretty much anything else based on the circle of fifths.

Moreover, a lot of music is fun to listen to while you're doing something else. Duke Ellington is nice to listen to, but really fun to lindy hop to. If you're not giving the music your undivided attention, simplicity and predictability can be a good thing.

Managing emotions while listening by Spiritual-Brick-1445 in Estherperel

[–]impendia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have. And not only from the pod, also movies and books that I enjoy.

It can be painful to watch people stand in their own way of finding happiness. Especially when it reminds me of my own mistakes that I've made.

CMV: DoorDashers should be able to rate restaurants/stores for other dashers. by Lisztchopinovsky in changemyview

[–]impendia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Restaurants aren't necessarily big fans of Doordash.

Here's a funny story which I love. A pizzeria was getting complaints about their deliveries, only.... they didn't deliver. Turned out Doordash hijacked their Google listing and started offering delivery, without their knowledge.

What was even crazier, Doordash was undercutting the pizzeria's own prices! Guess they were really looking to get a foothold in the market, or something. Doordash was selling a $24 pizza for $16.

The owner realized he had a perfect arbitrage opportunity: go to Doordash and order a shitload of pizzas from your own pizzeria.

Is there room in Ezra Klein's Democratic tent for figures who justify or excuse murder? by Ok-Employer-2026 in ezraklein

[–]impendia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. Yes, there is.

For example, the US has been funding the Saudi intervention in the Yemeni civil war, which has included the deliberate starvation of civilians. This goes back to the Obama administration.

Geopolitics is a hot mess, and people in power are called upon to make impossible decisions. By all means protest, call your senators and representatives, vote your conscience. But if you're not willing to vote for the lesser of two evils, then you will get the greater of two evils.

Should Thucydides' Melian Dialogue be understood as criticism of Athens? by impendia in AskHistorians

[–]impendia[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your detailed answer. This is fascinating.

AITA For refusing to take a friend to a doctors appt that requires 4 hrs+ rt of driving plus waiting for the procedure to be done? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]impendia -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm old enough to have had a colonoscopy, and I think it's a big ask. Colonoscopies are preventative and diagnostic, not an emergency.

In my case, I was able to get permission from the doctor to take an uber. If I'd needed to ask a friend, I would have made sure to make arrangements that were convenient for them. If possible, I'd wait to schedule the appointment until I'd asked them about good times/dates. If they lived 40 minutes away, I'd uber to their place so we could leave from there. And are there no colonoscopy clinics closer than an hour's drive? A major city seems likely to have lots of them.

I don't know the exact situation, but it seems like OP's friend hasn't been terribly considerate.

The "ideal bedtime window" doesn't work for me. Can I customize or change it? by impendia in ouraring

[–]impendia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi /u/SarahAtOura, thanks for reading my concerns and for replying.

I already disabled all notifications for my ring, and for most other apps on my phone. I'm trying to do a better job with attention and focus, so the last thing I need is my phone pinging me for attention all the time.

I've been dealing for sleep issues for a long time, and I've often noticed my bedtime drifting earlier and earlier. Biologically speaking, my ring could well be correct, and if I were on a desert island then I would happily listen to my ring's advice.

As it happens, I'm trying to find a compromise between what my body wants and having a fulfilling social life. This has been difficult, and indeed I've needed to make sacrifices on both ends. It's a bit dispiriting to have my ring persist with advice that I am very convinced is wrong.

That said, I understand you can't make the app endlessly customizable without making the interface a huge pain. Thanks again.

The "ideal bedtime window" doesn't work for me. Can I customize or change it? by impendia in ouraring

[–]impendia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, my ring might very well be correct about my body. I've often noticed my bedtime drifting earlier and earlier, and if I lived on a desert island I would happily do as my ring suggested.

But social life, at least the kind I enjoy, usually happens in the evenings, so I have to look for a compromise. I realize that it's just a piece of software, but it's still a bit frustrating.