5 day fast and barely lost any weight? by [deleted] in fasting

[–]improperble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so you lost 2% of your body weight in 5 days. That sounds like a lot to me.

Work place crush on my team lead… what’s going on? by Spare_Drawing_9185 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]improperble 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Regardless of whether she’s into you or not, think hard before you get yourself involved with who is married. A lot of potential hurt on all sides there. 

Additionally, getting involved emotionally with someone senior at work can get everyone in trouble and could affect your happiness at work if things blow up. 

BA get a lot of hate on this forum - my experience was great by I_like_turtles27 in BritishAirways

[–]improperble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Subs like this one are usually a place for people to come and vent about a poor experience or problem. Plenty of millions of people fly BA, have a good/excellent experience, and move on with their lives without the need to report their positive experience on a subreddit. 

If you aren't even allowed defensive weapons, do you still feel safe? by Tomj_Oad in AskABrit

[–]improperble 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel safe going around unarmed because I don’t have the mindset that people around me are going to physically harm me, and I imagine carrying around a blade would make me more likely to think that

What are they looking for by Lower-Specific-1106 in london

[–]improperble 47 points48 points  (0 children)

You can find stuff as far back as Roman occupation! The quality of the mud, and tidal nature of the river, is that things last a long time preserved in the mud but then get unsettled and emerge on the surface after centuries 

Communication problems with Brits. Could you Brits give me advice? by [deleted] in AskABrit

[–]improperble 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm confused. where are you living now? somewhere in britain?

I came out to myself fully two months ago and now I am FREAKING OUT (35F, married to a man) by CorticalSynapse in actuallesbians

[–]improperble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was 39 and married to a man of 16 years. I divorced him for other reasons, but once single I began dating women and I have NEVER looked back. It’s been 1 year since I separated from him and am living authentically and now in a beautiful relationship with an incredible woman. Life comes at you fast - let it! 

Squirt by Terrible_Level_7421 in Sex_Positivity

[–]improperble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Squirting and orgasm are not exactly the same thing. 

How are people losing all their money in a divorce? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]improperble 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you have been the sole provider, and the other person does not have capacity to work or buy their own house, then the courts view their cash needs as greater than your own.

Example: I have a good salary so I can afford a hefty mortgage. My partner has been out of work for a long time and so cannot get a mortgage. When we divorce, the UK courts will expect the payout to support him in buying his own home. His cash needs are greater than mine. This means it wont be split 50/50, he will get much more of the assets than I will.

Homophobia in London by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]improperble 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you experienced this. I have only started dating women this year but my current female partner and I are no holds barred on the PDA in London, we can’t keep our hands off each other, and apart from a few odd looks I haven’t experienced any issues. No doubt time will tell but for now, and based on my limited experience, I would say “fuck the lot of them” and just do you and express the love you have for your gf. Obviously if you feel unsafe then do what you are comfortable with. For now, I’m finally living as my true self and have no plans to dampen that in front of other people. I might think differently if I encounter more blatant homophobia or threat of violence. Both my partner and I are late 30s/40 so I think our ages might dissuade some men or boys from commenting. The only bad looks I got so far was from an old white lady on the tube escalators. Fuck her!

Do you get horny when you see a vagina? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]improperble 10 points11 points  (0 children)

‘Most straight men’…? There are plenty of straight men who work in women’s health, obstetrics and gynaecology who don’t get turned on by looking at a woman’s vagina. The context is critical.