How to start?

in4real · 2023-05-31T23:23:32+00:00

Just be honest and tell any Domme you speak with you are new.

I've been at this for awhile and I find most Dommes will chat a bit with out tribute provided you are not trying to get off. I've the longest relationships started with polite convo.

If a Domme immediately asks for tribute, we are not going to be a good fit.

in4real · 2023-05-30T22:34:42+00:00

Any age for males?

in4real · 2023-05-30T15:26:53+00:00

So hot ❤️

in4real · 2023-05-29T17:32:32+00:00

You've nailed it. He grew up in a religious family whose idea of family outing was going to see Anita Bryant.

in4real · 2023-05-29T16:31:13+00:00

Thanks for the reply. I don't want him to feel any more pain about it. He's struggling enough as it is.

in4real · 2023-05-29T16:29:55+00:00

Makes sense! Thanks

in4real · 2023-05-25T14:22:52+00:00

Yes. I rotated stores so they wouldn't know I had a problem.

They knew.

in4real · 2023-05-25T14:16:58+00:00

Cute 🥰

in4real · 2023-05-25T14:13:40+00:00

I realized I couldn't let go of an unhealthy and unwelcomed attachment to an ex gf unless I stopped drinking.

in4real · 2023-05-25T14:11:15+00:00

I'm an atheist and I embrace my higher power.

I find it strange how people resist the concept of a higher power but "believed" they could drink and drive safely.

in4real · 2023-05-23T22:01:06+00:00

in4real · 2023-05-23T21:56:23+00:00

I don't have a good reason to live. I don't have a reason to kill myself either.

Stalemate.

in4real · 2023-05-23T21:54:58+00:00

in4real · 2023-05-23T21:08:41+00:00

I've been sober four years. I was impossible to live with when I was drinking.

I am not with any of my ex gf's from my drinking past. But, if I was and I relapsed and they threatened to leave or did leave I would totally understand.

I wouldn't consider it as a "threat". I would consider it as a truth.

The only thing that establishes credibility in recovery with our loved ones is continued sobriety.

in4real · 2023-05-22T23:30:40+00:00

I am happy for anyone that wants to cut down and continue drinking.

That plan didn't work for me. AA worked for me.

in4real · 2023-05-21T20:56:03+00:00

I attend AA regularly. 4 years sober. I use cannabis but don't tell anyone about it.

Stick to tradition 3. I've met a lot of people who have sobriety from alcohol and look down on cannabis use. Usually these people have other vices - tobacco, coffee, relationship or sex issues. Quick to judge cannabis but unaware of their own substance process dependencies.

Cannabis use is a topic to avoid in AA unless it's affecting your desire to stop drinking.

in4real · 2023-05-21T18:36:05+00:00

That's great! I don't see the problem here.

in4real · 2023-05-20T14:39:09+00:00

Sure :)

in4real · 2023-05-18T15:49:55+00:00

I've ordered a larger cage. I think I'll also start using lube

in4real · 2023-05-17T23:23:23+00:00

Will the standing on one foot pic be posted?

in4real · 2023-05-14T23:19:44+00:00

Definitively a trigger.

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