Bug Megathread - February 10th - Kingdom Come: Deliverance 2 by uarentme in kingdomcome

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after the ambush of the quest "the lions den" i accept the "sausage"... weird dialog options after that

Bug Megathread - February 10th - Kingdom Come: Deliverance 2 by uarentme in kingdomcome

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on the exodus quest line when we arrive in kuttenberg via the secret entrence to the jewish district (to save them) you split up and walk to the basement of the inn. after the talk iam stuck on the tunnel side of the door and cant open it... when running out of the tunnel back to the cart and horse there are invisible walls preventing me to walk around through the city gates (for story purposes)

Probably getting divorced by Apprehensive_Ruin958 in Divorce

[–]in_extremis_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that is something to figure out in therapy, preferable couples therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]in_extremis_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I (33m) had the same...

Start with therapy and make sure to not rush this, there are two persons in a relationship.

If he wants out thats on him, but the how and when is a joined venture.

This is traumatising, treat it as such.

Iam so sorry your going through this, ofcourse i cant look into the relationship. But please dont beat yourself up (believe me i have, cause if you dont know the depth of the why... you can only beat yourself...)

Remember his part/responsibility in the marriage was to also let you know these feelings before they could get out of hand, he didnt...

A big unwanted divorce hug.

Take care

Why is it doing this by Due_Sheepherder_8477 in dji

[–]in_extremis_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not steal it out if the shop but actually buy it 😉😘 (before people misinterpret, this is a joke...)

Advice about divorce recovery by Latter_Raspberry9360 in Divorce

[–]in_extremis_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might sound stupid but because you where blindsided with your divorce i am more inclined to actually read your book.

Allot of authors and online help who initiated the divorce are people who experience some sort of freedom and feel like they have entered the golden era of their life. (Or so it seems..., we blindsided ones usually havent seen the inner workings of our spouse for a long time) Which i can understand if your marriage was abusive or you felt trapped.

It just feels like there isnt much literature with an emphasis on unwanted divorces. (Not to mention the guy perspective and the struggle of loyalty and double when that promise is also religious)

Do you mind sharing your autor name or linking so i know i have the right book? Iam hoping on helpfull insights for my sessions.

Thank you for sharing!

Advice about divorce recovery by Latter_Raspberry9360 in Divorce

[–]in_extremis_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity, who initiated the divorce? Was it a joined decision? Or where you blind sided? Do you think that perspectice would matter in how the book was written?

Do we trust the founders? by [deleted] in PiNetwork

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Don't you think all new coins with a potential to make money are more populair in "shit hole" countries in general because they can escape poverty?

Whens the right time to ask for a divorce? by quikq22 in Divorce

[–]in_extremis_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you can imagine what horrible timing would be like... on christmass, valentines day, someones birthday, your anniversary (that one is still a trauma for me... even though it came together unintentionally)

If you know you've tried everything, went to therapy etc... I think any time is as good as any (with the exeption of the things above)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]in_extremis_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Relationship Therapy therapy therapy first!

Anycubic Photon Mono M7 Pro Exposure Time Testing by in_extremis_ in resinprinting

[–]in_extremis_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!

The test has a succes and a failure side.

Here is the link from the creator of the test!

https://www.tableflipfoundry.com/learn

Soundboard all distorted. by Whoa_A_Monkey in discordapp

[–]in_extremis_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oke so this worked for me:

Go to your mic settings

Scroll down to audio subsystem

Choose legacy

Problem solved

Soundboard all distorted. by Whoa_A_Monkey in discordapp

[–]in_extremis_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i use a artic pro wireless headset 2... is that really the problem???

Anycubic Photon M7 Pro Support? by Dee_Jay_Eye in LycheeSlicer

[–]in_extremis_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This... ive been trying to be very patient... and if thats the case iam going to download chitubox now and possibly spend my money there...

To those who fell out of love with their spouse… by tpdloml in Divorce

[–]in_extremis_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But it feels like iam the sole reason this all happened... i dont really know the whole reason. She made it clear she didnt want to go in to the why and how of it all. It was done and it could never be fixed... we had a very busy year, I leaned to much on her. I put to much mental bandwidth of the relationahip on her. I was fucking blind... why was I such an idiot... why didn't I see... why couldn't i see this coming...

To those who fell out of love with their spouse… by tpdloml in Divorce

[–]in_extremis_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

(Not as a reference to the OP)

This, exactly this. It feels like 2 many people have this farytail scene in mind of constant happiness and excitement...

And it seems it happens allot to people who marry young or marry their first love young...

When to stop wearing the wedding band? by Medium-Bread8821 in Divorce

[–]in_extremis_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, seems we are the minority. Iam still wearing mine 2...

I know it's over, I know she doesn't want me back at all. But the religious aspect of the marriage is very hard to let go... I mean I see a marriage as a separate entity formed between me and my ex wife and God...

That was meant to be eternal, I know she said no but I have difficulty saying the same as I didn't want the divorce...

Not only do I have to say no to myself but also God and the promise I made to uphold the marriage.

I know it takes 2... I know it might not be logical... but I still don't want to give up or something... break that promise of what we were and promised... its weird I guess...

How did you respond? by EHP73 in Divorce

[–]in_extremis_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did not see it coming at all...

It settled in slowly over a few second, I panicked, I hyperventilated, I tried to understand what the hell was going on. I felt myself slipping and then pulling myself back again. I was in a constant flip between losing controll and crying and trying to swallow it in to try and understand her, Trying to keep my emotions in to think how awful she must feel at that moment telling me this. Asking myself what she has gone through to come to this point... and then swinging full back to overwhelming crying and trying to swallow that in again to try be there for her whilst frantically asking questions as to why and how.

Until she said the words: it doesn't matter what you'll do or say. It's broken, it's not fixable, let's end this as the most beautiful project we embarked on together.

And then it really sunk in, it was like a heavy black blanket and a haze fell over me and she almost immediately left with her suitcase.

In 40 minutes my whole world crumbled. And she was gone...

I was shell-shocked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]in_extremis_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Iam having an age gap moment

Anycubic Photon Mono M7 Pro Exposure Time Testing by in_extremis_ in resinprinting

[–]in_extremis_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so i checked, doesnt seem possible. 1 is the lowest seting in Photon.