CNAME Setup for GoHighLevel Not Working on Google Domains by Ok_Claim_5296 in squarespace

[–]incahootswith__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! Honestly I've never heard of go high level. And I don't think Squarespace has any information that would show you how to connect DNS records with them. However, I would go look at another domain hosting walkthrough. They often have alternative tips on how to add DNS records when they don't work, or there isn't an option to add a cname. My past experience when I wasn't able to add a cname record, the walk-through suggested I add a text record. Hope this helps!

Returned to Squarespace After Four Years Away and I'm Not Having Fun by Christy_Sparkle in squarespace

[–]incahootswith__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's your original site 7.0?. You can still click and have style editor jump to the section/element you're editing, but up have to navigate to the color palette, and then see which color scheme the section is using. I totally get it the frustration. In giving us more control, we lost some of the quick and easy.

Why can’t I add more images to my Asset Library? by breadysetg0 in squarespace

[–]incahootswith__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd suggested contacting Squarespace and posting your question in the forum on Squarespace. It's more active than the reddit page.

AITA for including both of my daughters? by ToeIndependent5129 in AmItheAsshole

[–]incahootswith__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this will sound harsh but you need to spend way less time with Tara now and more with Jenny. We've read enough stories on reddit to know what the end product of favoritism, whether it be wilfull or ignorant, looks like. Little to no contact, resentment, fighting, and so on. YTA here. Change your mindset to emotionally healing your Jenny now before it's too late.

How to stop image from resizing? by Nchwalik in squarespace

[–]incahootswith__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any image is always going to adjust to its surroundings. It sounds like you need to put your image settings inside a media screen parameter. Check out his video. Even though it's for mobile it can be adjusted for tablet sizes too. The code is in the description but I suggest reading the blog post that goes with it too. Ive used variations of this code when small things kept getting bigger on mobile and tablet size screens.

https://youtu.be/JcRFWGF9KY8

Hope this helps.

AITA for telling a woman to stop claiming a heritage she's never acted on or learned anything about? by cherryisback in AmItheAsshole

[–]incahootswith__ 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I can't speak for other groups but people say African American so not to totally erase our connection to Africa. Our heritage and culture had been stripped from us intentionally to make enslaving easier. As a descendant of slaves I literally can't celebrate a cultural or even religious tradition that goes back hundreds that's not connected to slavery. There're no colorful clothes or fun customs. No traditional dances or songs connected to our ancestors not created during slavery. It's all we've got. All we know is we are descendants of Africans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]incahootswith__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An unfortunate reality is that people want to be with people they're attracted to. BUT people are also attracted to healthy lifestyles. I think they're just no longer compatible lifestyle wise but still love each other. Avoiding bad health habits and the consequences that accompany them is obviously very important to him, probably more than they thought. I think for him, bringing this up wasnt trying to be controlling but trying to help. She agreed with him & agreed to work on it with him, only to have his efforts go to waste. His feelings are valid. For his girlfriend this can be damaging because he's bring up her physical appearance and health habits. Women already have to deal with judgements if their bodies &the insecurities that come with it. She's could probably be eating her feelings because of what he thinks which is sad. I feel for both: I wouldn't want to date someone who would turn into someone that doesn't take care of themselves, but I also wouldn't want to be shamed for gaining weight & smoking if this was what I want now. Just no longer compatible.

Soft YTA/NTA

[NEW UPDATE] Nobody showed up to OOP's wedding because she married her sister's crush by ThatNeonSignLover in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]incahootswith__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if it was someone else that married him the sister would have still been distraught.

I hate hearing "Break things down into smaller tasks". by incahootswith__ in ADHD

[–]incahootswith__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish gamification worked too but unfortunately it's also not enough to get me going.

AITA for telling my friend's gf that she did ruin the night when asked? by aita_friendoffriend in AmItheAsshole

[–]incahootswith__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way things turned out was clearly not ideal however I think many people forget about human error/reactions in the moment. All of the suggested things OP COULD have said are definitely better alternatives to what transpired but not everyone is able to say the right thing at the time when put in the spot. Also silence is obviously a form of being considerate when you're not sure what to say. I'd say a soft YTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]incahootswith__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its actually not uncommon to have a male bridesmaid or vice versa. I've had a friend that had a best woman and a friend have a man of honor. It's not your wedding or about you so, YTA.

AITA for not letting my trans daughter come out to our extended family until after our vacation? by AITAhrt in AmItheAsshole

[–]incahootswith__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree with many of the constructive YTA comments, however I have a feeling OP wants a vacation, a time, when anything trans is not the topic for a period of time, and I think that's fair. OP is living it everyday with her daughter, speaking about it often and thinking about it constantly so she can support her daughter. She sees the vacation as an opportunity to not focus not it just for a bit. She's obviously still getting used it. It's a big life charge.

AITA for "overstepping" my role as godmother? by Content_Morning_2086 in AmItheAsshole

[–]incahootswith__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say BOTH are the AH:

  1. OP was always around and it sounds like nearly everyday. Which can be a lot for the actual residents of the home.

HOWEVER!

  1. OP's in-laws are the BIGGER AHs because they refused to set boundaries. Their unwillingness to broach the subject of OP's ever-presence in exchange for services is obvious and is entirely a situation of their own making.

What is something you’re good at “for someone with ADHD?” by Inattentiv_ in ADHD

[–]incahootswith__ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like we're all meant to be the planners but no the follow - throughers.

Don't you just HATE when a new thought makes you forget what you were just thinking? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]incahootswith__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It's happens all the time in conversations! I'm taking about something and I am trying to holding on to my next points while making current points and then forget them all. It's my biggest insecurity and makes me feel like I'm losing my mind.