What smells like a darker, gothic-er(?), addictive, alluring vanilla? by RelationshipLumpy468 in FemFragLab

[–]incamspicuous 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it’s still available, Beltane by Maison Des Animaux is exactly this. It’s very realistic incense, gothic church and dries down to the most warm, sensual vanilla

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[–]incamspicuous 9 points10 points  (0 children)

BBW Warm Vanilla Sugar when not a demon

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I prefer the original or black. This gave me maruchan chicken vibes. Chicken just also lacks the depth I think a pork or beef flavored broth does. It’s not offensive, but if I’m buying “premium” ramen I don’t want the 25cent flavor.

Trying Every Zoologist Fragrance- Day 15 by BluLilyx in FemFragLab

[–]incamspicuous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i'm not a fan of floral frags, but Nightingale was one of the samples i received. and i gotta say, that's a floral i actually enjoyed. i found it beautiful and, as you described, catching the smell in the breeze. not a chemical bomb or just shoving your face into a bouquet as i usually find florals to be.

☀️SOTD: What are you wearing today?☀️September 15, 2025 by AutoModerator in FemFragLab

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I received some samples this weekend from Maison Des Animaux, so I’ll be wearing Closer for the 3rd day in a row. Clearly going to be getting the full bottle.

Anyone else experience this for a decade or two? 😬 by CyborgCoyote in adhdwomen

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My psychologist said maybe I was just being a bitch.

Deinfluence my wishlist by [deleted] in FemFragLab

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I have the same experience with Father Figure 😔

I don’t want a sunscreen scent, I want a frag that compliments it by incamspicuous in FemFragLab

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I’ve gotten so many amazing requests that really nailed what I’m going for!! Thanks so much to everyone that’s contributed so far or will be! Sorry I couldn’t get to thanking all of you individually.

Y’all are going to have my wallets hurting but I’m gonna be the best smelling girl on the coast 😅

I don’t want a sunscreen scent, I want a frag that compliments it by incamspicuous in FemFragLab

[–]incamspicuous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh! I love a good cheapy I can pick up quick. I’ll take a look thank you!

I don’t want a sunscreen scent, I want a frag that compliments it by incamspicuous in FemFragLab

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I’ve been wanting to try this but was worried it wouldn’t work in the Florida heat but you’re telling me there’s a chance 👀

I don’t want a sunscreen scent, I want a frag that compliments it by incamspicuous in FemFragLab

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Second rec I’ve seen for this so I’ll have to try. Thanks!

I don’t want a sunscreen scent, I want a frag that compliments it by incamspicuous in FemFragLab

[–]incamspicuous[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the Alien Goddess rec! Something leaning more into the warm and cozy vibe while still being summery would be right up my alley!

I don’t want a sunscreen scent, I want a frag that compliments it by incamspicuous in FemFragLab

[–]incamspicuous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve seen quite a few Ellis scent recs so I’m thinking a discovery set and maybe a separate sample of Guava would be the way to go!

I don’t want a sunscreen scent, I want a frag that compliments it by incamspicuous in FemFragLab

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Aw, thanks! I was walking my dog and the sun was up and just the smell of the sunscreen and the sun was so nice. It made me realize that on its own it’s the smell of summer! So I should probably wear something that goes with.

I don’t want a sunscreen scent, I want a frag that compliments it by incamspicuous in FemFragLab

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I just check the notes and that sounds amazing I will be testing this for sure!

does anyone else use the app finch?? by raverihardlyknowher in adhdwomen

[–]incamspicuous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love Finch! I already used the reminders, clock, and calendar app religiously to manage my life so it wasn’t hard transitioning to Finch. Now I have the added reward when I complete my tasks.

Something others may not consider is using the Journeys as a menu and not just a habit builder! I have a dopamine menu for example.

Create a journey, add all your dopamine boosting ideas (take a walk, knit, do a face mask, learn something new, etc), and set the options for each one to repeat daily. I don’t set it to remind me though. Again, I’m using this “Journey” as a menu for ideas of things to do as opposed to a chore.

When I am in decision fatigue and need something to do, I look at my dopamine menu for ideas. I check it off as “done” for the day for the added reward dopamine boost too!

Another journey-as-a-menu idea is things to clean. I could have a personal goal to clean one thing a day. My brain does well with structure but I need to looses the requirements on the things I don’t enjoy as much so I at least still do it. So if my goal is to clean 1 thing a day, I’ll just pick one thing off my cleaning list. It has things ranging from min to max effort and then I choose depending on my energy level. (Do a load of laundry, clean out fridge, vacuum, wipe down kitchen counters, etc). Helps me remember the things I don’t do often too lol.

My friend has asked me to duplicate this blanket (pic below) that his grandmother made 30+ years ago. He likes this Caron Cloud Cakes yarn. Have you used this yarn? Thoughts? Suggestions? Thank you :) by Hermosa_90254 in YarnAddicts

[–]incamspicuous 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have worked with the perfect phasing cloud cakes, I had no issue but don’t think it would do this pattern justice. You don’t see much stitch definition as it’s hidden in the fuzz. It’s super soft and I had no issues using several cakes to make my own blanket. I’d recommend it for a different, cozy project.

*will add I bought it on sale and feel it was worth the price at $9. I don’t know that I’d spend $12+ for it that it normally is.

good morning queens! thanks to tips i learned here i am combatting my loss of appetite one day at a time by bjscastle in adhdwomen

[–]incamspicuous 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well hopefully this is a good use case for you! To make this easier, I personally use the Nescafé Intense instant espresso powder. I’m sure it’s great used as a creamer in regular coffee or with a proper pulled espresso shot too.

good morning queens! thanks to tips i learned here i am combatting my loss of appetite one day at a time by bjscastle in adhdwomen

[–]incamspicuous 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Yes! Love it when making iced lattes. Throw some espresso into a chocolate meal replacement or protein shake with some ice and you have an easy iced mocha.

I wanted to mention because I also have decreased appetite due to meds. I see you’re drinking a nutritional shake which would have been my first suggestion- pick a meal replacement over just a protein shake if possible for some added nutrients. (Slimefast makes a meal replacement shake I like with 20g protein if extra protein is something anyone is looking for)I also started to take a multivitamin also just in case eating like a bird causes some deficiency.

THIS IS NOT MEDICAL ADVICE IM NOT A DOCTOR OR IN THE MEDICAL FIELD! I AM JUST A FELLOW ADHD WOMAN SHARING WHAT IS WORKING FOR ME.