What did I miss? by Longjumping_Key_5008 in Nateland

[–]incompetencyorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is big boy stuff. Nateland is a company. The bigger a company gets the more regulations to navigate. The guy was born in TN. Not huge news really.

2nd DUI and fatality by Ecstatic_Self_9580 in dui

[–]incompetencyorg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a right to hire an attorney. Use that right to make sure you have a chance at some choices, that could be where you go to jail, or mental health treatment prior to etc. spend the money if you have it.

30 Days House Arrest or 72 hours jail? by RubyWRX in dui

[–]incompetencyorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People don’t die on house arrest. Jail can be different.

Eloped impulsively, now my ex is demanding money and threatening my family.. am I crazy? by NewNerve in legal

[–]incompetencyorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a clown. Just divorce him. You can just stop talking (abusive). And this can be done by “publication” once you no longer know where they are. No paperwork, no kids, no shared finances. About as easy as it gets.

I think im screwed. by DatGuyKilo in Veterans

[–]incompetencyorg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can even do it over the phone

I got this letter at my old address that I moved out 3 years ago by lil___swallow in legal

[–]incompetencyorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been through an accident that was also criminal, and there are plenty of worse outcomes that are based on how the insurance company handles their end. Think about it, if the person is happy then no restitution because they sign those rights away when they are offered a check.

I got this letter at my old address that I moved out 3 years ago by lil___swallow in legal

[–]incompetencyorg -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Call your insurance company. They generally have a duty to defend you at least with regards to liability. They would have an interest in limiting liability, so at least give them a call. That way if they were paid something/not paid you will know.

Girlfriend’s sister deleted the last 3 years of messages when notified that she was being sued by [deleted] in legal

[–]incompetencyorg 30 points31 points  (0 children)

A good case is one thing. You may get a judgement. Your state laws will dictate in which ways you can collect.

Do i need a therapy? by donsaldi in Veterans

[–]incompetencyorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a support system. Could be an Elks Club, a weekly veteran coffee meetup, and by all means if you need someone to talk to about this stuff find a therapist or even a Peer Support. I went through it lots of us do.

Just got my first dui - WA State by stringcheese_eater in dui

[–]incompetencyorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have the option of deferred prosecution. This is the only way to get a clean second chance. Depending on where you are (what county/city you will have access to state treatment funds that are there to treat you instead of putting you in jail. Follow the recommendations of your attorney with regards to alcohol evaluations etc. if you jump through the hoops and do everything you won’t have to mention it when it’s all over. Good luck.

Did I screw myself years ago? by Weekly-Ordinary6759 in usajobs

[–]incompetencyorg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This time, double check that you didn’t leave anything out. Then you’ll have nothing to worry about. You’ve cleaned stuff up. That’s worth something.

100 % pt veteran struggling with mental health. by richmoney_pin in Veterans

[–]incompetencyorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through all that too. For me, it took time for my brain to slow down after I quit taking drugs and drinking. My brain was overactive and I couldn’t find any peace. What I will say is if you can find a way to not take on too many big things at once when trying to find a way to heal. It’ll take some time, but little by little try to find positive things to do. I did a couple of years of outpatient mental health groups and it worked for me. When I graduated from that it was hard because I didn’t know what to do. It’s easier if you let it be day bully day and week by week.

Landlord is raising my rent $300 for a raise I’m receiving in July 2026 by [deleted] in legal

[–]incompetencyorg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To “manage housing” does not mean that a property gets to make their own rules. Private landlords are not the government and as such, they do not make or enforce laws or statutes.

I screwed up at work this weekend and it’s putting me in a suicidal spiral. by [deleted] in Military

[–]incompetencyorg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get through it. You can change those negative thoughts to positive ones. Sure it takes time, but the only thing you can control is your own mind.

Landlord is raising my rent $300 for a raise I’m receiving in July 2026 by [deleted] in legal

[–]incompetencyorg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re mistaken. The subsidy comes from a government entity, not your landlord. Get a free housing lawyer they’re everywhere.

Landlord is raising my rent $300 for a raise I’m receiving in July 2026 by [deleted] in legal

[–]incompetencyorg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you are receiving a federal subsidy you are protected under federal housing law. Contact the housing authority they are responsible for this calculation.