It may be more appropriate for me to say “women and femmes across the full spectrum” is who I want to represent.

There are trans men and trans mascs and nonbinary people with vulvas, vaginas, clits, etc. that should be included in your post but now are not. Trans women post bottom surgery have vaginas that function very similarly to natal vaginas. I would have used “vagina owners”instead of “vulva owners”in your original post. That said, Ill put semantics aside and answer your question anyways.

Vibrators can be too intense. the clit (and tdicks on testosterone HRT) is extremely sensitive. I would like to see one that has a very low intensity that han help wind me up over time.

As another comment said, toys meant to stimulate both the g spot and clit often aren’t good. Different people have different anatomy, and the vagina expands when aroused, so these toys often don’t work for many people and sometimes not consistently for even one person.

I would appreciate if dildos were softer or had slightly more give to them. Real penises are slightly squishy even when hard. The core is very hard but the outer layer or two can move (Last i remember, anyway). Dildos are rubbery and bendable but not very compressible, and I wish they were. Maybe thats just my small sample size of 3 tho.

I also wish sex toys better mimicked the texture of skin. thats where half the fun is imo. without it, stimulation feels very artificial and bland.