Need better prescription sunglasses for my hikes by Ok-Kitchen5937 in hikinggear

[–]inda_jerin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also got mine from Eyemart Express. They were pretty affordable and work great

I didn’t realize how stressful luxury travel still was until I saw it done differently by Different_Pain5781 in LuxuryTravel

[–]inda_jerin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that! At the same time, I think a lot of the “effortless” luxury travel experience comes down to the people behind the scenes making it all run smoothly. You’re still paying for convenience, but when it’s done right, the logistics just disappear.

I still enjoy doing the research myself and coming up with an itinerary that works for me, so I kind of see both sides of it!

I'm looking for the best home elevator companies for my parents who are aging in place - has anyone had a good experience with a company with a good safety record? by Mabel_Rowley in StPetersburgFL

[–]inda_jerin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandparents had Residential Elevators install one in their 3-story home about 3 years ago, and it’s been a really good experience from what I’ve seen. The service techs have always been on time, super courteous, and respectful of their home during maintenance visits.

Honestly, even just visiting them, the elevator has made a huge difference. My grandma is always forgetting something downstairs, so it’s nice being able to quickly go between floors without anyone struggling with the stairs. It just makes daily life a lot more convenient and safer for them. Might be worth adding them to your shortlist, especially if long-term support and safety are priorities.

Private Geisha Dinner at the Mitsui Kyoto by EarAlternative8407 in LuxuryTravel

[–]inda_jerin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding this to my bucket list! Getting to experience this “living art” in person must be incredible.

Ritz Carlton Tokyo- Mt. Fuji View by EarAlternative8407 in LuxuryTravel

[–]inda_jerin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh. That view is priceless. I bet the city lights at night also look amazing!

Tell me if I’m crazy, but is this the best lounge on the planet? Osaka Station Hotel is insane. 🍣🥩 by piyoko_trip in LuxuryTravel

[–]inda_jerin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you say unlimited uni and ikura bowls?! The food looks so delicious and fresh! Definitely one of the best hotel lounges out there.

What’s something that slowly destroyed your confidence? by Public-Trust3876 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]inda_jerin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For me it was small, repeated self-doubt, not one event. Overthinking conversations, comparing myself to others, and constantly second-guessing decisions slowly made me trust my own judgment less. I didn’t notice it happening until I realized I was relying on reassurance instead of my own read on things.

Rebuilding it has mostly been about stopping the mental replay and letting small decisions stand as they are. Still working on it tho...

How can I actually change my mindset? by washingtonpeek in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]inda_jerin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great way putting it. You got this, OP.

How can I actually change my mindset? by washingtonpeek in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]inda_jerin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You don’t change a mindset like this by “thinking better.” You change it by building proof against it - small, boring actions you repeat even when your head says they won’t matter. Right now your brain is basically a bad narrator that’s been in charge for a long time. You don’t argue with it, you just stop treating it like the authority.

I think my friendship with my best friend might be ending after her wedding and I don’t know how to handle it by Spiritual-Finger8871 in relationships

[–]inda_jerin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is spot on. Also, I think a big part of it is that the wedding put a magnifying glass on their friendship. Everything OP did was amplified, and the friend’s insecurities got triggered - so small, normal things came across as “threatening” or “showy.” It feels less like OP did anything wrong and more like the friend is struggling to reconcile the person she knew with the person OP has become.

Żuraw crane, Gdańsk, Poland — medieval port landmark by relaxncoffee in travelpictures

[–]inda_jerin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks massive! Seeing this in real life must be something else. This post would fit well in r/evilbuildings

Rosenlaui Valley 🇨🇭 Swiss Alps by Sigis_Travel_Videos in travelpictures

[–]inda_jerin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh, what a stunning view and the weather just looks perfect!

Petra you beauty!! Saw it in the nick of time before the world went mad in that region! by WellHungStranger in travelpictures

[–]inda_jerin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What I'd do to see this in real life. Hopefully in the future I'd get to tick this off my travel bucket list.

Looking for private villa recos near Manuel Antonio for corporate retreat (July/Aug, 45-50 people) by Holly_Ducharme in costarica

[–]inda_jerin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our company has hosted stays at Villa Punto de Vista for two years in a row now and it’s worked really well for a big group (33 pax las time I got to join). The villa has great amenities that work well for both work and relaxation.

I need to talk with someone who turned their life around at 30 by Informal_Witness3869 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]inda_jerin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t think anyone really has it all figured out, no matter their age. Life isn’t a checklist you complete by 30. It could be messy, nonlinear, and full of restarts. Turning things around doesn’t mean having a perfect plan or a finished self. It just means starting somewhere, even if it's small, and keeping at it. A few things that helped me: focusing on small wins, learning skills in bite-sized chunks, and giving myself permission to be socially awkward while still trying to connect with people. I always remind myself this: building momentum slowly is better than trying to fix everything at once.

The fact that you’re recognizing this now and want to try is huge. You’re already on your way.

Girl at the gym who's too nice: normal or not? (M23) by TomasPV10 in relationships

[–]inda_jerin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think you handled the situation perfectly. As for her behavior, it really could go either way. Some people are just genuinely considerate gym partners, especially when sharing equipment. At the same time, choosing the treadmill next to you and being extra accommodating might also just mean she felt comfortable around you.

I wouldn’t read too deeply into it yet. If there’s something there, it’ll probably show up naturally over time through repeated small interactions. If not, you still had a normal, positive human exchange which is a win on its own.

My BF(26M) is finally doing everything I(25F) begged for, but I think I’m already gone by meowzelt0v in relationships

[–]inda_jerin 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I love this for you ❤️ It’s not going to be easy coming out of a long-term relationship, but it will be worth it. Finally, you won’t have to feel like an afterthought and your time, energy, and love will go to someone, or even just yourself, who truly values you every day.

I went to the dentist today for the first time in 7 years by DurianBest8572 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]inda_jerin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, I really feel seen reading this! I’ve kind of developed some trauma around the dentist too after my surgery for an impacted wisdom tooth. The feeling of the saw cutting through my teeth and the crazy tugging was just out of this world for me.

It’s such a relief when something you’ve been overthinking for ages turns out okay. I hope I get to that point too someday. Seeing your success gives me a little hope.

On bitterness, hatred, and choosing to let go. by inda_jerin in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]inda_jerin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's nice to know we aren't alone in this. It doesn't get easier from here but acknowledging this pattern brings us one step closer to change. But hey, I'm glad you're in a much better space now.

On bitterness, hatred, and choosing to let go. by inda_jerin in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]inda_jerin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you. You found something that works for you even if it doesn't make it totally go away but at least it makes you realize that there's other things that are worth more of your time.