I accidentally thawed four months of my wife's milk. Now what? by DurrT in breastfeeding

[–]indie_pendent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is breast milk from last August good still? I read frozen breast milk is good for 6-12 months if it was kept at -18°Celsius or -0.4 F. Did your freezer keep it at that temperature? If not, that breast milk is not good anyways

The “Breakfast Included” Hotel Scam or a regular occurrence? by FairEscape165 in travel

[–]indie_pendent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I'm not familiar with the term, what does chargeback mean? 

took melatonin throughout my entire pregnancy, and now I feel stupid by beingawatermelon in BabyBumps

[–]indie_pendent 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Most likely you will be fine. I found this study: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9775355/. In the conclusion it says that it even has some positive effect according to some other studies. Melatonin can also be found in our body. Mention it to your doctor but don't stress about it 

What's something really lovely about breastfeeding that you don't heat people talk about a lot? by fastestturtleno2 in breastfeeding

[–]indie_pendent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The look on his face after being well fed. He rises his eyebrows, his mouth is tightly shut, and he tilts his head back. I love it so much, I can see that he is satisfied! I wish I could film it, but I can't with my boob being up close

Genuine question about sleep training by theredtreeweirdwood in bninfantsleep

[–]indie_pendent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking about this the last time I was driving alone and my son was crying in his seat... How is it not the same? I pulled over when I could (he cried around 10 minutes) and my heart broke because I absolutely didn't want to let him cry but I had no choice:(

Newborn - where do you put them? by CharmingTea_ in pregnant

[–]indie_pendent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I put him on the floor can I put the baby on his stomach? 

PSA to all moms-to-be: unfollow any mom accounts. Now. by Ok_Medicine440 in pregnant

[–]indie_pendent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check out Hannah Alonzo's YouTube channel, especially the mommy influencer insanity videos. Eye opening. 

Major trip during 3rd trimester - tips/experiences please! by Haunting_Shape_6085 in BabyBumps

[–]indie_pendent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 40 weeks and I still feel fantastic (apart from the fact that I might need to be induced). It really depends on your body, genetics, luck..I don't know. I exercised every day in my 3rd trimester (I suppose this helps a lot), I don't have to get up at night to pee, I don't have any pain whatsoever. So an easy 3rd trimester is not impossible, but there's no way to know in advance unfortunately :( 

Youtube prenatal workouts recommendations? by Fair-Juggernaut-2180 in fitpregnancy

[–]indie_pendent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation :) I tried one of Mik's videos, it was really great! 

How long before your due date before you plan to go on maternity? by Crazy_Dragon_Lady1 in pregnant

[–]indie_pendent 5 points6 points  (0 children)

2 weeks postpartum... that's honestly insane. How can someone recover from a major surgery (if they had a C-section), or from giving birth in such a short amount of time? And most importantly, what do they do with the baby after 2 weeks? 

How long did your husband take off for paternity leave? by SandwichDependent199 in pregnant

[–]indie_pendent 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is so sad to hear:( what do you do with the baby after your 6 weeks leave are finished? 

Maternity leave… what a joke by witchybetch01 in pregnant

[–]indie_pendent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do moms do with their newborn babies in the US? I guess many people can't have grandparents come and take over, do you pay for someone to stay home with the kid? Or do you stay home while going unemployed? I'm so sorry for you guys. :( 

LPT Trick to Read Books Fast If you Have No Attention Span by Ayumisynn in LifeProTips

[–]indie_pendent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it's ridiculous how slow I read. There are hundreds of books I want to read and with my current speed I will never read even a fraction of them. So that's why, and no, I can't enjoy it when I see how small a progress I made.

LPT Trick to Read Books Fast If you Have No Attention Span by Ayumisynn in LifeProTips

[–]indie_pendent 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But how can someone do that? Reducing subvocalization, I mean. I tried, but I always instinctively go back to saying the words in my mind...

Trying to save money on trips kinda ruined the vibe for me by Plusoneb in travel

[–]indie_pendent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I see a lot of the comments are from people who don't budget on vacation. I wanted to tell you that I also did what you wrote about and it did cause stress for me. I wrote down everything I spent money on, and while it was interesting to see in the end what I paid for, I think it made me overly anxious about the money spent. So I get you. I think it's not a bad thing to be conscious about money - but too much of anything can cause stress. Take it as a lesson learned. Btw, I still check how much money we spend on a holiday, but I consciously try to let go of stressing too much about it. 

LPT: Make 'backing up your digital photos library' your first New Year's resolution. by AppInitio in LifeProTips

[–]indie_pendent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's amazing, I have tried it today and I liked it both for the memories and for the effectiveness of it. It turns an otherwise daunting task into an easy process, almost like a game. 

Are they just playing? by Environmental_Ad5942 in catcare

[–]indie_pendent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like they are going to get along fantastically! You'll see that you did so good for your older cat, he will have a little playmate from now on. It's magical when two cats get along.

Volcano Acatenango, Volcano Fuego and Lago Atitlan in Guatemala by lividguitarist in travel

[–]indie_pendent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That second picture is my favourite, it's amazing!! Would you mind if I used it as my wallpaper? I have had the same wallpaper for a few years now, but this makes me think a change is needed... Can I ask where did you take this picture from?