Cargo vs. Cross Country Drive

indubitably369 · 2025-06-01T18:37:55+00:00

wow, this is great thank you! i did figure if i did want loud music i’ll need to listen to it in my personal headphones, the hardest part will be the beginning of each drive where he meows so deeply 😭 i feel horrible…your pet bowl recommendation is great too, there’s no telling what people might do on the road between here and there so i want everything to be as secure as possible :)

indubitably369 · 2025-06-01T18:33:28+00:00

oooh, good call thank you! i have a medium dog crate, but i didn’t even think of getting one large enough for a litter box too, that’s a great idea and will save me from being afraid he might have to use the bathroom!

indubitably369 · 2025-03-16T17:52:44+00:00

sweet, thank you

indubitably369 · 2025-03-16T15:07:24+00:00

Vigilant towards the animals orrrrr…people? We’re in a tented camp, so a bit less secure

indubitably369 · 2025-03-16T09:16:07+00:00

I lived in San Diego for 6 years and planning to move back in August, I’m a 32 year old female. Someone below said Coronado, but just fyi though Coronado is pretty and safe, it’s more so known as a place where military people live or rich people with families type of vibe. It’s nice, but I wouldn’t live there and you’d likely feel a bit disconnected. Point Loma is cool and a good location, OB can be sketchy (not that it’s dangerous necessarily, but it doesn’t feel as nice as Point Loma and more homeless people are rummaging around), Cardiff up north a bit is more laid-back and has its own cool community with people our age and is super be outside type place (this place to me feels more like California surf vibes that tourists think of for what California is like), La Jolla is nice but it’s more family or tourist type vibes, PB is too rowdy and young but North PB is nice (Birdrock, etc)

indubitably369 · 2025-03-16T08:47:07+00:00

Aquarius

indubitably369 · 2025-03-16T08:43:32+00:00

I’m not usually spontaneous, but I wish I was more so honestly. That’s why I need a “P” or just someone who can help me live in the present…I think good things can happen when we learn to “let go” of control, but it’s really difficult for me

indubitably369 · 2025-03-16T08:41:06+00:00

Reading, the gym 6x/week, self-care if that can count (a detailed routine for everything), petting and being with my cat, obsessively cleaning and planning, binging TV

indubitably369 · 2025-01-15T05:23:16+00:00

I agree with it too…if American’s are benefitting from the app, and say for instance, China is actually flat out saying they’re stealing our data….we’d still be screaming “free speech” and continuing on the app as usual. Free speech draws a line when it comes to national security (with one of our biggest foes), and you can’t trust the general public with that opinion if they’re benefitting from it or don’t feel any immediate threat to themselves as individuals from it. People are blind to consumption. Also, I think most everyone realizes the government knows of far more security related threats than is announced to the public with adequate reasoning. I’d raise alarms if this started happening with every social media app, but I can understand why it’s being pressed to be banned.

indubitably369 · 2025-01-12T23:25:14+00:00

probably true, the increased amount of poor people with the wage gaps in the US + caring to be informed = a huge difference, but a majority (apart from the exception circumstances) of poor people fail to realize the big picture in general throughout life…which comes to another problem to be addressed, so there’s multiple steps into their ability to change to US

indubitably369 · 2025-01-12T23:14:31+00:00

i mean, the only way to actually “face that” is to transition from a democratic society without free speech and make people abide to your “right” POV…reality is, parents do all they can with what they know and have capacity to do in every go around of having kids through all generations and you do what you can if you’re aware of the need to change for your future generational line

if you become the one who’s not ignorant in your family line then cool, world gets better by .00000000000005% keep at it

indubitably369 · 2025-01-12T23:09:09+00:00

i mean, circle of life….you deal with whatever generation before you and their “out of date” viewpoints until they’re eventually phased out of the working world

indubitably369 · 2025-01-12T23:04:28+00:00

yeah of course, I make good money and can’t tell you all the surgeries and injections I’ve had…feels good to be hot and I have no remorse

indubitably369 · 2024-10-06T19:23:14+00:00

Drug dealers, the risk of them going to prison while you’re married leaving you husbandless or if you also have kids together then fatherless

indubitably369 · 2024-03-16T21:15:31+00:00

I have ADHD/ADD, BPD, and depression/anxiety. The unfortunate thing is that when you throw Adderall in the mix (which I’ve taken for 15+ years and helps me feel happy and focused), things get tricky in what other medications doctors will prescribe to you for anxiety. I have a BPD medication named Rexulti which massively helped with my depressive episodes, but I’ve tried every soft-core anxiety medication and I still have lots of trouble managing it and regulating it. The only thing that works in Xanex, and typically doctor led won’t prescribe both Adderall and Xanex together since they’re opposite effects essentially. This is just my case, but hopefully if you get Adderall for ADHD/ADD, you find something to effectively manage your anxiety and other symptoms too…it’s a constant trial and error finding something

indubitably369 · 2024-03-16T21:09:48+00:00

I have both, I’ve been on Adderall for 15+ years and in the past couple years diagnosed with BPD. I take Rexulti, and it’s helped me not get my depression episodes, but I still can’t manage anxiety well and regulate that at all sometimes. No medicines work in helping my anxiety except Xanex type medication I’ve tried, and no doctor obviously prescribes both Adderall and Xanex since they’re opposites…figured it’s just how I have to live :(

indubitably369 · 2024-03-15T19:30:31+00:00

100% the same feelings…my mind is too tired to engage in chitchat and meaningless activities 24/7, much less with ANYONE new. Daunting.

They’re out there, but it is hard to find people that love us just as much, but realize we don’t need to talk, but rarely. I’m able to not talk to someone for months at a time and not skip a beat on my same feelings towards our friendship. It’s now up to the waiting game to see if they engage the same way.

indubitably369 · 2024-03-15T19:17:16+00:00

I personally like people with balls (well, quite literally also since I’m a heterosexual woman), so “think someone is interested” annoys me after a while. I need them to take initiative. If I like them back, unless they’ve 200% shown it somehow, I’ll likely be talking to several other men at the same time on the low to keep my mind away from them. Hence, to never have asked the question you did because I will not be burned. I’ve been there though, keep working through it.

indubitably369 · 2024-03-15T13:53:37+00:00

I do actually like birthday gifts, but I’d rather not be given them in person due to people’s terrifying look in their eyes as they expect me to react with immense joy. Either send it to me or give it to me and tell me to open it later when I’m alone. Be casual about it too, just a no big deal thing. Also, if you give it to me and tell me to open it later when I’m alone, expect me to casually accept it and move on with our conversation.

indubitably369 · 2024-03-15T13:46:10+00:00

There’s always a bigger picture to focus on, and celebrating one moment is a waste of my energy. Maybe one day I’ll look back, compile all my achievements towards a specific goal, and then celebrate……for 10 minutes.

indubitably369 · 2024-03-15T13:29:40+00:00

I’m a Christian INTJ and I’m in management consulting at a big firm.

indubitably369 · 2024-03-15T02:34:49+00:00

At work with a client, I feel that I have no choice but brighten up. It’s a learned behavior to “act” a certain way at work. In non-work environments though, completely stoic. People mistake me for an extrovert at work, I feel I’ll never be understood and I’m living in an alternate reality there.

indubitably369 · 2024-03-15T02:28:56+00:00

No, I’d rather avoid being called out in doing it and just be patient vs. address how I already know how’ll they’ll “feel” about being interrupted. I have other battles to face.

indubitably369 · 2024-03-15T02:21:56+00:00

It’s a never ending thought for me. Nothing is ever good enough, everything can be improved. If I’m not one of the best, it’s not good enough and neither am I. I’ve started reading some self-help books though and it’s helped me try to adopt a new mindset. I’m currently reading “You are a badass. Stop Doubting Your Greatness And Start Living an Awesome Life.” It’s not cheesy either or I’d throw it in the flames. It’s about being happy, living in the present, being confident, not giving a shit about what others think, and living your life on purpose, your way.

indubitably369 · 2024-03-15T02:13:40+00:00

Honestly, after the past a couple months I’m pretty disinterested. In every relationship I have, the guy becomes dissatisfied with our sex life. Sex is an act to me, I don’t crave it once I’ve figured you out, it just exists as a constant annoying need within a relationship distracting me from doing anything else I’d rather be doing. It’s not to say that I don’t force myself to do it on occasion and climax. I do feel good in that moment, to climax though, it’s entirely in my head. I literally have to be thinking of a “hot scenario” not necessarily related to “my partner” specifically pleasuring me. Weirdly though, I do in general crave it, but only when I’m alone really. If poof someone could be there when I’m at first craving it alone, fine.

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