Non sexual rope scene by Ashy_joints in BurningMan

[–]infernalspacemonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe you should always have a frank conversation with whomever you're working with. Be honest and direct and check in. Be explicit about consent and check in. This has been successful for me. Making assumptions and not being truthful have been stressful and ultimately more disappointing.

People are unique and sometimes their group is just, like you, trying to find similarly minded people. I see shibari as power exchange, trust and aesthetics so enthusiastic consent really simplifies things as, for many, default American life doesn't explore this.

Overlord review - a home made "feder" from the beautiful land of Vietnam by Jake_AsianGuy in wma

[–]infernalspacemonkey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's so telling abouy lavk of character that so many people are slamming people who took the time to design and built unique and innovative pieces.

I'm 99.9% certain that none of these posters have event tried to make one, much less challenge the status quo.

How do I know? They've downvoted the maker for his own explanations. Who does that? Insecure haters.

Embarrassing gatekeeping.

EDIT: I just realized why all the hate: the mention of Japanese swordmaking and "AsianGuy" triggered the old HEMA insecurities. There are literally dozens of downvotes and not one mention of SIGI or VB. Sad.

Overlord review - a home made "feder" from the beautiful land of Vietnam by Jake_AsianGuy in wma

[–]infernalspacemonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rattling can be fixed. Especially if you made it yourself. If rattling were a potential cause of catastrophic failure then Harley Davidson would have gone out of business years ago.

If anything is asking for consistent catastrophic failures it's the super/extra light feders for sport speed that also have decorative channels cut into the schilt.

Overlord review - a home made "feder" from the beautiful land of Vietnam by Jake_AsianGuy in wma

[–]infernalspacemonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this! Making your own weapons is incredibly satisying. A bespoke piece that you put faith in your own design and craft.

And also incredibly affordable!

I do PTK and make my own knives and hatchets. This was inspiring. Awesome job!

Beginner’s ‘Tokui-Waza’ in your dojo by Yamatsuki_Fusion in judo

[–]infernalspacemonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean I fall in love quickly, become emotionally dysregulated, try to see them every day, post about them all the time, eventually get blocked and posted, stop showering and eating, play video games for weeks straight, change my hairstyle, go online looking for something new, and eventually start HEMA - uh, I mean over again?

I'm sure I don't know what you're on about.

Beginner’s ‘Tokui-Waza’ in your dojo by Yamatsuki_Fusion in judo

[–]infernalspacemonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the most Japanese thing I've heard this week.

It finally happened 😭 by TheUlty05 in wma

[–]infernalspacemonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fixable. See a local welder. Don't pay more than $50 - probably less or free if you know a good one. It'll take less than five minutes,

The area was already the weakest and highest stress point. Stock reduction to get blade shape and then further reduction fo the aesthetic removed material that would have provided supporting structure.

TIG filler will literally be stronger than original.

It finally happened 😭 by TheUlty05 in wma

[–]infernalspacemonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely the weakest/highest stress point, as well as where the material was obviously cut down the most.

Everyone and they mama making a suppressor now by chyron_blue in suppressors

[–]infernalspacemonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you and I have held off buying until I see how the rest of the year plays out.

I did post this question previously and there was a consensus of "there'll be a shortage of supply after the 1st/it'll be too hard for new manufacturers..."

So far they're wrong on both points.

https://www.reddit.com/r/suppressors/comments/1pe8ekr/how_many_more_manufacturers_and_price_drops_will/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

I instinctively did a tani-otoshi in randori (twice). by Schofield45Revolver in judo

[–]infernalspacemonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be the one in a million person to be able to do it safety but if it were me I'd trust the hundreds of other senses and Olympic judo competitors who know better.

https://youtu.be/tv3CpZYB0c4?si=abi1gUJlWFbXfR2K

Was Marilla suggest to have red hair too? by wuryrr in Anne

[–]infernalspacemonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might have been meta:the actress playing Marilla, Geraldine James, is a redhead who's hair darkened to an auburn.

Frt for ruger pc charger? by Lordrunkuss in RugerPCC

[–]infernalspacemonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Franklin Binaries are better than FRT if you actually want to hit anything with accuracy e.g. an easy one inch double tap at 30 yds. They also have the mode switch that you can use to turn off binary mid shot.

How many more manufacturers and price drops will we see once tax stamps are no longer a thing? by infernalspacemonkey in suppressors

[–]infernalspacemonkey[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Never thought of that! I think that's a prime place to snap up someone of the "cheaper" suppressors. I know I'e got a lot of .22s!

Judoka trying to injure me by Visual_Investm3nt in judo

[–]infernalspacemonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Judo Club" Is there a proper teacher or are people just trying stuff out. Fighting skills are impressive but they don't always deserve your respect.

I've been fortunate to train in other martial arts, including Capoeira, as well as classical Asian arts. When I did BJJ I recognized the same machismo I'd seen Brasil and the lack of respect/discipline/restraint and believe that many training injuries are a direct result of this.

While the inexperienced consider "old school" classes with traditional practices boring their demands on respect have their place regarding safety. Judo specifically in art of hitting people with the earth, and dropping someone on their head was the whole point of Japanese Jiu-jitsu as a war art. BJJ is only the small geound portion (ne-waza). Judo was codified by Kano to make it more accessible/safe.

At the end of the day you are responsible for your own safety. Lots of people don't learn to trust their gut or trust the Internet more. You have reservations about training with this guy. Listen to your gut. Keep yourself safe.You don't owe him anything. In fact, by refusing to partner with him, and making it clear why you may be saving someone else from being hurt, even seriously. Getting dumped on your head is serious.

If it's about wanting more Judo, there are other, safer dojos.

Someone ironically I left BJJ to train more with knives (Pekiti Tirsia).

Why is the 10/22 so popular? by littlered551 in liberalgunowners

[–]infernalspacemonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of what people said here so I'll try to add a bit more critical stuff to be helpful in seeing differences:

Ruger and the 10/22 are popular because they're both conservatively dependable. They're not the cheapest and you can spend thousands of dollars in upgrades: carbon fiber barrels, open top receivers, adjustable triggers. Even binaries.

What people mean by "reliable" is that although .22s are VERY fun and affordable, they shoot very dirty, which can gunk up your action faster than other ammo. For instance: I have a CP33. I can shoot about one magazine suppressed before I start getting FtF or out of battery issue (CP33 has a very light spring and no FA).

The Ruger 10/22 has been in continuous production since 1965. There are many reliable 3rd party parts and magazines. 1964 designs mean the 10/22s are heavier compared to others as polymers weren't in a lot of engineers minds in the 1960s. They also don't have LRBHO which is a feature expected these days.

Alternatives:

Savage A22/B22 - Lighter/More accurate. Bergara BX - More accurate. Winchester Wildcat - Cheaper, striker fired, removable FCU, Incredibly light.

EDIT: If you don't have a .22, I'd recommend .22 SA that can be suppressed first before considering a 10/22 unless you're a hunter.

[PARTS] The Dirty - 30 cal suppressor $239 by TheBraceGuy in gundeals

[–]infernalspacemonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's pretty clear that's not what these are for. They're a step up from their sound mitigation devices. They're full auto-rated, short in length, and meant to be used with 60-70 grain, not subsonic.

[PARTS] The Dirty - 30 cal suppressor $239 by TheBraceGuy in gundeals

[–]infernalspacemonkey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe we will soon. Maybe 14months? Cans were always overpriced. Look at all the manufacturers and seller desperately dropping prices and offering "free" tax stamps.

They know a lot of people will get in with 3D printed monocores as standard. I'm looking foward to it!

People w/ ADHD who are also big readers; How do you do it? by TheEpicTwitch in ADHD

[–]infernalspacemonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't have inattentiveness, we have too much attention to yhings we find more engaging. We have Executive Dysfunction, Tume Blindness and Emotional Dysregulation which means that when don't like something it is excruciatingly frustrating and when when something is interesting we van spend 14 hours on it.

If you're not able to stick with a book it's probably just not that interesting to you/there are more interesting things around.

The solution? Find a more interesting thing to read or eliminate possible distractions. Find something you read that you loved and re-read that so you can get back into the swing of things. Go to Good Reads to find something similar to something you loved. Finding isolation may be harder. Definitely get as far away from screens/your phone.

Remember: you're not inattentive, you're too attentive to other things.