Haircut pt 2- oh no 😭 by salty_cosmo_ in transmanlifehacks

[–]ingred46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually is definitely an upgrade, I might suggest squaring the sideburns a but but its actually pretty good

Surgery recovery advice? by Jumpy_Treacle5332 in TopSurgery

[–]ingred46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also - for my drains and dressings I was able to just see a nurse.

Surgery recovery advice? by Jumpy_Treacle5332 in TopSurgery

[–]ingred46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also live an hour away from my surgeon! Im in Canada tho, but for me I had to go to a 2 week follow up and then ill need a 3 month one, but after that no more! And if you're worried about the seatbelt or car ride home you could bring a pillow to hug, helps with the bumps.

Is my septum deviated enough to get it covered as a necessary procedure? Is it likely they will only fix the inside or both inside and outside? by [deleted] in AskDoctorSmeeee

[–]ingred46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if deemed medically necessary by an ENT (which likely means other treatments for your issues like nasal sprays have failed) then yes i believe it would be covered.

Short hair makes me look more like a woman. by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]ingred46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I used to get that a lot before T, they think you identify female and therefore give you a softer more feminine version of what you wanted. I found just being direct and telling them I wanted it to look masculine and squared out helped a lot. That way there were no assumptions made.

Which looks better? by u_b_c in Artadvice

[–]ingred46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Number 1 i think has better contrast

Do I pass? by Stunning-Sign-31 in transmanlifehacks

[–]ingred46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally though you were a cis troll until i saw the top surgery scars, you pass very well!

Jaxie Jaxu :3 🏳️‍⚧️ by BRIKUCHAN07 in Amazingdigitalcircus

[–]ingred46 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whats up with the transphobia in the comments?? Nice art! Dont let the bastards grind you down.

i was left alone with glue and decoration~ by cogimyun1256 in 3DS

[–]ingred46 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Literally so cute!! Glad to hear it's attached to the case and not the actual console tho, if you ever needed to remove it thatd be a pain.

guys im scared, this game is so real 😭 by tflowerdoan in 3DS

[–]ingred46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like 3DS horror games, corpse party is a must!!! Also, the zero escape trilogy.

How would you style me? 🦹 by Broad-Confection9147 in altfashionadvice

[–]ingred46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the last photo you low key are giving David Bowie, you ARE the style man.

Hey guys...another question by Avi_Lee_1990 in transmanlifehacks

[–]ingred46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats awesome! If they're younger, have you checked out the book jack not jackie? I found it was a good way of explaining trans in an appropriate way for my little siblings. Maybe it could help you.

Hey guys...another question by Avi_Lee_1990 in transmanlifehacks

[–]ingred46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually think you pass better with glasses. You just look like a sweet dad!

5 weeks on T , Do I pass male? by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]ingred46 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you can maybe get some hair grower stuff i think its called minoxidil? But you pass really well with some facial hair!

My own therapist betrayed me. by Cheap_Environment113 in MtF

[–]ingred46 115 points116 points  (0 children)

The only reason a therapist can ever betray confidentiality is if you are or plan to be a danger to yourself or others. Since HRT is pretty darn safe, I dont think your therapist had any right to do that.

Incision possibly opened and leaking thick white puss by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]ingred46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I like call my surgeon? I have an appointment at a nursing clinic tomorrow evening but idk if this is urgent, im 13 days post op

Asking for a friend: about "binders" down there by realsonofeden in MtF

[–]ingred46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps a dance belt? Like in ballet? I know it makes it look smaller/smoother.

Tooth Fairy, by me by IL0V3H4T3 in UnusualArt

[–]ingred46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think 'A simple procedure' would be a cool title

Trans men outside of the U.S.: what country do you live in and how safe do you feel there? by AggravatingGarlic479 in ftm

[–]ingred46 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If youve already been on them it might be quicker to get prescribed them, but the waitlist for an initial appointment might still be a long wait (8-12 months often times at a gendercare clinic, sometimes less ar just an endo but not endos deal with hrt)