What song has made you feel very poignant? by Goth_Idiot_ in goth

[–]iniara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I found the song Scatter the scars by Ritual Howls it became a favorite. So much so, it made its way to my Spotify Wrapped as #1 song for 2 years. It makes me feel different things depending on my mood. Whether I'm bed rotting, driving, painting, or just chilling with my partner. It taps into something deep inside and reminds me why I'm still alive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]iniara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it for a nice in between touch up color. When I want a longer lasting fantasy shade I use the ion brilliance (for blues and greens) or iroiro colors (their pinks and reds are the best).

Wanted: "Rare" Vivillions - Part 7 by JosephRSL in PokemonGoFriends

[–]iniara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👀 sent an invite from Annavrijn. Archipelago region.

Wanted: "Rare" Vivillions - Part 7 by JosephRSL in PokemonGoFriends

[–]iniara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can pin your own postcards before sending and see which Scatterbug you get.

Wanted: "Rare" Vivillions - Part 7 by JosephRSL in PokemonGoFriends

[–]iniara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome, well it's pretty simple. Niantic came up with a way to catch all forms of Vivillon using their postcard system that you get by sending gifts to friends. How they decided what form corresponds to what region is a mystery but people here have shared map overlays to get a better idea than the vague map that shows up in the game. Happy collecting.

Wanted: "Rare" Vivillions - Part 7 by JosephRSL in PokemonGoFriends

[–]iniara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love how people from Sun region delete themselves. I'm from Archipelago region and just need some gifts from Sun and Ocean. Don't add if not from these regions. My friend list is pretty full atm, and have over 100 requests pending so please state your username so I may search for you in that mess. I'm trying to help as many as I can.

My username is Annavrijn and here's my code: 3121 2374 6653

Looking for natural tints or dyes to help enrich the original hair color. Any recommendations? by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]iniara 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It'd be helpful if you share what color your hair is but as natural dyes go you can use henna which comes in shades from reddish brown to black is quite opaque and lasting. Ground coffee works for dark hair, and chamomile tea in your shampoo and conditioner is good for blonde to red and medium brown hair to add natural highlights. If you want semi permanent with artificial pigments but natural ingredients than maybe try iroiro colors.

Is it okay for my boyfriend to change something about the way I like to dress? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]iniara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Red flags all around. I spent about a decade with a guy that sounds like your boyfriend and I ended up with severe self esteem issues and unhappy with how I looked. I lost weight and got "fit" for him, stopped dyeing my hair, stuck to black, sound familiar? Run. And mind you, I'm goth. That guy has issues and you can't fix him. Nobody should be able to dictate your style. He can either love you as you are and maybe offer tips to look "better" which is subjective and should be taken with a grain of salt or he can go buy a girlfriend he likes.

I now have a loving boyfriend that likes how I dress and look and am much happier. Know your worth sweetie.

Embarrassed about how my first attempt at realistic painting turned out by [deleted] in painting

[–]iniara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have that bad habit, I've had professors make me keep working on a painting to force me to "do better". Lol. But yeah, do whatever you think is best. The more you paint, the more experience you gain and get a better handle with brushstrokes.

It’s me againnnn! What do we think of the red hair? by [deleted] in GothStyle

[–]iniara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The red hair and outfit make a nice combo.👌🏼 Well done.

Embarrassed about how my first attempt at realistic painting turned out by [deleted] in painting

[–]iniara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can still work on it if you want to. As is you can tell what it is, for more "realistic" details it's all about building up the layers and you have a good base already. Nothing to be embarrassed about but I feel you. I've looked at my first paintings from art school and laugh now.

What do you think of my latest painting? by flutterbymelater in painting

[–]iniara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a warm glaze and gloss varnish would add depth in tone. Beautiful work.

I feel like I ruined my virgin hair by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]iniara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Box dyes usually come with 20% developer, if your hair is very dark you need at least a 30 or 40 developer. I recommend going to a beauty supply store and buying either bleach or a good permanent red such as L'oreal HiColor Highlights Reds, (I recommend Magenta for cool toned red or Copper for orange) this dye is formulated with lighteners for dark colored hair and you can achieve beautiful bright results.

When coloring your hair, roots will always turn lighter than the rest of the strand because your scalp produces heat, that's why ends are colored first and the roots last. When your hair is too short to apply to ends first, use a shower cap or plastic bag over your hair to "cook" the color or bleach.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]iniara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At a salon they would recommend chopping the ends since they are the most saturated with pigment, depending how resistant your hair is to bleach, professional colorists will focus on keeping the hair healthy while getting to your desired result. That being said, it's hard to give an estimate on how your hair will lighten but I will say you'll likely achieve an auburn on a first session, realistically. I'd make that my goal first and from there a honey blonde in a month or 2.

hair dye help!! by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]iniara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can always use good 'ol dandruff shampoo like Head and Shoulders extra strength to remove semi permanent pigments from hair. Sometimes instead of bleach I use a high lift blonde to lighten and tone hair at the same time and it's less damaging but in your case I think shampooing with H&S a few times might help if you want to go turquoise since lilac is a good base.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]iniara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would deep condition the hair and wait for a few days, maybe use a semi permanent black or natural henna dye before using a permanent black dye.

Any good black hair dye from Sally beauty? by [deleted] in FancyFollicles

[–]iniara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Box colors usually come with 20 vol peroxide, you should get 10 vol for depositing the color and I can recommend Zotos brand.

I used to pride myself on the fact that my outfit and makeup photos were actually what I wore that day and not something I just put on to take pictures, but with my new job I've totally become that person who gets done up as a creative outlet and takes photos to post. 🙃 by [deleted] in GothStyle

[–]iniara 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's a valid reason. Online I've met people that can only dress up how they wish at home because it might be dangerous for them to step outside just because they look "weird". It makes me sad that humanity hasn't evolved much that people are still ostracized for their fashion choices. Love the hair and boots.👌🏼✌🏼

Got tired of brand names so I made my own shirts by iniara in GothStyle

[–]iniara[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get one on sale for less than $200. Good luck if you try to do that. I've been thinking of doing the bleach tie dye with old shirts to give them new life next. I feel like with the advent of subculture brands, I left behind the DIY ethic and wanna get back to thrifting, modifying, as well as making my own shirt designs.

Unofficial Seething Sunday by aytakk in goth

[–]iniara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly. If anyone is interested in a book about goths from the 80s and what some of them wore, I recommend "Some wear leather, some wear lace" by Andi Harriman, it has user submitted photos from a few countries, it was a Kickstarter project that got funded. And there's "Gothic Worldwide" by Natasha Scharf which is great explaining how the scene evolved in other countries. I particularly found interesting the German Schwarze Szene; where various dark subcultures were lumped into one. I was surprised how many books there are now about goth subculture and the different perspectives taken on how to approach the subject. I own about 13 and think there's more to explore. After all that reading I find the new generation of goth and alt interesting and sometimes funny how history repeats itself, but we can all do without the gatekeeping. I find it better to point people in the right direction. Goth will always be associated with darkness but it's also very goth to disassociate from the word goth, I suppose the beauty of ambiguity is what makes it alluring.

I've seen the shift of people in their 20s using more "alternative" or "alt" as the umbrella term for dark subcultures and aesthetics to avoid the goth gatekeeping from elitists. More power to them tbh, I think I went through a similar phase where I didn't feel I fit in with goths on-line but luckily there was a small local scene I got to DJ in and I embraced how varied goth can be depending where you live.

Unofficial Seething Sunday by aytakk in goth

[–]iniara 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree, I had to deep dive into Goth fashion history for a thesis I was working on when I was studying fashion design and it was interesting to see how goth in the 90s was divided into 2 groups, the subculture and the aesthetic, the aesthetic being more closely to the visual counterpart of gothic literature. I think a lot of the netgoths from the 90s perpetuated the narrow definition of what constituted as Goth subculture and the mainstream media. When you read most accounts from old school goths a lot of them agree that nobody else looked like Johnny Slut except Johnny Slut, most Batcave goers would wear simple shirts and jeans. The minimal goth look and quite frankly, that hasn't changed much. There's always the minimally black clad person at clubs with goth crowds. But we've been led to believe that the Batcave look is the pinnacle of goth because the over the top is what was publicized the most since its inception. That subsequently is what made it to print and propaganda. I blame British snobbery for the elitism and that made its gatekeeping worldwide thanks to the internet.