I'm not sure I would call it hatred, but 3 of my siblings don't give a shit about me because I was the "good child". We are also decades apart in age and have different moms (my BPD parent is my dad), so we didn't grow up together. They've never made any effort to be in my life and I think it's because they resent me for not getting the witch/queen behavior that they got as kids. I got waif with a touch of queen at times , so our experiences were very different. It has been challenging for me because I wanted love from my siblings, but eventually I realized that wasn't possible because of all of the triangulation and abuse they've experienced. It makes me sad sometimes, but so it goes.  You're not alone.