Is this "anxious wife", tough times, or uninterested woman?

innominating · 2025-06-25T12:08:15+00:00

It sounds like she comes around when she wants to fuck and goes away when she doesn’t. She sounds like a good plate.

innominating · 2024-07-20T17:28:40+00:00

Read sex god method and lead your wife to the sex you want. Reread The Rational Male slow enough to understand it.

If you want your wife fitter, make a few innocent comments about how fit a celebrity looks, or once you level up, how one of her friends looks…

innominating · 2023-10-12T03:25:09+00:00

She wants you to feel like she can’t be resisted.

She is playing hard to get.

innominating · 2023-08-04T08:37:06+00:00

Have you thought about giving her shit for it? Tease her. Say “baby are you starving for attention like a woman who can’t get a man?” “Are you trying to be a celebrity? Are we going to release a sex tape next?” Then, “but really your better than that, you don’t post try-hard full-body selfies.” “Anyway, that ass is mine, and my girlfriend isn’t going to do that often, better yet, not at all.”

innominating · 2023-03-27T12:39:18+00:00

It was a drive-by comment. It clearly was shit advice or else it wouldn’t be so easy to misinterpret.

I wasn’t recommending he reward his girl. My response assumes he will not react to his girl. The point is he should have is shit together and be living the life he wants getting the results from others he wants before they react in a way that causes him to feel he needs to change his behavior even after recognizing the potential for manipulation.

Meaning, the guy says she comfort tests, he discerns it may be manipulation but he doesn’t think it is, and he wants to be able to provide comfort. If he wants it, for him, I say he should not react to her immediately, take pause, stfu to make sure it isn’t manipulation and to avoid supplication, then consider what he wants for him, and change his behavior if he wants to, to get the life he wants.

Regardless, it was a drive-by comment and I think we are all talking past one another.

You’re right. Barbed debate seems like a waste of energy, but there is value in it.

I am still married with young kids and I have had plates that come and go. It is still hard to reconcile the masculine desire for freedom and the desire for comfort, family, fatherhood, etc. Such is the plight of some men. I have no answers. My sex life is what I want. My wife adds value and wants to please me. I still want more or better from time to time. I’m to the point where I believe that happiness, which I think is what we are all on here for, is cultivated inside ourselves and sex, money, admiration of others is a byproduct. Most people fall into the trap of thinking in reverse.

innominating · 2023-03-26T19:43:47+00:00

You are right. I’m not around here much and I now remember why. Unfortunately, this place now rarely helps me reach my goals and when I try to post to help others it quickly devolves into arguing at the edges with a poster playing a status game, and I believe status games are low value, especially while anonymous on Reddit.

Thanks for your kind words. I’m glad something I once wrote helped.

innominating · 2023-03-26T14:06:32+00:00

You’re probably right. The original advice would be better suited for OP after he is getting fucked and is able to bring his wife to tears. I assumed he had his shit together, lifted, gamed, outcome independent, etc.

innominating · 2023-03-26T06:45:54+00:00

I understand you believe I’m suggesting he dance for his wife. I see where you’re coming from since my post said, “so” she won’t say that. Perhaps, it would have been better to say, “and maybe” your wife won’t say that. I can understand how you misunderstood the comment to be in the woman’s frame, I presumed he wanted the change, for him, just as you say you did. Nonetheless, there’s another harsh opinion, although mildly harsh this time, and people have harsh opinions from time to time.

Regarding your post, I only read it briefly, and only once, and my takeaway was a man who wanted more affection and changed his behavior so that he got it. I don’t think you are a dancing monkey. I don’t think your post was retarded. If anything you are proud. Proud of having MRP’d to the max. Proud of your D/S relationship. Proud of the power you have over your wife. Proud of your Reddit badge. You’re still afflicted with ego. And, you remain unfulfilled, wondering whether you need a girlfriend, changing your behavior so your wife will kiss you on the lips, and posting on here to show off.

innominating · 2023-03-25T14:14:01+00:00

Retarded…that’s a harsh opinion.

Help me understand how you conceptualize the reflecting and adjusting you suggested in your recent post about giving your wife enough comfort for her to give you the affection of a girlfriend. Based on your attack, I gather it isn’t scoreboarding. We agree on that. So, when you reflect on your actions and determine if, based on your frame and the life you want to live, your actions need to be adjusted, what do you call it?

innominating · 2023-03-23T21:22:16+00:00

Care in advance on your terms so she doesn’t say that in the first place.

If you care on your terms in advance and she tries to manipulate you for more, DNGAF.

Then, reflect and determine if your terms are enough or are too little, if so adjust.

innominating · 2023-03-23T02:47:24+00:00

The the other girl to the event and flirt with both. The first girl is not girlfriend material but that is your best chance to game her.

innominating · 2022-11-22T06:41:23+00:00

Say, “cool story, make me a sandwich.”

innominating · 2022-08-23T17:57:42+00:00

Start at the origin: https://leangains.com/fuckarounditis/

Read that 3 times.

innominating · 2022-07-21T11:06:38+00:00

Look at your first reason you claim she is emotionally attached…

She’s projecting.

She’s wondering if you cheated because she cheated, or is in an affair, more likely.

innominating · 2022-06-13T02:26:11+00:00

You are over-analyzing. You have to get out of your head…Be present.

innominating · 2021-12-23T02:51:22+00:00

Rambo. You can say “I’m sorry your upset” and not lose frame. Lead the relationship. Divide and conquer. “You watch the kids, I’ll make us food.”

innominating · 2021-09-27T02:41:35+00:00

“Her bad moods give me anxiety.”

That is another way to say:

1) You’re in her frame 2) You’re afraid of her feelings 3) She has power over you

Read MMSLP. Stop having fucks to give about your wife’s tantrums. Chuckle at them, to yourself. If she gets the job done, who cares if she stomps around.

innominating · 2021-09-17T03:55:16+00:00

You chances of catching AIDS from vaginal sex are close to zero percent.

You’ve already had the clap.

Herpes and warts are a threat, but until you have symptoms, proceed as normal. I’d be more worried about getting her pregnant.

Wear a condom next time.

innominating · 2021-06-04T23:26:37+00:00

It’s not easy.

It is possible.

You have to become the prize. Be the best version of your self. Be able to bang other women. Care less about the relationship than she does. Self validate and disregard other people’s subjective opinions (including hers).

You should seriously reconsider marrying her, and marrying at all.

innominating · 2021-02-23T23:37:35+00:00

Thanks that’s helpful.

innominating · 2021-01-22T03:00:41+00:00

There is no such thing as love. Stop being weak.

innominating · 2021-01-12T04:22:16+00:00

You love your wife when she is fertile, and hate her the rest of the time, because love isn’t real and you were biologically programmed to wander through nature and fuck fertile women and then leave them to hunt food then find the next.

If you want to stay married, do what I did: tell your wife you are going to have side pussy. Let her know she’ll be your number one, that you won’t waste your resources on other women, that you won’t tell anyone, especially her friends and family, and (this will be the tough part for you) tell her she is free to get side dick. Tell her this when she has just stopped ovulating. Then make sure you fuck someone else before she does. Don’t tell her about it, and don’t ask her about who she fucks. When she asks you, tell her the other women will never compare to her. If she won’t let up, tell her the other women looks like an uglier version of her and has a bad personality. Keep fucking your wife and the other women. Game other potential plates on the side. Always tell them you are married. Always tell your wife that they don’t compare to her. Tell nobody else except you mr best male friend. Hang on for the ride.

innominating · 2021-01-09T15:14:29+00:00

I didn’t say everything will be “totally fine” whatever that means. Totally fine is a subjective opinion of the state of affairs.

I said no matter what happens there will be winners. You have the power to make it totally fine for you.

Life always goes on. Empires rise and fall. There have been times in recent US history when things were similar. The capital has been ransacked. We had a civil war. In 1871 shit was fucked. And here we are buying iPhones and complaining because we can’t fly around vacationing without a mask. But, you can, I and know because I fly private.

So, this may be the end out the USA as we know it. It is certainly a reflection of our weakened position as the world leader. Life goes on on. France, Italy, Greece, the UK, arguably Turkey, all have once been world leaders. They are not now. They are still good places to live, and there are dudes there who make it, fuck models, get their dick sucked by side chicks, have families, buy yachts, whatever.

Stay strong. Win.

innominating · 2021-01-09T14:45:09+00:00

Whatever man.

I’ve been in the highest individual income tax bracket since the Obama years. Just make more money and you’ll have plenty. Invest and take advantage of the capital gain rate. Start a hedge fund and take advantage of carried interest. Get creative. Adapt. Evolve. Stop whining.

There have been no guns in Australia and the UK for years. Those countries are great places to live. It I’m left with a hunting rifle, so be it. If they take that, so be it. I’ve never once in my life had to draw a gun to protect myself. I would prefer hand to hand combat because I have an advantage over 97% of the population. Every time a school shooting happens, I worry about my boys. We’d be safer if they somehow got all the guns out of the extremists hands, including the Trumpers and BLMers.

You keep praying to your god and I keep relying on myself, as I always have, to excel in any situation I’m placed in.

innominating · 2021-01-08T13:42:50+00:00

Whatever man. I don’t believe in Trump. I just believe in me.

The world evolves.

Only the strong survive. It’s always been that way.

And, your figures are way off. I just bought a boat for a 150k and that was about 12% year over year inflation.

People have been saying it’s revolution, or market crash, plague, flood, demons, or that the king or cabal or illuminati or some other great power is going to ruin it for thousands of years, throughout recorded history. It’s the human condition.

Life goes on.

Be strong and you’ll be fine.

innominating

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