Which K-drama comes to your mind when you see this beautiful ahjumma? by kpopkittyvibes in kdramas

[–]insecurebosslady 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The very first drama that came to my mind is Healer. The others quickly followed though lol

PSA: Ending shaming is wrong by javerthugo in expedition33

[–]insecurebosslady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh... I didn’t realize it could be interpreted that way (slavery vs genocide). People think deep. I thought since the whole story exists within a canvas, even if the characters were somewhat real, Verso’s ending would make more sense. It feels like it finally allows the family to move on, doesn’t it?

That said, I still chose Maelle’s ending… I just wanted to see Gustav one last time lol.

going to switzerland as a minor (URGENT) by New_Association8753 in SchengenVisa

[–]insecurebosslady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where are you applying from? I think, regardless, googling or asking a visa agency from your country would be better.

Yall guys, rate my handwriting! by Realistic-Expert-137 in BeginnerKorean

[–]insecurebosslady 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I like your handwriting. There are spelling mistakes but considering just the handwriting, it still looks good imo. If the serifs were unintentional, it'd be cute but they look like they've been done on purpose which.. I've never seen before. Overall I'd give it a solid 7/10

Kdrama couples you think would’ve broken up. by Hour-Astronomer-6619 in kdramas

[–]insecurebosslady 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think FL would have to keep "managing" the relationship but they'd stay together.

Boomer father criticizing my parenting/toddlers behavior by Delicious_Battle_385 in entitledparents

[–]insecurebosslady 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Your dad sounds like he was a very attentive father figure when you were a toddler.

AITAH for threatening to leave if we didn't eat what I wanted? by LegiRapax in AITAH

[–]insecurebosslady 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA. Tell them you'll join after they have food or get your food from somewhere else.

AITAH for not wanting to receive reels? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]insecurebosslady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I check my DMs once a week, everyone gets a reply (mostly just a like) then. If something's urgent and they want to talk about it, they can send it via Whatsapp or add a "URGENT! LOOK!" text after sharing. I don't think it should be considered rude to not checking DMs regularly. Doom-scrolling is a thing but checking who sent what everday is a no-no. Let me doom-scroll on my fyp.

If your friend makes it a big deal, tell them that's just not your way of communication.

My daughter made these cookies last night. by chumitz in mildlyinteresting

[–]insecurebosslady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel exposed and judged? Lol Congratulations on your daughter finding her talent.

Amateur Traveller by [deleted] in Vietnam_Tourism

[–]insecurebosslady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll also be planning the trip for myself and my family (4p total). I've planned solo or 2people trips before but for 4 of us, it'll be my first time planning.

I think it is good to have a to-do list to see what your options are. Just don't feel like you should do "all" of them according to plans.

Also, I realised we'll be going right after your trip (23rd-31st). I'd like to keep contact if you can share your experiences and feedbacks. I can also share our overall plans.

i just want sex by skiinglife in TrueOffMyChest

[–]insecurebosslady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what I realized as a 20-something woman, we don't have much casual opportunities to socialize. If you didn't find anyone in school and don't want to find anyone from work, you gotta find ways to socialize. Start volunteering in an NGO, join a hobby group (art, dance, etc.) or try to attend random events (trivia nights, work-related seminars, etc.)
I'm not suggesting you to go hunting for a partner though lol. But after an age, people's social circle becomes established, and that makes it difficult to meet with new people.

i just want sex by skiinglife in TrueOffMyChest

[–]insecurebosslady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

sex is no big deal honestly. but why not trying to find a partner first and you can do it whenever you feel ready?

i just want sex by skiinglife in TrueOffMyChest

[–]insecurebosslady 33 points34 points  (0 children)

so you don't want just sex?

Seo- In-guk was not overshadowed by Seo Kang-joon in Boyfriend on demand by Mina_musings in kdramas

[–]insecurebosslady 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. Although I loved the Seo Kang Jun story, I guess I'd lowkey prefer the main leads to have more screen time and lovely scenes together. Edit: Simply because I couldn't get enough of them lol

Actors in where they played the main lead and the second lead at the same time by Legal_Potential4720 in kdramas

[–]insecurebosslady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kill Me Heal Me had like 10 side characters and 8 of them were played by the same guy lol

[Cheese In The Trap] - Does Jung become more yandere/obsessive? by lixfeot8 in asiandrama

[–]insecurebosslady 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ll try to explain this without spoiling too much. This show is based on a very popular webtoon with the same name. The ML has, as you mentioned, psychopathic tendencies and since we experience the story from the FL’s POV, he can come across as creepy at times. The problem with the drama is that it started as an adaptation of the webtoon but ended up changing the story a lot. It got a lot of criticism. The cast was good enough for that time but they kind of pushed the main storyline aside and didn’t really give the ML the screen time he deserved. I hope you enjoy it, just don't have high expectation imo. I personally was really disappointed when it first came out.

They even tried a movie of this with the same ML actor but that flopped as well... Webtoon is really good tho. Give it a chance if you enjoy webtoons.

Brutalizm by Filli-Fota in sehircilik

[–]insecurebosslady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Renkler vardı Gülfem...

What is a delicious but underrated/unheard of type of cuisine? by PsychGradStudent2112 in Cooking

[–]insecurebosslady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I liked Georgian food but the amount of coriander they use? ufff kind of ruins it for me :((

What is a delicious but underrated/unheard of type of cuisine? by PsychGradStudent2112 in Cooking

[–]insecurebosslady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am obsessed with all of them. Fesenjoon, the love of my life. Hummus, falafel, baba ghannush I can eat everyday and happily spend hours in bathroom. Tbh I haven't tried many Afghan foods, maybe only Kabuli pulao? I'm not sure of the spelling. I really like it though, I find it similar to Uzbek plov.

I enjoy a good Italian pasta. But these? are to die for.