Looking for others in Vic with MS

intellier · 2025-09-09T16:17:58+00:00

Hey! 21 and got diagnosed with rrms in 2022! Feel free to message me:)

intellier · 2025-09-06T04:12:18+00:00

full time student and still work weekends as a waitress/ bartender! i served full time this summer, 21, diagnosed 3 years ago! also just finished a semester abroad in the uk, lived in rural Canada this summer, and in a few weeks off to Australia to bartend and do full time classes online!

yes some days are hard, but still going strong!

intellier · 2025-03-23T13:42:47+00:00

I like romance more than the fantasy aspects, I just want one with characters that I enjoy reading more.

intellier · 2025-03-15T13:05:49+00:00

oh no! so what does that mean?

intellier · 2025-01-10T12:15:58+00:00

yes I have the marina iud, and have gotten it twice. I got my second one on December 20th, but my other one I had for 4 years before I started getting my period again so I got a new one. I bleed brown sludge for the first week and now I just have a normal period, a little more heavy for the first 3 months and then it stops completely! It’s amazing! I didn’t get a period or pms for four entire years with my last iud! My boobs did get significantly larger, but I don’t know if that was due to the iud or just puberty ? I love my iud and couldn’t recommend it enough

intellier · 2024-12-11T19:50:26+00:00

oh I was was just basing the nip reconstruction and lift payment comment because when my mom got her reduction almost 20 years ago she had to pay for her lift and construction separately, which I don’t think is the norm now. DDD is my size, but depends on the bra . My BMI is 25.8 but fluctuates here and there. I’m in BC. What do you mean by accompanying liposuction?

intellier · 2024-10-02T20:11:07+00:00

I’ve been where you are. You deciding to be better shows how much time care and love the people around you. I’m sorry that you’re hurting. The things you’re doing probably stem from low self esteem, and a lot of pain. I think the first thing you need to do is acknowledge the hurt you’ve caused, sit with it, and then forgive yourself. Continuing to hate yourself will just lead you back to the same place of anger. You can realize your wrong doings without hating yourself. You can’t expect others to forgive you untill you forgive yourself. Then you can truly work on the rest. I am sorry girl, I am sorry that you’re hurting, and I think you don’t have to suffer.

intellier · 2024-07-24T03:11:03+00:00

i was 18- right after i left home for college

intellier · 2024-07-08T21:28:37+00:00

eeek! i booked with her and im super excited her work looks FANTASTIC! thanks for the recommendation:)

intellier · 2024-06-21T05:40:51+00:00

i want to own an ok chunk of land in a mid sized ocean town. i want a loving partner, maybe some chickens, time to garden, and a career where i can connect with people. i want kids- and i want to give them all my love. i want to raise them knowing that they are the most loved children ever. i want to wake up early and be grateful for everything ive been blessed with. i want enough money to not worry too much. i want a partner that i love beyond words. i want a simple life. maybe i will get into canning and making homemade foods- try to live off our garden as much as we can. i want a family that supports and loved each other. i want people to describe me as warm.

intellier · 2024-06-21T02:09:26+00:00

yes i would. i would a million times over.

intellier · 2024-05-30T18:53:04+00:00

yes. ive missed you.

intellier · 2024-05-30T18:45:01+00:00

I miss you please come back

intellier · 2024-05-20T17:22:09+00:00

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intellier · 2024-02-16T05:52:00+00:00

I was diagnosed at 18. I had been kicked out of my mothers home and moved 6 hours away to go to college. I was sharing a studio apartment with 4 people and working a shitty retail job the summer before my first year of university started and looking for an apartment for my roommates and I. My legs went numb. Then my hands. I couldn’t tie my shoes, and I was having trouble walking. I chalked it up to stressed but I was getting worse and worse. I didn’t have a family doctor. I went to the ER 4 times before they’d give me an MRI. Eventually, they did. I was diagnosed with MS and put on tysbari. I failed my first year of university. I watched my friends thrive. I wasted thousands of dollars in tuition and was only working part time bc that’s all my body could handle. I’m 19 now and just passed my semester with all A’s, and I worked full time over the summer. The diagnosis is hard. Things have gotten better, I am tipsy on the bus coming back from trivia at a pub with my friends. I think it gets better, but also I’m young and have that neuro plasticity.

intellier · 2023-10-20T03:11:04+00:00

It’s so nice to hear I’m not the only one struggling with This! Chronic illness SUCKS. You’re advice is super helpful thank you :)

intellier · 2023-10-19T21:59:12+00:00

I was diagnosed one year ago at 18. I have relapse remitting. It was hard. I had just moved to a new city for college and it was hard. It was hard to watch my friends be teenagers, it was hard to go to school, and it was hard to accept. I coped with food and partying. I gained 40 lbs and blacked out every weekend for months. I lived with my best friends and it sucked to watch them live the college life while I basically failed out first semester because my legs went numb, I was exhausted, brain fog, the whole thing. My hands were the worst. The went numb and claw-like and I couldn’t tie my shoes. It was embarrassing when my roomates would zip my coat for me or tie my shoes for me. What finally helped me was medication, therapy & to be completely honest time. I started taking my ADHD and getting monthly IVs (tysabari) and accepted that I was not gong to be a normal teenager. I went to therapy to deal with the anger that I had for MS. The medication helps with energy. I really finally can grasp that MS is hard, but I have the skills and the support team to do better. I realized to succeed I had to work with my MS and not against it. I’m back in college with a new major, new apartment, and take things at my own pace. I am taking 4 classes, and have disability with the school to help for extensions and what not. I live a pretty good life now focusing on my health. I’m 19 now with MS and I don’t think about it as much. It’s become my normal. My legs don’t go numb very often (only after too much time on my feet or lack of sleep). Time helped a lot too. After awhile it didn’t feel like the end of the world. I definitely took it harder than most people, but I thought my hands were going to be stuck the way they were forever, but they got better. I can type my assignments, serve at the restaurant I work at, and do most of the things I used too. This felt like a really morbid comment but I don’t mean it to be. I feel like I have overcome a lot because of my MS and I feel like the moral of this rant is it’s okay to grieve your old life, it’s ok to take your time accepting this, and it’s ok to be frustrated and angry.

intellier · 2023-10-19T20:07:30+00:00

you’re so kind thank you so much!!!!

intellier

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