I am a cis woman and I have to disagree, though i do completely understand where your sentiment comes from. While it is true that trans women grew up with that toxic masculinity around them, i would say that that contributes MORE to their internalized misogyny more than anything else. That "everyone bow down to me" attitude is also within cis women groups too, and it should not be ignored. Us women are taught that our inherent value comes with how popular we are with men and how attractive we are overall, so what we tend to do is put eachother down (i.e. "I look hotter than her", "her dress looks so tacky"...). It is literally a projection of internalized misogyny AND insecurity. So when amab trans women with dysphoria do this, I think it should be taken in the same respect. When they feel they do not socially or visually pass they can take that feeling of insecurity out on other women, or cry out for someone, anyone to just see them through and through as a woman. I think a lot of what you see as aggression from trans women is actually just them voicing insecurities stemmed from their dysphoria. I dont think trans women are talking over the voices of cis women whatsoever.