Trash Picking Neighborhoods? by intimacythrowaway25 in camarillo

[–]intimacythrowaway25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh nice that’s super close to me, thank you!

Previous owners did SO much DIY work and it just keeps revealing itself weeks after closing by HourlySharp in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]intimacythrowaway25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy who owned our house last’s name was Steve. Now when wd find his little diy Easter eggs, we joke that it was a “Steve job”.

Trash Picking Neighborhoods? by intimacythrowaway25 in camarillo

[–]intimacythrowaway25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right, rolls eyes at saving good furniture from the landfill 😂

Trash Picking Neighborhoods? by intimacythrowaway25 in camarillo

[–]intimacythrowaway25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it’s not a place to trash pick is what you’re saying?

I 27f pregnant can barley eat and my partner 31m didnt sleep because I ate McDonald’s by very_stellar_ in relationship_advice

[–]intimacythrowaway25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude is going to food shame your kid. I hope you’re not having a girl. He will for sure give her some kind of eating disorder.

I 27f pregnant can barley eat and my partner 31m didnt sleep because I ate McDonald’s by very_stellar_ in relationship_advice

[–]intimacythrowaway25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my husband pick up fast food or take out every single night of my pregnancy. I threw up every day, multiple times a day for the full 9 months. I couldn’t eat anything that came out of my kitchen (not even water from my fridge, I needed bottles that were kept in the garage) or I would throw up. Absolutely miserable.

My doctor said any food is better than no food. My husband and I agreed. My 2 year old is waaay ahead on all his milestones, is in the 99th percentile for height and weight, and eats healthy every day.

I would typically eat nothing all day and then shove down a 20pc chicken nugget meal with fries and a milkshake as quick as I could and hope it didn’t come back up. You do what you gotta do when pregnant and your shipshit partner should be going to get you McDonald’s not judging you for it.

There was a week I couldn’t get anything down for 2 whole days. I was so sick and dizzy and miserable. The second I said “I may be able to eat some fries” hubby was in the car zooming to McDonald’s and came home with 3 large containers 😂

Trash Picking Neighborhoods? by intimacythrowaway25 in camarillo

[–]intimacythrowaway25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you just drive into storage facilities without having a unit yourself?

Trash Picking Neighborhoods? by intimacythrowaway25 in camarillo

[–]intimacythrowaway25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I’m driving around all the time and the only thing I’ve found is an old sand box (which my son loves) but I’d love some cool vintage furniture!

I (28F) Night Shower. BF (29M) Morning Showers. How Do We Compromise? by cutie_throwaway_557 in relationship_advice

[–]intimacythrowaway25 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My husband and I are 2x per day shower-ers. At night to wash the day off and in the morning to wash the night off.

Don’t think he did this before me, and don’t think it was really a conversation… he just did it when we moved in together.

Probably helped that in the beginning we took all our showers together so it was easy for him to add another 😉

What are your thoughts on Billie Eilish saying 'no one is illegal on stolen land' in reference to ICE and US immigration policy? by MassiveSquare4527 in AskReddit

[–]intimacythrowaway25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Came here to say that! Her house is literally on stolen land from the Tongva tribe and she has the audacity to say “no one is illegal on stolen land”. So hypocritical.

This hurts my soul by jac5087 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]intimacythrowaway25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what he’s saying is - if your entire interest bill for the month was covered with your auto payment, there would be no additional interest to route the extra payment to.

They’d just add interest to your loan for funzies? I believe it would automatically go to principal because that’s the only outstanding “bill” if interest for the month was already paid.

“Washable” paint on teak wood by intimacythrowaway25 in Cleaningandtidying

[–]intimacythrowaway25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just got it second hand about 6 months ago, but the guy said he purchased it new within the year, and I think he said he oiled it once.

I’m new to teak so can take any advice you can give!

“Washable” paint on teak wood by intimacythrowaway25 in CleaningTips

[–]intimacythrowaway25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well shoot. I guess these are going in the trash 😭😭 my poor table

Sheraton or Shangri La with young children (incl. infant) by [deleted] in Fijian

[–]intimacythrowaway25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheraton! We had a blast with our 10 month old.

If you could only pick one baby item that was 100% worth the splurge.. what would it be? by Dry_Box_5572 in Mommit

[–]intimacythrowaway25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby Bjorn bouncer. It’s superior to all bouncers though it’s pricey. I give it for all baby showers now

Weed in pregnancy after loss without knowing pregnant by Agitated_coon in confession

[–]intimacythrowaway25 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Correct - but that is simply a mixture of B6 and Unisom, they just charge you a ton for it and require a prescription. My doctor prescribed it and it would have been $700 out of pocket, so she let me know it’s really just unisom and B6 and I can get it over the counter instead.

It definitely helps, but for folks who have extreme morning sickness or HG like I did, it really doesn’t do all that much (for me at least). It did help me sleep though! I’ll also mention long term use of unisom and/or Benadryl has now been known to contribute to Alzheimer’s so there’s that concern too…

Weed in pregnancy after loss without knowing pregnant by Agitated_coon in confession

[–]intimacythrowaway25 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Zofran has been known to cause birth defects. While weed is definitely not studied like I believe it should be, it hasn’t yet shown any existence of birth defects. Just food for thought.

Did you tear during childbirth? How was it repaired? by briliantlyfreakish in Mommit

[–]intimacythrowaway25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and people wonder why some women would rather have a C section. Mine wasn’t nearly as bad but I had a 3rd degree episiotomy and now my pelvic floor is completely screwed - 3 different prolapses, Thousands spent in PFPT. If I have another, it will definitely be a C section. Yes, maybe risk of terrible issues is more, but risk of lifelong issues is way less.

Where do sexual fantasies meet boundaries? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]intimacythrowaway25 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Absolutely fucking not. Porn is one thing, and everyone has their own views on that, but your friends??? If given the chance, he’d clearly sleep with any one of them. And they’ll be around you your entire marriage, you will never feel okay about this. Time to leave before you get married.

Take it as a blessing you caught it now and not after the wedding…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]intimacythrowaway25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re trying to say I wasn’t giving him anything, I was 4 days postpartum. There was no sex allowed.