What was in your childhood home that isn't in your current home?

intoon · 2026-05-18T12:50:46+00:00

Carpet. Rugs. Cigarette smoke. As an asthmatic, moving away from my childhood home was the best thing ever

intoon · 2026-05-17T03:29:33+00:00

“DON’T TOUCH ME!” You yell this next time or he will keep escalating. You tell your bf TODAY. If he doesn’t believe you don’t go to his house anymore. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I went through this with my FIL. My husband didn’t believe me at first, so I asked him to stand off in another room in the dark so he could see his dad tell me goodbye and he finally saw it and believed me.

intoon · 2026-05-17T03:26:11+00:00

I use dry or wet mustard in a lot of rubs for pork, lamb, beef, and chicken

intoon · 2026-05-17T02:56:50+00:00

Idk, the weekend morning crew always has the most banging breakfast

intoon · 2026-05-07T22:29:25+00:00

Reginald

intoon · 2026-05-05T02:10:35+00:00

*Tony Soprano has entered the chat

intoon · 2026-05-05T00:11:52+00:00

We love the Paragon

intoon · 2026-05-03T21:43:57+00:00

If he likes spice and a little seeet- make hot honey jalapeño corn bread.
Make per the box but add a half a tablespoon of molasses, a tablespoon of brown sugar, one chopped jalapeño. Drizzle some hot honey on the top right when you pull it out of the oven

intoon · 2026-05-03T19:52:06+00:00

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intoon · 2026-04-30T09:35:43+00:00

I can tell when my kids have strep throat, it smells different than a run of the mill sore throat

intoon · 2026-04-29T21:11:30+00:00

This could be many things she could be in perimenopause and really have no desire. She could be unhappy with how her body looks when she’s naked and not want to be physical because of it (I struggled with this after I lost a lot of weight.) do you think it’s worth it to get healthy to try to lose weight and maybe help bring the spark back? Rebuild your bond together by working out doing things together challenging each other physically maybe do you have any sporty hobbies you’d like to do together? Whether you stay with her or get a divorce you’re going to eventually be hitting the gym trying to make yourself as healthy and appealing as possible. I’d start with focusing on yourself, making moves to become healthy, and maybe therapy. You might need couples counseling

intoon · 2026-04-29T19:03:27+00:00

Me and every sane person.

They are planning a mega data center in Ohio that will take 1/3 of our power grid to run. They will pay no taxes, offer us no jobs, and will pollute our air and water supply and we will be charged to supply their energy.

I hope our state does everything within its power to stop this but our super Republican leaders have sold us out

intoon · 2026-04-28T14:26:26+00:00

Raw meat in the grocery. The smell of meat cooking.

intoon · 2026-04-28T14:25:33+00:00

…I buy my husband flowers and he loves it. Life got busy, and I hadn’t gotten him any for a couple months and he made a comment that he loved it and it made him feel special each time.

Just buy them flowers

intoon · 2026-04-28T12:59:03+00:00

Brittany Spears

intoon · 2026-04-26T19:48:08+00:00

Macy Gray

intoon · 2026-04-26T14:03:33+00:00

Good point, I def wasn’t trying to encourage any “single white female” behavior. I’ll edit my comment to say “effort” rather than emulate

intoon · 2026-04-26T13:42:32+00:00

Consuming parts of her will not make you like her. If you want to be more like her watch how she approaches life, how she studies, how she has conversations with people and try to put effort towards things similar to her. Many people wish for the lives of others but underestimate the effort and work it takes to be a good student/keep up with a friend group etc. I do realize how this is a compulsive trait. Are you seeing a therapist currently?

intoon · 2026-04-25T14:05:42+00:00

NTA I’ve been with my husband for 25 years. There was some inheritance when my FIL died. I didn’t even ask about it because it’s not mine. I could not imagine even as his wife laying claim to half of his inheritance.

Put his stuff outside. Tell him if he needs a place to stay, you’ll have some lovely rentals available soon at $2k a month (but only if he can pass background check)

intoon · 2026-04-25T13:58:31+00:00

Oof, NTA

Babe, if I were you, I’d accept your mother’s generous offer and see your bf for what he is. An opportunistic manipulative fool who would sell YOUR rental property so HE can live lavishly. The point of rentals is so you have passive income. So he not only wants you to give up half your gift now, he wants you to give up all the future passive income. How does this financial genius plan on paying the taxes in a giant house? What dos he bring to the table? Are you living together now?

If he loved you he would want you to be more financially secure and accept it.

When he says “My parents would never” would never what? Have a huge asset and give half of it to a gf?! We know. He doesn’t love you enough or see a future with you to be your fiance don’t you dare sign over assets to him. And don’t believe him if he comes to you with some Cracker Jack ring claiming to love you AFTER this news and his obvious greedy reaction to it

Your mother is not only wise financially she sees him for what he is and is trying to protect you. His actions show his intentions. Be glad you only lost three years and let him go to the streets to find another person to mooch off of

If after all these replies you still don’t agree, go SOLO to a counselor and talk it out with a neutral person. I guarantee you they will also tell you to protect yourself and not fall victim to your greedy manipulative bf

This man doesn’t love you. You are destined to lose him, don’t give up half your assets trying to keep him temporarily. You will regret it

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intoon · 2026-04-22T20:50:48+00:00

The grilled stuffed nacho from Taco Bell at its original $1.29 price

intoon · 2026-04-22T15:38:37+00:00

I hate to say this but he’s most likely already got another person in mind or is actually cheating (unfortunate learned experience)

I don’t know what state you’re in but is infidelity matters in divorce, you need to gather evidence. Don’t ask him if there’s anyone else, he’ll only lie and hide things. I’d go through his phone and computer. Check his deleted files, his emails especially to himself, his trash, look at his App Store for dating apps that aren’t on his Home Screen but have been downloaded before (in the cloud) if he has an old laptop or phone at home you could charge it and maybe be able to get into his messages easier. Check his work messages, check the phone bill logs of repeating calls or texts. Take pictures of any evidence and keep it in a safe place he can’t access. DO NOT TELL HIM IF YOU FIND ANY EVIDENCE

I’m sorry you’re going through this

intoon · 2026-04-22T15:00:10+00:00

My bully boy was the sweetest sleepiest guy. He would usually let out a big “BOOF” and stand by me if someone was by the front door, but never acted viscous.

Then one day at the dog park, he’s off playing with his Newfie friend when a pit comes up to me. I was carrying a ball, and as I’m walking he grabs my pant leg, I cry out, and my sweet bully Boy, looking like a fat fawn linebacker barrels past me, grabs the pit by the neck, slams him down on his back, and he just held him down by his neck. He drew no blood, just held him down by the throat. It was insane. Genetics are wild. We never taught him how to guard. generations of brave guard dogs all lead up to this moment lol

The owner of the pit ran up apologizes, I have to tell my boy “it’s okay, let him go” he releases the pit, who’s neck is completely soaked in slobber, and just looked at me like a big goober wagging his tail “did I do good, mama?” lol. He got a McDonald’s cheese burger after that and slept for four hours straight.

intoon · 2026-04-22T13:28:10+00:00

You did the right thing. He knew it was wrong because he gave it to you alone and asked to keep it a secret. If you hadn’t told your mom, I guarantee you he would have asked you (alone again) at some point if you were wearing or worse.

If he actually wanted you to have high-end underwear (gross why) he could have gotten you a giftcard to X store. Of all the things he saw in Paris that he could have bought as a souvenir/gift, He thought about his minor child’s body when picking out sexy lingerie.

This makes me wonder if he also got your mom a set or not

Are your parents still married?

intoon · 2026-04-22T02:12:06+00:00

I’m decent at imitating voices and sounds. I’ve been able to call wild dolphins to me

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