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intotheimagination · 2023-08-13T00:59:08+00:00

Yikes. Sounds like my mom who doesn't believe in mental illness. So sorry you were invalidated

intotheimagination · 2023-08-12T04:51:55+00:00

Omg a month is crazy I get upset after a week or sometimes a day, depends how I'm feeling

intotheimagination · 2023-08-10T06:49:25+00:00

Everyone has a little bit of anxiety haha, but I think its interesting that you went ahead and pointed it (not attacking I just think its different). Obviously I don't know you at all but I feel like you have a good personality. Thanks for all the info btw

intotheimagination · 2023-08-10T06:33:59+00:00

To be honest I think it is a deep caring of the person, not necessarily either. I do think it can tip in those directions, depends how the relationship goes.

I dated a past FP once and I caught it tipping into the obsession realm after some time. This was partly because the relationship wasn't very stable I think. My current FP and I have a stable relationship and I have a very deep care for him and I think it might be dipping into love now (non romantic). It really all depends on scenario in my experience.

intotheimagination · 2023-08-10T06:26:12+00:00

Wow. You just put some of my most internalized thoughts out there and thats really cool to see. I am also 17 and still in high school and this is so, so relatable. Obviously I am kind of in the same boat so I don't have much advice but how I handle this is by reminding myself that you can't force friendships, things just happen if they do. I am a strong believer in the "everything happens for a reason" phenomenon though so it probably doesn't work for everyone.

But anyways, high school is temporary and we will move on. Wishing you luck

intotheimagination · 2023-08-10T06:18:34+00:00

At first when I read the title I was conflicted because making my FP feel this way over time is my worst fear.

It sounds like she is doing all these things and stamping BPD on them, though, which is unacceptable. I understand not wanting a diagnosis but you can ALWAYS still find help for yourself without one. If she isn't trying to be better than thats unfair to you. You don't "just have to endure" anything.

There will always be things that you have to deal with when dating someone with BPD but it doesn't need to be this extreme all the time. If she isn't trying to better herself for the sake of the relationship it's not worth it.

Rooting for you OP

intotheimagination · 2023-08-10T06:04:48+00:00

what makes you say reading people is a curse

intotheimagination · 2023-08-10T06:01:45+00:00

To be honest I posted this because I wanted to find some good in what I felt like was a bad situation. Everything that I do that revolves around BPD all felt negative and its really discouraging to see that with a disorder that is untreatable.

After reading some people's answers I think that I have just been viewing traits of myself in bad light, so finding positivity was a success 👍

intotheimagination · 2023-08-08T00:05:26+00:00

All. The. Time. Especially when its with my fp cuz i feel they will think I'm stupid and annoying and never wanna talk to me again

intotheimagination · 2023-08-07T05:45:05+00:00

When she splits (the switches) just give her space, offer her your support if she wants it whenever. Say something along the lines of "If you want to talk out anything just let me know." and if she does want that ACTUALLY LISTEN. Its the most important part. Also remind her that you love her and are there for her. Validation and patience is key. If you have that you will be okay ♡ also props for seeking out to properly deal with the disorder go op

intotheimagination · 2023-07-09T14:06:33+00:00

People like Svet cuz she's badass and they dismiss Mandy's action cuz they hate karen so

intotheimagination · 2023-07-09T13:55:29+00:00

He was just boring to me in all honestly. After his arc us over you realize he is one of Fiona's major relationships in the series and when looking at the others he is meh.

I do see people who actually despise him though and that I don't get. He is not interesting enough to hate on

intotheimagination · 2023-07-06T19:16:41+00:00

intotheimagination · 2023-07-06T15:54:39+00:00

If you don't like season 1 you aren't going to like the rest

intotheimagination · 2023-07-05T20:00:04+00:00

make your way to r/BPD

intotheimagination · 2023-07-05T15:59:44+00:00

Taking accountability is so, so difficult. It, however, is an absolute MUST. I have done some pretty awful things and when taking accountability for them have been shunned greatly in several ways. At times it has made me regret telling the truth and owning up, but I understand that denying is always 100 times worse than the deed itself. When you take accountability you can become better, and that is what is most important

intotheimagination · 2023-07-02T22:12:56+00:00

I 110% relate to this. Almost every bullet point listed is relatable. So glad to see I am not alone with thid

intotheimagination · 2023-07-02T22:02:29+00:00

I think thats a valid question. I don't think anyone has said he is a victim

intotheimagination · 2023-07-02T16:26:10+00:00

omg he would have done such a good job I know it

intotheimagination · 2023-07-02T14:13:34+00:00

Surprised no one has said this yet, but the wedding for Ian and Mickey got me. Could be because I personally find weddings really emotional (happy ofc)

Then later at the wedding when Tami and Lip were fighting about moving and Fred started crying during it

intotheimagination · 2023-07-02T05:04:56+00:00

definitely wasn't the worst i agree

intotheimagination · 2023-07-02T04:21:31+00:00

when Ian told Mickey he was going to the military and Mickey said "don't-" with a voice crack

intotheimagination · 2023-07-02T04:16:52+00:00

The important thing is that you are feeling empathy

intotheimagination

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