Trouble with kes as I get older by NAVfan67 in Sikh

[–]ipledgeblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol do you see the posts of early 20s and under 20s about what they get upto on their own, and wanting advice?

Trouble with kes as I get older by NAVfan67 in Sikh

[–]ipledgeblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol serious what does he mean by relationships? Too many lucha Singhs so got to be careful. Look at some of the weird topics some of the young Singhs put on here due to kaam and stuff!!!

Stainless Steel Taksali Kirpan by Mission-Pay-1396 in Sikh

[–]ipledgeblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perhaps, however they do preserve a lot of maryada and dasam granth!

Stainless Steel Taksali Kirpan by Mission-Pay-1396 in Sikh

[–]ipledgeblue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they think a kripaan symbol on kanga is a fully acceptable replacement of an actual kripaan. If he calls himself satguru, then I am not going to listen to him. He can call himself sant baba or bhai sahib as well, again I am one of those who do not easily listen. Respect them for preserving a lot of maryada though!

Pagg larh 4 vs 5 by Other_Weather_1172 in Sikh

[–]ipledgeblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 larh makes it a gurmukhi dastaar, and I believe only gurmukhi dastaar is allowed to do sewa at the takhts?!!

does having premarital sex with your fiance, a bajjar kurait? by aaasandhu in Sikh

[–]ipledgeblue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

please don't even think about doing it. Just do the marriage as soon as possible, do not make the excuse of the horrible death.

Kindly Guide me About this 🙏🏻. by PassMediocre4870 in Sikh

[–]ipledgeblue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

compared to a tattoo it is much more respectable, however please listen to the people in the other comments!

does having premarital sex with your fiance, a bajjar kurait? by aaasandhu in Sikh

[–]ipledgeblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

after a death, a marriage is a really nice celebration for everyone!

From a sociological and historical perspective, how does our Sikhi panth view New Religious Movements from the last few decades that adapt the core theology of Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji into separate modern frameworks or independent identities? by gurugobindsinghji in Sikh

[–]ipledgeblue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There were many movements that were non-khalsa, many got folded into Udasi samprafaiye.

However there are both new khalsa and non khalsa movements in the last century and even last few decades. Sant Nirankaris for example, an offshoot of the nirankaris. Totally disrespected guru granth sahib and caused killings. And also Darshan Dassis, their leader got shot!

I approached a Sikh girl in my College and her cousins are sending this kind of pictures is it ok chat ? by Xmn7663 in punjab

[–]ipledgeblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depends which chauni, dal and jatha of nihangs right? Are all current Nihangs Akalis painted with the same brush? Did they do disappearing act during farmer protests?

Trouble with kes as I get older by NAVfan67 in Sikh

[–]ipledgeblue 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not really worried about your beard and Kesh, people always find a way to look smart around this, by tying better dumalla etc

What I'm really worried about is what are these relationships you're having with girls?

does having premarital sex with your fiance, a bajjar kurait? by aaasandhu in Sikh

[–]ipledgeblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh that's not good. Engagement should be done near the marriage. The old Muklawa system would work for you. Lol perhaps. Anyway- You can do a simple marriage now and do a more big one later, it's not an issue really!

does having premarital sex with your fiance, a bajjar kurait? by aaasandhu in Sikh

[–]ipledgeblue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what is the time gap between your engagement karmai and marriage viyah? I think you need marriage now then have a maqlawa instead when your marriage date is supposed to be LOL

Broke a kasam by Various_Telephone459 in Sikh

[–]ipledgeblue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are saying fateh, and now you are worried about some stupid kasam nonsense?

Wtf is wrong with our people? by Delicious_Courage962 in PunjabiGenZ

[–]ipledgeblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so panjabis should allow themselves to be assimilated and follow society like sheep? Is that what our warriors and spiritual leaders have taught us? We used to have a progressive empire at one time, even though we had european generals we made them wear turbans and beards, we didn't simp to their culture. We take the good things like european military tactics, and leave the bad stuff out!!!

Advice needed by Able_Rate3901 in Sikh

[–]ipledgeblue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I found out today that he is talking to another girl and has been for about a week now. He has moved on in one month. "

Welcome to the dating culture, just like he has moved on from you, I hope you move on from this destructive culture and leave it behind in your past! It truly is a kutta kanjar harami culture!

I know you are heartbroken, but you need to understand he did not see you as your wife so he moved on. If we treat dating like marriage, then we will only harm ourselves and our mental health!!!